I paid for my girlfriend to have the best surgery at Suporn's clinic in early December. I paid for all of it, surgery, meals, airfare, transfers, aftercare, she will be there three months to recover and enjoy Thailand. I have a trust fund, money is not the issue here. But, when she gets home, it's my house, in my name. And I will have changed the locks, and her phone number will be blocked from my phone. Once she wakes up from surgery and is not totally soused on painkillers, I am letting her know it is over for good.
I am going to give all her stuff to her mom. When we first met, she assured me she didn't really mind her penis, just didn't want to top me but was ok with light stroking and frot. And then a few years later, that all changed, and it went to no touching at all. And then she started saying she was looking into getting "the surgery" because she had started a new accounting job and the insurance covered a lot of decent providers. I pretended to be supportive, but secretly, I was aghast.
That was about 2 years ago. She's gone back and forth, but now everything is booked, and mentally, I've already moved on. She gets what she wants, I get a fresh start.