Nobody ever talks about good healthy love, intimacy or finding their soulmate on this board

i'll keep it brief
me tranny, passoid, pretty cute Id say, very loving and affectionate to all my partners

first soul mate

5 years older than me trans woman, very rich very pretty. I thought she was the one, I had just started transitioning and she was so supportive of me. we ended up breaking up because she was mad I boymoded because she thought I passed the few times I dressed as a girl while dating her (just for dates with her and going to bar)

second

we were so in love, it was her first relationship but my 4th and second real one. We talked about marriage and adopting kids together. She was a cis lesbian. She ended up dumping me for being too autistic.

3rd and most recent

she was the prettiest woman I've ever seen in my life, she was so kind to me when we first started dating, and we talked 24/7.
really messy I had a panic attack while at her place(first time ever with her) and she realized I wasn't worth it anymore and dumped me over text.

third one was trans too btw.

Wish there was a way to filter transbian posts

Truly sorry to hear that anon. Women can be such bitches, cis or trans. Don't give up hope, I'm cheering you on xo

SORRY I WAS ASKED ABOUT IT god damn

So brain worms, autism, and anxiety? Judging from this place you'd think it was normal, but in the real world people get fed up with these things.

See anon? Bitches ;)

LOL I was just thinking the same

Nobody ever talks about good healthy love, intimacy or finding their soulmate on this board.

post lust provoking image

yeah I know. surprisingly my perception of reality is pretty healthy. it's always been I look cute so people start dating me then they get tired of me when they realize I'm not good enough for them because of my mental issues. I stopped boymoding forever ago though so that's good at least.

I just don't think I'll ever be good enough for anyone anymore other than for a quick fuck because that's how it's always been.

She was a cis lesbian. She ended up dumping me for being too autistic

many such cases!

Because it seems kinda unrealistic, I really don't understand how someone can find a partner normally, maybe everyone else is just lying

anon...if i made a thread talking about these sweet things most would ignore it. also, it feels undeserving

Because this is (most of the time) a cesspool of negativity.
In my experience though, I was lucky enough to meet a chunky, autistic artsy japanese guy two years older than me while I was studying abroad in Japan. Unfortunately I had to come back this year, and then I ended up meeting a retired punk dad 8 years older than me and he's loved me in a way I had never been. I don't pass by any means but at least these two found my androgyny attractive (which I thank the universe for). Sometimes it's just a matter of luck, but real love is out there, somewhere.

I don't actually like secularizing.
Better to stay w an ugly trans friend you can trust.

Personally I feel like I'm just going to end up in a straight relationship (which is perfectly fine).

Straight tranners want guys who are more masculine than me and gays are too promiscuous.

yes they do

have perfect skin

ruin it

other people are "conservative christians" if they're simply no longer attracted to you

be born under 6'

work out and take care of yourself

it's ok to loudly body shame you anyway and constantly attempt to undermine your attempts to get ahead in life because you're a moid and if you push back you're an incel who should be killed

I love this culture

what are you talkin about dude

Yeah trying to date trans women can be frustrating. So many of them are looking for hookups. The ethical non monogamy thing often ends up being people with established partners looking for fuckbuddies and hookups more than anything else. It does start to feel kind of gross after a bit, as you find your value to these people is more akin to a sex toy than anything else. This is unfulfilling for many. Some choose to keep it spicy by adding drugs, more partners, more kinks. They found a new label for it but it's the same old shit.

Basically some people use the rules implied by labels like enm to cover for their unethical slut phase where they're trying to figure themselves out. The ethical and poly tags imply knowledge and experience. This is a false assumption. People are messy.

So out of the trans women who aren't poly enm? You have to pick through the unfortunate ones who have not figured out how to present themselves in an attractive way and the very rare, highly sought after, passing trans woman with a normal amount of mental baggage. What a time sink.

Why would she need to call people out unless they're commenting on her body in a rude way, inviting it? Keep your mouth shut about your boner then. You're inviting insult by NEEDING it to be known that you no longer get as horny :( how dare she? >:(

Start at that point and maybe you'll figure it out.

noone on this board is deserving of love

Shallow pursuits have shallow end.
Most people I talk to can't even articulate what real love is. They just muddle it with lust or use it as some pie in the sky ideal that they'll pursue clear off a cliff.
If they take responsibility for their actions they don't stay here very long.

ends*

My issue is that I'm not aesthetically masculine enough for straight trans women, despite being very male brained. From my experience they're quite often interested in monogamy.

