ngl i think a lot of transgirls would be so much more fulfilled if they devoted themselves to a bf.
ever since my bf came into my life i’ve felt so much happier, i don’t start pointless arguments anymore, i don’t have to worry about what i might have to live for, i can feel secure knowing he has the lead and i just need to support him the best i can. it’s honestly just so perfect i can’t believe i used to hate the idea of a relationship let alone one where i was the ‘housewife’ it all seems so stupid.
honestly i think more women need to accept that for some of us the best future is one where we support our partner rather than trying to force a sense of independence. trust me it’s just so idealic when you know you’re devoted to a good man
Ngl i think a lot of transgirls would be so much more fulfilled if they devoted themselves to a bf
I hope he murders you in your sleep after finding a cis woman
you were the only one not desperate to be in a relationship. but codependency isn’t exactly a good thing either, there’s a delicate balance that’s needed in case something goes wrong and the person you believed was your everything leaves you with nothing
then i’ll die happy and fulfilled :3
hsts's are weird
maybe there’s some truth to that but honestly this person has shown more care for me and my wellbeing than anyone else in this world, i trust him and love him so much. maybe ill be left destitute some day cause of this but i truly don’t think so
i mean there’s a lot worse ways to go than in your sleep next to someone you love and believe loves you back
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while it is true that trans girls are generally better off in heteronormative monogamous relationships it's also important to work on yourself and not let your bf be your entire life
it's important to have other things going on
yes kasey! i tried to explain to you in a lot of your threads in the past that this is bliss. i never wished badly of you even when you were arguing against it, i was just trying to help. i'm so happy you have a man to please and be treasured by in turn :)
and it’s good that you trust him, relationships are built on trust and involve being vulnerable with someone. just remember how firmly you believed your previous convictions and how silly it feels now. don’t set yourself up for failure, don’t make something as fickle as a human the star you orbit around
to work on yourself
of course i work on myself, part of supportivng my bf is making sure im the best i can be. it’s,mutually beneficial
hehe i remember, honestly i should’ve just listened to you from the start but then again my stupid arguments were what led my bf to me so idk lol
but generally i’m happy you were right <3
i guess that’s true, i’ll take what you say into account thanks ,w
Yeah probably shame i am a giant 6'3 gigahon. It seems pretty nice but idk how much of that is me actually wanting a relationship vs just meta attraction bs. Idk hopefully someday I'll find someone
Kasey weren't you continuously hating on men and chasers on this board? lol
i’m sure you’ll find someone, i know being tall sucks but honestly you’re living in prob the best era for tall girls dating wise desu
remember that everything happens for some reason or another :) it's not coincidence that this led you to your bf. those aspects of you aren't wrong or anything. they're rly even good, they show you have a kind heart. it just led you to suppress another side of yourself.
it's not that women shouldn't have any identity, just that a lot of us have been manipulated or pressured via environment into compromising ourselves to live up to an ideal of a girlboss. i used to not want kids and be the breadwinner at all costs because that's how i saw value in myself but well. i'm sure you know the rest!
Isn’t the problem that they’re hons and can’t get a bf, or the bf is a bottom chaser/repper, or they get murdered by a guy after they fuck
yeah i was but that was just cause i was just acting out, my bf says i was a good example of the Nietzschian concept of slave morality whereby i externalised my self hate by hating others (namely men) but now thst im with him i dont feel like arguing as much lol. honestly im much happier now just putting my faith in him and his politics
i’m happy for both of us, i think feminism has sorta pressured so many women to be girlbosses when in actuality not all of us thrive like that. i hope the best for you and your bf <3
good girl
just putting my faith in him and his politics
So you are a fascist now?
i wouldn’t call myself that lol
also can we not talk about my bfs political beliefs thanks <3 <3
I mean it's less so about the being tall thing and moreso the gigahon thing. The main thing being tall effects is that I can't have a bf that's taller than me, which sucks but whatever. And also that it attracts more of the bottom chaser types that want a dommy mommy which I'm not
you’ve gotta be kidding kasey became a right winger? the fucking puppygirl? how’d you feel about the election results?
i agree and tysm for the wishes!
btw kasey if you ever wanna chat add test149273891 on discord it's not my real discord but i don't wanna post that one on board itself
this is rough but i'm not exactly a passoid either and i've had luck with men for what i guess is mostly personality. i won't pretend it'll be easy or that it's not a numbers game rly but you can find someone eventually. also don't worry about 'meta attraction' it's literally just transmisogyny your desires are valid!
