Do you ever miss your ex?

I do and I miss them everyday even though its my fault for driving them away in the first place
jose imy im sorry

not really. i used to and i still think of her every now and then but i've seen her a couple of weeks ago and she's just so different from who i knew, like a shell of herself. but what kills me is sometimes i see cute girls on my phone and they all look like her

i miss every single bit of her
she made me feel happy, safe, and i dreamt of a future with her
now she's gone
im trying to move on and its really hard
she said i did nothing wrong and that i am one of the most wonderful people in the world, but i feel like she made the best decision possible because she deserved way better

i've moved on in the sense that i wouldn't want to get back with them, but we had been friends for a decade and we had a beautiful beginning of the relationship. but dysporia was eating me alive, it destroyed us. made me absolutely miserable to be around when i could be bothered, i treated our bed like it was only meant for sex and sleep instead of a place we could be together, and sex made me feel angry & judged & isolated. they ended up cheating on me with a guy that made them feel wanted for the first time in years. then in my post breakup rage i burned every last bridge we had connecting us and i can't ever repair that friendship.
at this point i wish i could just talk about it and genuinely apologize. tell them that i learned how to be happy, that i take care of myself, that i learned how to read a room, that i learned how to give a shit about the people around me. i wish it hadn't taken losing them to figure it out, but i did actually learn and change.
i hope you and your bf are doing good Sky, i mean it genuinely.

I used to. But as we remained very good friends (we see each other every week basically and do holy days together with our friends) and as we changed further I now realize we are much closer now as friends than the last months we were together, which kinda hurts and it's kinda good.
She's a good person and we enjoy each other's company, but I wouldn't get back into a relationship with her, what we have now is much better and healthier for the both of us.

like you wouldn't fucking believe. i planned to marry her then one day she realized she was a lesbian and dropped me stone cold to join a trans polycule. i alternate between being happy she found out before we tied the knot and fantasizing about killing her partners with my bare hands. legitimately i doubt i will ever get over her or fully heal from this.

i hope and pray this is the outcome for me and my ex. they moved to my state for us to be together after being friends for a decade. we dated for awhile, they tried being poly and it ended up badly as i got mistreated and they chose their other partner. the breakup was earlier this year, and the worst thing is losing my best friend. i realize that they weren't truly the best for me, but fuck do i miss them. not even romantically anymore. i miss being close to each other and i miss showing different acts of kindness of love for each other. we're apart of the same super small internet friend circle, but i never see them in person anymore. and they have their own group of friends revolving mostly around their partner. i feel like ill be excluded forever.

I hope it turns out well for you. My ex has a partner, but she doesn't forget her friends and spends a lot of time with us.
Helps that we live in the same city.

i'm in a similar situation, we were engaged and then she got poached by a polycule out of nowhere and moved in with them
i couldn't eat or sleep for months and honestly i feel so retarded thinking she was the one while it was so easy for her to just vanish

All the time, but my aim is improving.

yeah she died roughly a decade ago and she still haunts my dreams from time to time

i love her i love her i love her i love her i love her
its painful to only be friends

Yes and no.
I miss my best friend (before we dated) than I do my ex more than anything

pair bonded with my ex, loved every part of her especially how her mind worked, even when her mind tortured her a myriad of ways wish i could make it better. i’ll miss what we had forever

I dont even know what heartbreak is like.
kill me.

No I guarantee my exes miss me far more than I miss them

Dang, wish that was what happened with me and my ex.

thank you. sadly as much as id like it, i find it hard imagining my ex would ever go out of their way like that for me. not that theyre a bad person, just that...they are extremely passive. the type to not make plans, not think about inviting others, the type not even think about compromising to make plan work. just overall a wet towel on that front. maybe that's a bit to mean. maybe they only ever did that to me. but for a long time now i would suggest something, they'd say something was going on that day, and it would be up to me to figure it out without any help from them. i don't know, im just sorta venting at this point. i think all the time how they're just a 30min drive away and i could go see them anytime, despite knowing itll never happen.the reason we broke up was they asked their partner to move in with them without first telling me they were even considering that. but the truth is i think they are just an extremely weak person at relationship with others, contradicted by an extremely charismatic personality that seems to draw people like fish to water. despite once being as close as we were, now that the bond we had was severed they don't know how to even begin rebuilding it. leaving it to me. again.

every day, its been 3 and a half years since we saw each other

i wish a million times i wouldve been better to her. I think she was the only decent person i have ever met. She's kinda like a role model for me now

im so sorry anon its bizarre that this happened to both of us. i feel you though. the pain is so acute it overwhelms everything. we're gonna make it, somehow.

Youre better off for it. Stay single king

Was she babytrans?

that...they are extremely passive. the type to not make plans, not think about inviting others, the type not even think about compromising to make plan work. just overall a wet towel on that front. maybe that's a bit to mean. maybe they only ever did that to me.

if they're adhd that's how they are with everyone

This is just a weirdly common phenomena. It happened with my ex but it was a hellhole where I accidentally joined a poly. She learned she was lesbian because of me then dumped me and her original partner for a new girl

fuck, this may end up being the case for me

I used to, but I loathe what he has become since we broke up.
I just wish one day I'll find someone like who he used to be.

yes tbhon.

I miss sucking her girldick

I wish she never left me. It was so sudden and everything we had seemed perfect until then, but she said she just didn't love me like that anymore. Now I'm going nowhere in life and watching her succeed, wondering why I'm so unloveable.

I havent had to deal with ANYthing of my ex's in over 10 years, so no.

Yeah my most recent breakup is the only one that made me understanding writing songs about exes, all the little moments and inside jokes are just going to die without something like that to keep it safe