/lesgen/ - Lesbian General

/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis and trans lesbians to discuss lesbian relationships and topics. All wlw welcome to participate in lesbian discussion.

Please keep /lesgen/ discussion focused on wlw (women loving women). Trans discussion not relevant to the intersection between being trans and lesbian is off-topic. Topics such as dysphoria spiraling, starting HRT, passing, and validation are better suited for the multitude of trans-related threads on the board. Topics related to personal drama, including but not limited to tripfags or discord, are also not relevant. Please report and ignore any and all rulebreakers!

QOTT: Can you swim?

FAQ

Am I lesbian or bisexual?

Lesbians are women exclusively attracted to women. Bi women are welcome to post here about being wlw as well.

Are genital preferences valid?

Sexual orientation is innate and we can’t choose what sex characteristics we’re attracted to. However, discussing how much you dislike a certain set of genitals can be rude and disrespectful. In the same vein, shaming others for their attraction or lack thereof is also disrespectful. Bee kind.

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previously

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sex with a woman

May I ask when u began hrt? And if u think u ook female? I'm not "stealth" I'm a hermit but having been doing social experiments since 2022 or so
That makes sense tho
I wanna be positive too but I'm paranoid Abt election laws

I want to swim in a cool lake or just look at one after I replace my hip surg. I'll ideally go this upcoming summer.

laf you looked really botched in that one selfie you posted a few days ago
i think in a few years you will end up looking like an alien

Please keep /lesgen/ discussion focused on wlw (women loving women). Trans discussion not relevant to the intersection between being trans and lesbian is off-topic. Topics such as dysphoria spiraling, starting HRT, passing, and validation are better suited for the multitude of trans-related threads on the board.

Ah well I don't get face surgery anymore. I haven't had any face surg beyond a round of ffs, then revision nose and chin. I just had a lot of body surgery and had nose issues, but nose was fixed. On my face I only plan to do skin stuff and maybe a facelift in my earlyish 30s if I don't kms then. For other surgeries just body stuff and maintenance

Sorry I was just curious. I won't bring up any other trans topics.

I won't bring up any other trans topics.

lol even

you make these threads so much worse every day im so tired of you

This

y'all so mean some people do nothing but off topic post but you only go after the trannies

Well I don't wanna be too revealing but I've been on hrt for almost 14 years. Started young but post puberty. I think I appear female more due to contextual clues like my mannerisms and voice rather than my body and face. I sort've have an androgynous afab boymother thing going on. I don't know if we share the exact definition of stealth but I have passed for cis for a good chunk of my life essentially to all types of different people. Tho I would not pass the tranny smell test if put under a microscope by my peers, but who could?

She isn't a lesbian. She has no right to turn this general into her personal BDD dumping ground.
People tried to ask her nicely dozens of times but she won't stop.

being mean to trannies is like really fun tho

tranny

Thread is brand new and ALREADY being derailed by Laffer bullshit. Great.

tbd tbd

Oh ok. Ty for answering. I was asking Abt if u think body looked female basically. But ty for the reply I kinda understand and don't wanna anger people here with more invasive questions.
R u bisexual or gynephelic? Do you live in America? If so r u paranoid Abt election? Did u do any anti aging stuff? What was the success of it?

a lesbian making an "off topic" post is fine imo, the issue is that laffers is not a lesbian and has not once made an "on topic" post.

jennifers body

Why are you here? You aren't attracted to women sexually or romantically.

I am questioning and think I might be gynephelic or slightly interested in women but it's uncertain

laffers is not a lesbian and has not once made an "on topic" post

painfully true. nothing she has ever posted has had anything to do with loving women, ever. it's the same off-topic shit from her thread after thread, because we're the only audience she has left.

Why don't you ever fucking post about that then? Literally the only time you ever bring it up is when people call you out for being a non-lesbian (or even bisexual) but for some reason constantly BDD posting inside the lesbian thread.

I think my body looks female yeah especially my breasts, it's just my frame is very much inverted triangle and androgynous leaning. I'm almost entirely gynephelic, but I've been with men and not regretted it. I live in America. Not worried about the election at all partially because I'm in a very blue state. I do my skincare and spf and I think I look pretty young for my age, but I don't do anything too advanced. I look like my mom did at this age (same forhead lines too thanks mom)

engaging with laffers

I dunno what to say Abt it and am unsure and also makes me uncomfortable

Ok ty for the answer. Which blue state? U think is safe? What age did u get lines, using just skincare like tret and SPF and mositurizing? What's your fav food? Did u have a boob job? If so, when did u replace it (how many years)?

you are incredibly pathetic, lying to yourself and others to justify posting in a Anon Babble thread. i pity you.

