it's self harm
I disagree
deprives people of full sexual enjoyment
but so does not having sex. Do you think having sex is an imperative?
taking hrt means you think there's a wrong way to be male or female
No, it means you appreciate the changes the hornones would cause on your body
and that certain people aren't allowed to be that way
but YOU are the one saying this by insisting that people shouldn't take HRT tacitly implying that "the right way of being a feminine man is by not taking HRT"
hrt numbs your genitals
Presuming this as true, so what? If a person is ok with this, why are you insisting on the imperative that not only they have some obligation to have sex, but must enjoy it in an specific way?
if you think using your dick as a man on other men is wrong
Literally no one has said this ever. This is an universal ethical claim while at most people taking HRT are making personal preference claims. Saying "As a man I don't want to use my dick on other men" is not claiming it's wrong to do that, it's stating a preference. But besides, why would a feminine man be homosexual? This is just stereotyping again.
Who said otherwise? The anon didn't say "you have to take HRT to be a feminine male", they said "what if I want to be a feminine male taking HRT?"
Fundamentally, You are not talking with the people speaking to you, you are talking with the strawman you have built in your head. You do not at all understand the position of the people you are arguing against
I have never met a trans person outside of this website that was against non binary people. This website is full of edgelords and what people say here is not representative of anything