is it worth going through a “slut phase”, have had 50/50 thoughts on it.
fairly inexperienced aswell. Only one bj so far
Is it worth going through a “slut phase”, have had 50/50 thoughts on it
No. Find a partner, you will be used like sex toy and you m ight get a STI. Or try a friend, someone you can trust. It's not worth to slut out to disgusting old men
I've been contemplating this too. I've been so good my whole life, I just want to have some fun now.
even with condoms? But I get your point seems risky asf
i wish sn old man would use me and buy me a Lexus lfa
Oh lawdy dip me in honey and throw me to the slutty tgirl gang
not rly
u gain
some experience
u lose
ur worth, the ability to bond with a partner, prolly a part of ur soul
Or one of you can be my gf (male)
Get a partner. Trust first. IMO it's hotter having a slut that's all about your cock being a whore is overrated. I want a healthy relationship with toxic relationship sex
Yes. Absolutely. Be careful and test between partners.
Get a partner.
feel this is impossible for my ass since I’m like super introverted and bad at socializing. (might actually have a tiny bit of autism lol). I get what you mean though
But anon, finding a man with sex drive high enough to match mine is what I call a slut phase
have you had sex with a man yet?
blew one guy but it was awhile ago. (3-ish years), but in terms of butt stuff. I’m a virgin
I like my men introverted and clingy. There's someone out there for you. Just don't let yourself get used because men will destroy your feelings and abandon you in a heartbeat. I'd suggest being friends for a long time first and getting to really know someone.
Do whatever works for you
i see.
well your virginity is precious sweetheart. and you can only give it away once...
so maybe before you consider a slut period try looking for a guy you really connect with. someone who will care about you, love you. someone you want to give a part of yourself away to. because once its gone its not coming back...and itll be far better if its with someone you trust, and even better than that if its with someone you love.
is it bad that I wanna feel used/worthless.
same thing with this, i don’t really hold my virginity in high regard.
might just be porn-brained
nta but how do you casually fuck your friends
a lot of girls dont, especially when they're young. but they always remember their first time. and if its not a pleasant experience it can end up a deep wound that never really goes away. you can make your choices. but just think about how it might effect you when you've moved on past this phase. you want to feel worthless now, but what if one day you want that feeling to go away? and the first experience you had with having sex you were used and discarded. youll never forget it.
If you're considering it, you might as well just do it. What's the difference? All the consequences people talk about are mental (plus STDs), and if you're considering it you're already there mentally.
muh pair bonding
Don't worry, whores can't pair bond so go ahead and have fun
Need this also
there is no soul left in this anon. i wonder why.
you are right about that, damn everyone makes valid points. Even more confused than before.
for my first 20 or so partners, i was only having sex for validation. guys off grindr would pressure me into doing things i said i didn’t, and take advantage of bc they knew they could. it’s only by chance i came away without any infections. spending the time looking for a fwb is worth it, the sex is way better if you find someone comfy.
you are really pretentious about having sex for the first time
Id rather go to your house, hold you, and then abuse you sexually.
wya?
No, but the wrong person will give you mental trauma and I would advise exploring these kinds of kinks within the boundaries of safe, loving, healthy dynamic with someone who deeply cares and appreciates you instead of being used and thrown away after like you're absolutely fucking nothing. A lot of people want to be degraded, used, etc. And it's normal to have kinks but who you explore that with is incredibly important.
date older men with money, u get the financial benefit and also the slutty aspect of age difference while those dudes are experienced and can serve as sort of sexual mentor too
If you're confused, take the safe options, you can always be slutty later if you're on HRT.
might just be the choice, gonna stay “pure” for now I guess.
good girl
i'm married now and kinda regret not having tried all kinds of things before, but I also wouldn't cheat on my partner
your virginity is precious sweetheart
that's cringe
When my ex confessed his slut phase I lost feelings for him, and broke up soon after
doesn’t mean she should just give herself away to whatever guy will look at her bittershit
good for him, now go back to church
yeah not even gonna try being a slut. every tran i know that has been through one was miserable. i just need a boyfriend who will use my like a toy but longterm, its the best option
op here, yeah this is the plan, I wanna get abused so bad but I guess I’ll opt for a special someone. Like I want someone abusive but only during sex.
I wanna get abused so bad
How much thought have you actually put into this?
uh kinda had that urge since I was like 15, so been bottled up for a bit. but could change once I actually get fucked
prefect gf material at least.
I've fantasized about it a lot because it's a really hot concept desu, but realistically I've decided that I'm better off saving my virginity for a man I want to stay with long term.
The exception to this is if I end going transbian, in which case she would have to be okay with me/us getting dicked down by real men occasionally, I can't see myself being satisfied in a relationship with a girl otherwise. I feel like this type of dynamic would be way less mentally damaging compared to normal slutting since we would only have romantic feelings for one another and keep the stuff with men purely sexual.
oh, hai baka. go ahead and slut out, its not like your useless life is worth anything. dont you have a shift at taco bell to get ready for?