go to wedding with bf
everyone getting pics taken
eventually get forced to
ff to this week
we all get copies
look like an actual ogre
dont cry or anything but joke about it
bf keeps gaslighting me into thinking i look pretty
im okay with being ugly but he like wont admit it
get into argument over it
he wont stop hugboxing me and its annoying. like idc but dont lie to me at the same time it just makes me actually upset
he sounds like he’s in denial about it
obviously but how do i get home to stop. he refuses to admit it
Girls are annoying. What do you want him to do, insult you? He knows you're pretty, he wouldn't be dating you otherwise. You probably just looked bad in those pics. Shut the fuck up. No good boyfriend is going to say "yeah you look ugly and disgusting". You'll just use that against him later.
GOD
Show us the pictures lass, well tell you the truth.
you sure you want this? mine tells me things like he doesn't care that I don't pass and that I'm "his hon" and when he sees a picture of a gigahon he says "you look way better than that".
i would rather him just be honest. it feels like major copium instead of just saying i looked nice and being realistic.
no cause people hugbox me on here too
mine does the 2nd thing to me but he does it to women that actually pass WAY better and it really annoys me like come on theres being nice and being delusional
Have you considered that maybe he actually thinks you look pretty?
Like you're literally asking for us to tell you how to make your bf be mean to you.
I think the only real solution for your problem is to go to therapy, you clearly have some pretty severe body image issues that you need to work through.
im not mean to him about it. he gets more upset then i do. this frustrates me to no end like actually. equating being realistic to body image issues is not the same. im not asking him to be mean im asking him to stop pretending. its fine. ugly people exist and have forever and will forever but dont act like im this beautiful either. being a tranny is already a big cope id like to keep some sanity
"people hugbox me on here too" Sounds like you just pass. Stop lying to yourself
im just gonna repeat what the other anon said
Have you considered that maybe he actually thinks you look pretty?
people hugbox me on here too
if you think everyone but you is the problem, maybe it's time to start considering that you may actually be the problem.
passing doesnt mean pretty
its nice that he may feel that way but like its weird when its not true. people have told me many times im not
hugbox as in passing. they arent the same
its nice that he may feel that way but like its weird when its not true
if he didnt feel that way, he wouldn't even be with you in the first place, stop being retarded
well if anything you can feel confidant in your femininity because this is exactly how a fucking woman thinks, just take the damn compliment
one person finding you attractive doesnt mean you are. chasers are a perfect example
he’s definitely skinwalking you, why else would he get so upset? you’re basically insulting him
you really can't. youre asking your boyfriend to have no regard for your identity and to insult your very existence. its a pretty insulting thing to ask of him and you dont realize how shitty you are to make such a request. its kinda obvious youre doinf this out of mental illness and self hatred so maybe try working this out with yourself instead of projecting it onto the people who love tou
yes, but HE PERSONALLY thinks you're attractive, so just take the fucking compliment from him at least
Attractiveness is, to an extent, subjective. You may not be objectively the prettiest girl out there, but every individual has different tastes, your boyfriend just find you to be pretty, and you should learn to accept that.
i literally dont understand this board. swings so much from its so over to lets be delusional and copemax. like pick one
Sorry we aren't playing into your miseryposting fetish, try again tomorrow retard
using your brain
a fetish
okay dumb bitch
why do you keep using your brain if it only has bad things to say about you
turn it off so you can be dumb and happy
DUMMY
you arent using your brain, your brain is using you, you are mentally ill and need therapy
no seriously like this is so funny to me because thats literally all this board is
Different people have different tastes. You’ve surely seen celebrities and or pornstars with large followings that you would consider monsters…
Music you consider audibly unpleasant or whatever else.
Men also feel differently about appearance if we have a strong emotional connection. It’s not like women where they’ll overlook someone being ugly or grant an exception, someone we love becomes the ideal.(not to say the ideal can’t also improve themselves)
Your dude probably genuinely doesn’t consider you ugly and trying to beat him into saying it is foolish.
mine tells me Iook like a girl while I was literally naked. I wanted to make a list of all the parts of me that are the wrong shape.
once (different boy) I asked while I KNEW I was ugly because I had smeared make up and he said I was pretty. I don't know why boys lie to us.
This isn't even SLIGHTLY CLOSE to delusional copemax, telling someone to accept a compliment from their boyfriend is the tamest shit ever
You retards really don't know what a real hugbox is and you are too used to browsing this gayass board that anything less than the most grimmiest vitriol feels hugboxy to you.
Go to reddit and bluesky to see real hugboxing
Makeup artistry is like body building. Achieving good results might be really important to you, and both fitness and good make up can make one more attractive. But a dude is as likely to judge your eyeliner and mascara as you are to judge his forearms and delts. Anything beyond being flattering is meaningless
i cant tell if troll or not. really saying rEdDiT iS rEaL cOpE. how new are you to transitioning lol?
is this a parody of OP? because its a good one
if its a serious post, im so sorry, hope you get cured from your retardation in the future
he had hot muscles (not sure what a delt is exactly) because he worked out and anyone could see that but my make up was really smeared like wet eyeliner all over my face
it's not a parody
my shoulders are too big
my hips are too small
my nose is crooked and too big
my hairline is wrong
I have terrible posture
I'm too fat
my boobs are too small
my legs look weird
bad skin
idk there's a lot more
Transitioned 10 years ago, pass, stealth at work, married to a wonderful man.
Reddit is real cope, and this is not. And now you will cope and seethe, retard.
what does this post even mean?
Probably still achieved the goal of drawing attention to them or making them look bigger or whatever (I’m not a make up artist)
But, you know the old cliche i out of being coated in make up “like a whore”? Well, they wouldn’t do that shit if it didn’t make them money.
Guys will buy the psychological tricks of make up, but they’re not going to judge your craft.
you want a cookie retard? congrats no one is seething over you
everyone knows reddit is cope. its the new susans place
guys can't even tell if we're wearing make up or not but they should be able to tell if it's not good
well yes, thats what anon said, why are you disagreeing then, and also OP is clearly in the wrong here
in the wrong for what lol? wanting advice but getting the same old stop bitching spiel
I’m not trying to hold your foundation’s hand, make out with your blush or make sweet love to your mascara’s butt.
If someone is everything you want, what fucking difference does it make if your gift from the heavens is wrapped poorly?
I get that for you it’s a major tool in your passing and incredibly important to you but it just doesn’t matter to everyone.
everyone already told you anything that needs to be said, im not falling for this bait anymore, go be miserable somewhere else
not miserable just real
it's not really that important for passing but it should at least not be smudged?