Why do people have such a problem with age gaps in relationships? guys my age are annoying and gross...

this is the truth. zoomers are even bigger prudes than their grandparents are. have never seen an entire generation of people be so utterly repulsed by anything having to do with sex or romance.

I legitimately dont know why or how this became such a big deal for zoomers and even some millennials I met

Yes you do.
It’s simply a way to minmax dopamine on social media.
Especially in left-leaning spaces, as the supply of things culturally agreed upon as bad in polite society has gone down, but demand for mob violence and public execution has stayed the same, we have little besides pedophilia/exploitation that we can use as a source of tokenized shame without needing to morally defend our statements.
You can’t call people trannies, fatties, weirdos, nerds, mentally ill, shut-ins, retards, ugly, gay, etc. without failing the purity test. Even incel and manlet are losing their acceptance. All you can do is call people pedos and nobody will speak up out of fear of also being called a pedo. Leaving you unchallenged to consume a delicious cocktail of neurochemicals that goes down smooth.

if that's true then why do so many gen z girls date older (25-35 y.o) guys?

they're gaining sentience, reading the room, and realizing they have to get the fuck out if they want any chance of happiness

Cuz every guy under 25 is trans, brown or a nazi

i think the problem is zoomzooms have completely killed any and all nuance, drowned beneath an ocean of social media brainrot. you're either a heckin cute n' valid acespec two-spirit transkin enbycore drug addict, or you're an actual literal nazi (who is a nazi to repress being trans). nobody is just themselves any more, merely a collection of labels that they can swap around with other hylics online

turns out committing every single thing you say to immortality in an electronic cloud makes people take each other’s words more seriously than they should. used to be you could say some edgy (funny) holocaust joke or something and would be forgotten in a couple days but now you’re a crypto fash alt right adjacent yada yada yada permabanned

sometimes all 3 at the same time

because younger guys are beyond fucked up mentally

there are no more nazis.
the card printer broke in 45.
not sure what you're seeing out there.