I'm not lying but ur really aggressive and mean and I don't want to argue with u.

Can't say the state sorry. My forehead lines started to appear in my late 20s. I just use basic stuff cleanser, toner moisturizer/spf. If I had more money I'd probably start using serums again from the ordinary. I used to do skincare masks and other things like this but not so much anymore. My favorite food is honestly potato chips lol definitely my goto guilty snack. I never had a boob job I'm more than satisfied with my natural growth. Cycled prog for a bit and Cycled my weight and honestly they never really stopped growing and changing shape and getting rounder, just slowed significantly.

engaging with laffers

you deserve it you make others feel worse constantly and ironically contribute to the exact same fears you post about constantly. you are a bad person and you deserve to suffer at this point.

You've admitted before that you understand you shouldn't post the stuff you post here but you choose to do so anyway because you're "desperate" to talk about it

posting pictures of skimpy women to gross out laffers until she fucks off, part 1

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you should post botched surgeries as well

Ah ok. Ty for answering. That's interesting. What's ur fav potato chip flavor? Fav dip? In addition to any lines did u get any noticable volume loss or skin laxity in late 20s? By late do u mean closer to 27 or like 29? Is a bit of a complex topic. For me I'm torn whether to die earlyish, or do facelift and then get a few more years.

Yes I shudnt post Abt trans. I'm sorry. I'll try to stop it. I'm not asking anything trans related just age

Skimpy women don't gross me out I used to have a folder of pretty women and thinspo and so forth. I'm prbbly gynephelic as stated. I'm pretty sure I am since I can goon post srs. however I am obsessed with age and face lines so after I turned like 22 every time I saw a woman who had a Wikipedia id Google to see her age to asses timeline

I'll try to stop it.

you say this every single thread. stop lying.

you are a horrible person

Yes I do say it a lot and fail. I'm sorry. Your life might better be spent on other stuff than trying to get me to leave here

laffers may not belong here but pics of hot girls sure do

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i used to like you and defend you but you really are a lost cause. sad, honestly.

what what

I'm sorry :(((
I'll try to be better
My back hurts

i know you won't be better, it's been years. i give up.

I'll try to be better

stop lying. you constantly say this. we're fed up. just leave.

some ppl just can't be helped, so help yourself to this hot pic instead

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i just want comfy lesgen back :(

never existed

i find it comfy when laffers doesn't spend 1/3 of the thread talking about how existing as a trans person is worse than being a jew with full blown aids in 1942 germany

si meg hva du vill så lenge du er bare min

bodysuit butts >.<

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Sorry I'm just paranoid. I'll try to be better. Really.
If u want I could even post pictures of women from my body and face folder on my laptop. Unsure if that's what u want and what u mean by fitting in tho.

QOTT: Can you swim?

6 years waterpolo, I still remember how to swim and how to egg beater but that was a long time ago and I am not sure how I would look in a swimsuit today.

ask and you shall receive

yeah that would be really hard since aids wasn't invented until the 1980s by the-

hoi4 DLC is out today anyone playing??

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I just had an intrusive thoughts Abt u. I was imagining if people found out they all had a British doppelganger with a cockney accent and who looked just like them except more British. They'd get a pint and stuff

I think we need more pics of skimpy women to lust after

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aids

1942

waow . .. .... .. . . .... . .... ..

based based based based based based based

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why would lying more help your lying problem? you are not a lesbian, this is a lesbian thread. larping fixes nothing when the issue is YOU.

Very pretty/thin. Need lose weight

Love this gif ty

I'm a MTF who is prbbly gynephelic. Isn't that what u r too? Or do u mean since I'm not a bio female? I thought 90% of people here were MTF.

moving goal posts now are we? why are you so desperate to fit in somewhere you don't belong and where everyone hates you? it has nothing to do with being trans or not, you are just not a lesbian, you are not attracted to women, you simply do not belong here yet you invade this space and derail threads constantly. you need psychiatric help.

