Being a gay man that just wants a romantic monogamous relationship is a nightmare. I wish I was a cis straight man or dead.
Being a gay man that just wants a romantic monogamous relationship is a nightmare...
Try being gay and ftm and wanting a monogamous relationship and you'll see how easy you have it.
Neither of us will ever get what we want. Monogomous gay relationships don't last.
idk if i'm gay but i do plan on staying with my boyfriend for as long as possible and honestly want to avoid the whole sleeping around experience. i sympathize with the struggle, friend
I feel for you brother. All i get is dickpicks on grindr after saying hi. Like, people don't even try anymore. I want to go to the movies! I want to have lunch and then dick while we hold hands and look at eachother eyes. Romance is dead.
least obsessed pajeet
At least you have a chance.
I wish I was a cis straight man or dead.
Real straights don't want other men even if they're on e. Even worse you will gay chasers or fags larping as straights, those a worse than regular gays. Just become asexual aromatic incel. Or date slutty gays. That's only option.
Yeah we're all going to die alone because of it. I wish there was something that could be done to fix the slutty gay culture problem
I wish you luck.
Such is life with this condition.
Just become asexual aromatic incel.
That's my plan of action now. My anti depressants have helped, but I'm thinking of getting an orchie or on AA's to finish my sex drive off.
people are just way too attached to the current hookup culture that gay men have
anytime you even vaguely hint that monogomy might be a better alternative a million HIV ridden whores will crawl out of the local public bathrooms to explain why they need to constantly have sex with strangers and collecting STDs to own the chuds
There is no fixing the problem. If HIV couldn't do it, nothing will.
dealing with ciswomen is dehumanizing either remain gay or transition
Most of my friends are ciswomen and they seem lovely.
This is why I'm a repper
Well you're just a straight woman so you have it easy
dont worry all trannies are damaged and act on sex instinct like animals too, havcing real conneciton in intimacy is impossible.
t. poly transbian for 10 years
I just want to be a normal man. I just want what normal men have. I fucking hate being a faggot. I hate it I hate it I hate it
Somehow the first guy I had sex with I fell immediately into a seven year committed relationship that I’m still in, what you want is possible you just have to get stupid lucky I think and not give up until you get lucky.
dont let him go, make it work no matter the cost
I don't think straight men are into women that look like men (or hairy balding women)
tell him u love him NOW
We got through living in a shitty cramped apartment during covid shutdowns, I think we’re on a solid foundation
I do every day
until you are pursuing them romantically your status moves from being their lapdog to their slave
Whatever you say. I'm getting a vaginectomy/metoidioplasty so no straight men will want me, unfortunately, since straight men are less promiscuous in general.
can you tell us the story of who confessed first? I really love hearing that bit of how relationships get their start
I am not their lapdog.
we're fucked!!
We met through a grindr hookup, after that I confessed to him pretty much a week or two after that
damn thats significantly less wholesome than expected
more reasons why I should transition to a woman, already feel dysphoric about being physically male from time to time, but I feel like id be more desireable and have it easier to find a relationship with a man.
LOL sure sis
I don't get it. Why do so many trans women here seem to hate cis women? Also don't call me "sis".
As a bisexual conjured from purest fiction, I do not envy gays, trying to find gays that think with anything but their cock already cuts down on your options so severely you're basically working with a niche within a niche and then trying to find a compatible person in there. Even if women were 4x as bad I'd still have better odds of running into a decent one and doing that took me decades as is.
Grim, dire even.
same. i sometimes think about just giving up on what i want and faking interest to get into a relationship with a female. i don't think i could be convincing enough at it to prevent her from leaving me, though.
Sex is my love language i guess
schizo trooner demoralization
I was in a monogamous relationship with a FtM until he BPD'd out and now he's poly st4t only.
Where is the schizophrenia?
Grim. Are you a cis male?
Yes. I tried to make it work but his BPD switch flipped and he split right there and then. Made a retarded excuse and fed me the "I still love you" line and everything.
Well, at least that means I have a chance.
You always did. The extra slutty fags are typically the most insecure and thus the loudest. Most queer dudes are just normal human beings. If self-hating gays like OP didn't exist there would be no "gay hook-up culture" people bitch and moan about.
Op is just a bottom and all bottoms instinctively hate tops
You always did
Thank you for the confidence boost. Sorry your ex turned out to be crazy.
that post is going to be me someday once I can't cope anymore
It feels like there are two types of gays: the regular ones and the ones who would be women if it was viable. The kind who would choose to be women are screwed because gay relationships don't work like that.
lose virginity to an escort
claim to be monogamous
Sometimes it's hard not to be homophobic
A romantic monogamous relationship is my dream and life goal and I will not stop trying.
You clearly don't understand that the person in that post did that out of desperation to feel better. He knew what he wanted the whole time, but because he couldn't actually find it, he decided to try just having sex out of desperation that maybe that would fix him. People will try stuff they pretty much know for a fact won't fix them when they're desperate enough.
