At what bmi do i start being pretty

anything below that BMI is not fat, you are at best mentally ill, and luckily for you it is a curable mental illness because it is warped self perception. I mean, consider this gambit: you cannot change the biology. You can change your perception to not be delulu. losing weight to the point of being underweight will not fix you.

im bmi 21.7

going below will only masculinize. Think of your face, thighs.. You should actually build ass muscles instead to plush your thighs more. one of the generals has a book on ass building exercises in the pastebin.

my thighs are huge for some reason i think i want them smaller all the fat left my arms first

i planned my meals for tomorrow

fast food

i know

You want that though, like.. anon. Remember that you have body image issues. Passing is not about how you see yourself. And you clearly need your head fixed a bit, which again, is doable. To answer your question: prettiness is a social thing not an intrinsic thing. You want to make yourself attractive to others and bonemoders are not.

Weight changes typically come from a few things

Calorie intake average per day- 1800 to 2100

Workouts dayly calories burned - 200-500

If your looking to loose weight try cutting back calories and working out more
If your trying to gain weight try eating more calories while maintaining a balanced workout.

be fat for a bit for boob growth then drop down to like, 18-19. below 17 though and you're just showing off moid skeleton supreme

16

i had hips even as a teen and i already have tits because i had gyno and 14.5 months of estrogen

Then what is it exactly you want to achieve?
From what I can tell by the OP is that what you actually want is feel pretty. In which case you are asking the wrong questions.

i wanna lose weight

Losing weight is not an end goal. It is a means to an end. To what end.
To cut the whole thing a bit short, walk me through your internal reasoning, OP. I am sure you have a sensible head on your shoulders, put some genuine thought in this.

you wanna lose weight

to what end

to [thing]

to what end..

etc etc

keep going until you can answer "for its own sake".

until im not fat
fat defined as what see as fat

30 seems about right for me. I'll go lower at some point just to see, but I have a massive ribcage, so I'm going to need to stay pretty high.

Now think a little harder, why is being fat a bad thing. I know it normally is self evident but the entire point is in this case that your definition and understanding is not the normal one.

my hips have always been bigger than my ribcage i think i can anamaxx effectively

it looks ugly

Now we are getting somewhere. What is it you find ugly about it? Can you put it into words? Can you quantify it?

It's about body fat mass percentage not BMI and the answer is <23%

Nta but when I gain weight I just look saggy and frumpy, not curvy, it depends on the person
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housemate doodled this today, feels appropriate.

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I don't know, I hated pretty much every aspect of my body myself to the point of delulu but having a partner reality check me did me more good than anything I tried because is fucking real

it grosses me out to see and feel and i dont think this line of asking why endlessly is helpful

no but it got to the core of it. What you actually want to fix is your reaction to seeing a normal, healthy body. Not changing your body to fit your warped self perception. Do you feel grossed out by other people at your weight? The helpful part is making you realize that you are chasing a non-solution.

i just wanna be underweight

not worth it hun

What will you do when you get there and you are now still disgusted by yourself? You know that being anamoding (esp when you lack protein and minerals eventually) will lead to hair loss, shit skin, and a loss of bone density?

If you were skinny and then got fat:
20
If you were always fat:
19

Being fat longer means when you drop the pounds you're working with a higher body fat percentage so you have to drop a bit lower to look skinnier. I'm currently 20.9 trying to get to 19 by Jan

I've been underweight for most of my life, just gonna tell you now that it makes you feel just as shitty as being overweight, both mentally and physically.

ok not op but do it with me. I want to be the lowest healthy bmi to avoid medical bias. I have a fat-looking face and think that doctors will have inherent bias against me and my symptoms unless they can ensure weight is not a factor. This is validated by doctors dismissing my symptoms based on weight at BMI 23 in the healthy range.

genuine question how does one get out of ana? like it kinda hurt walking when i get a higher bmi. its so weird not feeling your rip cage and i just feel so bloated

this is no-shit advice, but: there’s no cure, it requires maintenance, community that doesn’t have an eating disorder helps. it’s worth taking seriously and dedicating some time and effort towards tho, my life got a lot easier when i wasn’t exhausted 24/7. what helped me a lot was explicitly not making myself an eatmorediet and instead tried being super fucking fr w/myself about wanting to eat more than usual and did it, ymmv tho. wish you luck if you try.

fpbp

whenever you are .5 round for your 1 tall and beyond that.
when you are 1 round 1 tall you are qt pi

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Genuinely, it will be a mixture of a couple things. It will involve slowly increasing intake because putting someone with ana on a normal diet can literally kill them (refeeding syndrome). has links to ed recovery stuff, the general is slow af though. But of course the gaining weight part is only half of it. Being normal weight for extended period is part of fixing ana because that alone seems to things psychologically but therapy might be a serious option. But having people reality check you frequently and adjust your pov just through them constantly reminding your brain of what is normal will have a massive effect too.
Since you are already that far in you might also consider going inpatient but how well that goes seems to wildly depend on the place.

thanks ill do my best

im gonna keep losing until i feel better or it kills me

q.e.d. non-ana community. seriously, good luck. it takes a few failed attempts usually, but that dont mean it’s hopeless.

This is so incredibly depressing, holy fuck. How do they react when confronted with the fact you are normal weight, or when pressed with questions like "if I was BMI 20 and problems persisted, what would you suggest?"