I think the ones looking for hookups are predominantly attracted/romantically attracted to women anyway.

if you want to talk about that, almost anywhere else would be better. it gets brought up in the margins of threads anyway and I like seeing anons' candid responses and stories
I think about love idly a lot, but it feels so foreign to my life and so much like a nice dream sometimes that idk I just try to not give it too much energy. I'm pretty confident I can cross that bridge if I ever get to it. I don't believe in soulmates tho unless it's something you make yourself. I wanna have someone I share everything with one day

if they take responsibility for their actions they don't stay here very long

honestly that's the meat of the answer ain't it

Yeah I'm cis f and the poly shit is WILD. This will sound offensive, but it's like a section of grindr on HER. It feels different. There are some cis f poly people but the numbers and ratios are totally off. You can tell some trans poly are self aware of it and get extremely defensive.

Why not get on hrt? Testosterone replace therapy. My gay friend did it to turn from a twink into a manly guy, since that's his type. The women you're into are on hrt. Why not you?

Because I want to date a cis woman

that's the meat of the answer ain't it

Yes, this board is a handful of peoples' misery spiral, they fetishize their own descent.

Nobody ever talks about good healthy love, intimacy or finding their soulmate on this board.

Y'all ever notice that? Why do you think that is?

I feel the same - there's something morbid about tttt. The main issues: 1 gays don't experience love.
2 trannies are too mentally ill to experience healthy relationships.

I can recall literally a few dozen healthy conversations on this board. Most of them with one very special girl.

Most people here are too racist, or messed mentally up to be to relate to.

Some people have found true soulmates here, I remember one of the really positive conversations being about that a while back. Guys who moved across the country to be with each other.

But there are a lot of triers who don't succeed. I remember them well - Effy and Dalia I think was one couple who burned out so quickly, but who knows there may be lots of people who are secretly romancing and very happy.

Nobody ever talks about good healthy love, intimacy or finding their soulmate on this board.

You disgusting evil fuckers don't even deserve that I hate you all so much you're all pathetic ugly poor shits irl it shows you will never find happiness you will never be attractive you will never be beautiful or explains why this board is full of le mtfs.

ugly poor shits

I can see the love in your heart anon

Why not get on hrt?

I'm comfortable with how masculine I look and I'm not a chaser.

If I miss out on trans women then that's not that bad, they're a very small segment of my dating pool.

people in happy relationships stop posting here so you only see the terminally online ones

I will never have love in my heart for tttt morons especially if they're mtfs.
I'm glad you are suffering. I'm glad you're feeling unattended. I'm glad your family doesn't love you. I'm glad you don't pass. I wish you lost all your rights soon. I fucking love that. Your pain is my pleasure.

What a little bitch baby you are. Like the rich teenage asshole in a show or movie. What a clown you make yourself out to be. Can you try being more funny?

Get a load of THIS happy mmr4kh
fer

yeah, good stuff. I was declaring my disdain for your shit worldview

T. Said this while crying from melty

Your attempt at being "savage" is fucking pathetic
?

I was declaring my disdain

I don't give two shits about your disdain.

for your shit worldview

Lmfao! I guess truth hurts.

I don't need to be savage. I already lost any respect I could possibly have for your intelligence bro. It ended a while ago. You're a joke now. You slow?

npc behaviour

I already lost any respect I could possibly have for your intelligence bro.

Implying that I should care what mtfs think about me

Kek

You're a joke now.

I would be joke if I got zippertits.
Says the troon.

I've talked about my husband on this board but people just tell me that I'm LARPing or get angry at me.

Zippertits and troon? Man, this clown sucks! Doesn't even have any good jokes.

Nobody ever talks about good healthy love, intimacy or finding their soulmate on this board.

Anon Babble.org

this is where people go once they give up on the whole soulmate thing.

Oh no its seriously over for me now how do I ever recover after this :(