I feel you, these days seems like the only option is "prostitute"
It’s fucking sucks, doesn’t it? I’m glad I found my current person but he’s Multiple states away and we currently are just talking right now, hopefully I’ll see him December. I can’t wait, I only Met him by pure chance through a discord server and sharing similar interests. Actually finding anyone through the gay “community” that isn’t an std ridden whore is Impossible and I am fully black pilled on that.
That’s a more miserable existence anon, please Reconsider that.
This ^^, I really hate labeling myself as a fag even though I technically am. Like my goal is to have someone who has the same feelings and outlook on it as me to have in my life to share it with. As I said, I am insanely lucky through no action on my own to have found someone who has the same thoughts as me on it. We are both self hating and don’t really plan on being like “out” or whatever
I've had two wonderful FtM twinks break up with me because they wanted to be poly and I couldn't accept that. If I met a cute FtM that was fully monogamous I'd fucking marry them
hopefully I’ll see him December. I can’t wait
I wish you two well.
That’s a more miserable existence anon, please Reconsider that.
How so? I've already accepted a lifetime of celibacy. Nothing really matters anymore. Just want to minimize the pain.
based
Judging by the picture I'm going to assume you're that one ftm chaser who plagues the board with your presence, in which case that's why monogamous ftms don't want you.
NOOOOOO you can't be attracted to people for their anatomy
you MUST delude yourself into believing the vagina doesn't exist and ignore that being an AFAB gives them better facial aesthetic
It's WRONG be have a type REEEEEEEEE
That makes you inherently unattractive to me, yes.
I genuinely don’t think you should just completely give up. Also, actually castrating yourself is going to just make you feel like shit overall even more, it won’t fully kill your sex drive, but it will cause all sorts of hormonal stuff that will just make you feel tired all the time.
genuinely don’t think you should just completely give up
I have no hope so what's the point?
but it will cause all sorts of hormonal stuff that will just make you feel tired all the time.
I have felt nothing but fatigue for a long time anyways.
What do you expect of your dates? To not be attracted to any of your features that make you attractive?
No, I'm getting a vaginectomy so I won't have to deal with people like (You).
when ftms start getting antsy for the poly thing just get them pregnant and they'll settle down
It sounds like you have some delusional perceptions of reality
Care to explain why? I simply don't want nor need a vagina so I'm getting SRS.
As someone with a penis, it's not going to look anything that resmbles a dick nor give you a proper sex life. But keep being a brain wormed troon with no dating value I guess
I like my tdick and don't need to have a large penis to feel satisfied; I'm happy with it. I'm also a bottom so I'm not going to use it for penetration.
"Value" to you just means having a vagina, so I couldn't care less about what you want in a partner.
objectively worse sex life
objectively worse viablity for good partners
And for what? In the delusion your brain worms MIGHT go away?
Fun fact: you aren't going to feel more like a man with your forearm skin bolted to your crotch. It won't look like a penis in the mirror
it really do be like that, I wouldn't even know where to start looking for someone
I love anal so my sex life will be great, actually. And if I valued my chances of getting a partner over my own happiness I wouldn't even have transitioned in the first place.
for what?
Because it's what I want and it's what will make me happy and comfortable. I don't care about getting rid of "brain worms", I care about getting rid of the axewound.
forearm skin
I'm getting a metoidioplasty, not a phalloplasty. Learn to read.
A lot of FtMs have said what you've said. Yet the detrans rate is 30-40%.
Nobody wanting to touch you is going to hurt a lot more than just accepting some realities of your anatomy.
I won't be me I'm different
Yah okay.
the detrans rate is 30-40%
That means the rate of not detransitioning is 60-70%
Most detransitioners don't even take T much less have SRS, lol. In fact most detransitioners don't feel genital dysphoria at all and enjoy vaginal sex.
Nobody wanting to touch you
I just need one man to want me, and that's not going to be too hard to find. Many men enjoy anal sex. If I didn't have SRS I'd just be a voluntary celibate anyway.
I won't be me I'm different
Incomprehensible.
and that's not going to be too hard to find. Many men enjoy anal sex.
The men who like ass fucking dudes are going to want a functiong penis
Not necessarily, no. Even then, there are plenty of bisexual men out there who, like me, don't like pussy.
Literally what's the benefit of fucking you over a cis twink then. Anal won't even feel as good at the prostate grinds against the cock during sex
Of many of you boys are lonely bottoms?
I don't know, what's the benefit of fucking you over an actual attractive, non-autistic male?
What's the reason to get in a monogamous relationship with someone? Maybe because you actually like them and feel sexually attracted to them?
Also, ftms develop something similar to a prostate on T.
Just go find someone who has a vagina and fuck them, you don't have to bother me.