I am pretty sure I am gynephelic and have a brain which is attracted to women. I'm not entirely sure and am a bit confused but yeh. If I wanted attention for the sake of it I'd post on bigen or chasergen or some other maleXtrans dating gen. They're bigger communities too I'm sure. I was in their server and it was cool

I work in an office and I'm almost 31, so I think I may qualify.
Not at all cute however.

you aren't attracted to women, you want to be one but your brain is poisoned so you think that makes you attracted to them. you are not a lesbian, if you wouldn't make out and go on dates with another woman you are not a lesbian. and if you like male attention and like them so much why the fuck are you here? you bring up men here constantly you are so fucking annoying and not even good at pretending to be a lesbian.

she is here coz she got bullied out of /mtfg/ and banned from like 3 discord servers for constant bdd posting and doom posting, we are the merely the latest unlucky audience she has picked to be her dumping ground

25 and I am burdened by regrets

I am questioning but I think I am gynephelic and like women face/bodies. Please leave me alone. I'm not doing anything bad rn. And don't plan to

tushy :o

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I love my office job!

guys so this is gonna sound embarrassing and rude but um so i met this tgirl on this hrt support discord server and we’ve been talking for almost a month and rly hit it off but we’ve been too nervous to send eachother pics of what we look like. uhh she just sent me a pic a little bit ago tho and i hate to say this because i rly rly love talking to her but umn she’s kind of pretty ugly sort of? like i know thats pretty rude to say but like idk what to do now, ive really loved talking to her but umn idk if i really wanna meet now idkk >_< (she’s about a couple months on hrt and im almost a year in)

developing feelings before seeing pics

rookie mistake, you hate to see it

personally if I was her i'd rope at this point

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im aware
you have actively been causing issues and have never once stopped. if i stop berating you you'll just wait a few minutes then go back to your normal BDD thread derailing tendencies, in fact you even did just this in this thread earlier. stop lying.

guys pls what is the play here wtf do i do i feel horrible

i have no advice other than this is the reason i avoid online dating i have no clue what to tell people when im not attracted to them. the only thing i can think of is just kind of forcing both of u to drift apart but that's kind of mean.

Ghost her probably

brutal

35yr old ex goth girl now going to be good girl

guys is it normal to have discoloration on ur underwear? i wipe but still there are stains...

I'm not sure that's a good question. Maybe if u sweat a lot then it could happen. I get SRS stains if I wear the underwear a ton and don't wash it and sit too long and get hurt or whatever.

What's a good brand of shoes to buy? I have weird feet, shoes are always tighter on one foot than the other and most shoes seem to slip off the back of my heels. Also I'm like a women's size 11 so lol at the thought of buying anything but men's shoes ever

louboutins

Sorry, I should specify I meant shoes for normal people

idk about specific sizes for different feet, but I am a womans size 11.5 and good luck trying to find anything for that size, the places I had luck are for;
for runners or for daily walking then hoka
for fall/spring/light winter boots I got a pair of blundstones
for normal non walking some random high converse shoes
and for super heavy winter or snow I have a pair of my dads hiking shoes

Would you date a corporate salary-slave who is improving her economic position every month, learning new skills, aiming for a doctorate in the future, and so on, but she lives with a deep hole in her heart because she wasted her youth doing worthless shit and always despairs at knowing that she could be doing better if she hadn't fucked up so hard as a young woman?

wtf sister you pooped your britches

a corporate salary slave who has an emotionally unfulfilling life is the ideal partner. I am aiming for a masters in psychology and aiming to heal and satisfy someone who is a bit older but successful in life. I would stay up to 3am talking to you about your issues taking careful notes, preparing lunches and dinners while you vent your problems, I would hold emotional space for you in a gentle light... hng

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Me except I am a college dropout with a Nepo job

I work in lowish level accounting. I like my job because it's low stress and easy. I never get yelled at. I get paid ok. I am very lucky to have it. I worry I'll lose it tho with changes to the economy and gov and also state laws. I have no ambition in life. Except to be safe, stable, not yelled at and be able to get the anti aging stuff I want. Id also like to adopt kitties and have friendship/love. I need to replace my hips surg then do maybe Botox on my trapezius. I also need to do fraxel resurfacing and maybe Botox at 25/26. Id like to visit national parks too but I can't drive and cannot afford yet. I hope I can have low stress work where I'm not yelled at forever. But I can easily envision a scenario where I lose my job and become homeless or back to food service.

Yeah no I've just accepted I'm going to wear men's shoes forever, all I've ever worn for 10 years is basically men's clothing...10 years.

dont care

never asked you

hey nothing wrong with a butch, get that carabiner on a belt out

if women's clothes looked good on me i'd wear them but here we are

There's not but I'm not one, I just boymode out of fear

toronto gf?