stop being mean.
i wish you the best of luck, im sure you’ll find someone <3
i’m not a right winger i just date one. im quite happy with the election results. my bf let me choose how i voted and labor was my 2nd preference, while they’re not perfect they’re much better than the coalition. it was so satisfying watch dutton lose not only the election but his own seat too lol
sent :3
my bf let me choose how i voted
Lmao
hush
fair i’m looking for an excuse to be mean you do you boo
i'm too ugly and manly to have a bf
lmao thanks i will, wish you the best <3
you’d be surprised, i personally don’t understand how my bf sees me as a woman and yet he does, we don’t always have them out objective view of how we really look
if i pass, it is as an extremely ugly, manly cisoid
i'll wait until i get ffs and srs and can go fully stealth
fair enough nona, once the surgery has helped reveal more of your femininity i’m sure you’ll find someone <3
Yeah my one hope is i at the very least share a lot of interests with moids so at least we'll have a lot in common to start even if I'm like a gigahon. Also no it is def meta attraction I'm like not really sure i want a bf at all like properly I can't see myself properly loving someone enough or doing like relationship things properly for them it'll just be me getting off to the fact i have a bf. At least maybe idk I'm going to try and see cuz it'd be nice if it wasn't since relationships seem nice according to other people even though I don't really care
Thanks hopefully i will idk
I mean yeah but Kasey people have seen what you're like and i don't have any confidence that the moment some other guy shows you that kind of attention your heart isn't going to get all confused. The right asshole at a coffee shop saying the right words in the right order and suddenly you're thinking of following him instead.
honestly i can see how you might think that based on my history, i kind of feared that myself for awhile. but i know that at my core ive always been very loyal and honestly i can’t imagine that changing especially with him.
Sure but like a month ago you were raving about how braindead conservatives were and how independence for women is a constant struggle you're battling for and now here you are changing your values and advocating for others to fall in just the same way you have. I've got absolutely no confidence in Kasey's ability to resist any man talking down to her in a stern voice, telling her to bark, and then beg. Followed of course by some praise and love - You're so honest now kasey, anyone would love that about you.
Unless you were actually chained down in a meaningful way you're hearts too spritely
i think the difference here is that i changed my mind on those issues because i was shown how i was wrong. my bf is the first right winger ive ever met who actually is intelligent, we argued a bunch when we first met and he really helped me understand that my ideas weren’t untouchable as i thought. i haven’t changed my beliefs just cause my bf told me to in a stern voice.
furthermore i haven’t really changed too much in many of my beliefs, conservatives are still braindead, just in certain areas where my bf has shown me thst im wrong
yessss, i love my owner... i mean my bf so much. But you sound like a virgin, is this your first relationship? Men are the best, and i understand the butterflies that makes you belive he is your world, you have to build that world with him, not just try to live inside of it, that is kind of pathetic and he will get bored of it eventually, you must be a puppy in the sheets while still be a queen in the daily
Sure you can change what you think but the next time you show up in a puppygirl thread pulling the same act it wears a bit. Unless you're saying you're done with all that now and you'll be in there advocating for the puppyfication of all women which is not what anyone's expecting. What is it about the housewife thing you seem to be fixated on as well? I dont think most people can even be housewives anymore (in the modern economy) so it's kinda a fruitless battle to begin with, what does a modern housewife look like to you? What's the future of puppyism?
yeah this is my first relationship, i never saw the appeal until recently.
build that world with him
don’t worry i understand that, im adult enough to understand that a relationship is not just about love it’s about support. i like devoting myself to him because it allows me to help build up a world we can both enjoy :)
puppy girl thread
i haven’t really been in a puppy thread for months now and i don’t see that changing. also call it an act if you want but i assure you it wasn’t.
in there advocating for
i wont be in there at all i think, just not my vibe.
housewife thing
i mean im aware of the current economy and how it’s not really feasible to have/be a trad wife but my bf is actively telling me he won’t allow me to have a job when we live together despite me saying i’m happy to go out and work (and in some ways would kinda prefer it)
what does the modern housewife look like to you
same as the traditional one. the wife is responsible for the household, keeping things stocked and clean while also managing her and her husbands social stuff and acting as a confidant for her man.
the future of puppyism
this made me laugh so much thank you for posting it lmao
I would love to have a puppy or kitten girl.
I don't think I'm responsible enough for a pet.