I showed up at my transbian ex's work today to try to talk to her and she called me a stalker and got me banned

I think she's playing hard to get
You should threaten suicide to get her back, she'll fall for it

Transgenders are mentally ill low value men who larp as women because they aren't good enough to be men.

she's a waitress
no this would be creepy

transgenders are beautiful and I love them and want to kiss them and not get called a stalker by them for trying to do a gesture I see in movies which is supposed to be romantic

showing up unannounced and making a scene at work is not creepy

getting her to have to stay with you is

expecting mentally ill person not do mentally ill things

Date a man if you don't wanna deal either mentally illness

this is a very high quality larp actually. well done

it's a vent. I thought more people would be on my side.

I saw stuff like that in romcoms and she likes those so I thought she would find it sweet. It wasn't meant to be creepy just show I cared

fuck no, you singlehandedly are the reason trans folk get a bad rep, I'm ashamed to even be considered anything like you due to your sheer retardedness

it sounds like she didnt want to talk to you and that you made her feel unsafe, and im assuming theres a reason for that

its best if you leave her alone op before this situation gets even worse

I don't even get the issue. I just wanted her back and thought it would be a nice gesture to show I cared. all I even said was please talk to me after work and she told me to get out and now I'm not allowed back or they'll call the police

and im assuming theres a reason for that

I didn't even DO ANYTHING to make her feel unsafe. she cheated on me and then when she confessed last week I said we could be poly and then she called me pathetic and dumped me and blocked me on everything.

dude dont joke about dating men. people actually do that and they get hurt

Dm me the address, I'll go there and sort this out for you

how do I DM you? discord?

I didn't even DO ANYTHING to make her feel unsafe

okay but you went there to ask her if you two could talk, right? and it didnt end well at all for you and she got you banned, so your answer is: "no i dont want to talk to you, please leave me alone"

again, best if you move on
idk what exactly is going on here but it sounds like you two have serious issues and she doesnt want to resolve them

Please, jesus, I'm being a dickhead. Do NOT send you're ex's work address to anyone. Do not send ANY of her info

apart from the obvious stupidity from this, what the fuck is this?this is literal cuck behaviour, so much so that I'm calling larp on this, even for a tranny this is something else

what if shes cute tho

I don't get why. whenever she had an issue with me I would fix it. I was literally perfect. I changed to be however I needed to keep the relationship smooth sailing because I thought that's what you're supposed to do and then she cheated on me with our mutual friend, then she dumped me when I didn't even react I just said "okay we can be poly if you want" and yelled at me and called me pathetic and kicked me out of her house and immediately blocked me on everything.

then why do you want to be around her? she sounds stupid and emotionally immature.

I have DPD and it's just easier to shift than to lose people for me I guess

it started really good I guess, she took care of me and was very nice to me, I don't even know where I went wrong.

yeah i dont know what all is going on here and this is really just between you and her, but as much as you want to work this out she clearly isnt interested in getting back together with you and you are just going to have to accept that, sorry anon

hot

I don't want to accept that I'm going to her house tomorrow if work was an issue so we can talk

My boyfriend is the best thing to have happened to me

that you keep focusing on what you want, dont care at all about what she wants, and also describe yourself as perfect are all kind of big red flags anonette lol

if you really cared about and respected her then you wouldnt be trying to force yourself on her like this
but its not about what she wants at all, is it? you dont care

Don't do that, girlie. You're gonna get the cops called on you

sometimes you can do everything right and it doesn't work out because the other person doesn't want it to. relationships are built on trust and consent. let her go bbg.

this is either going to end with op in jail or her ex being found one month later chained to her bed and dead with +50 stab wounds in her chest im thinking :D

by perfect I mean I changed every time she brought up an issue now that I was perfect from the start.

if you really cared about and respected her then you wouldnt be trying to force yourself on her like this

I just don't want to lose her why is that hard to understand?

I would never hurt her or anyone for that matter. I have never and would never lay my hands on another person. I've been beat up and wronged before but I was brought up and raised heavily christian and know to turn the other cheek even though I don't follow that faith anymore.

then what can I even do here? it's not fair
I just don't even know why she didn't want it to. it's not fair. I just want to know what I did wrong at the very least and I think I deserve that.

"not fair?"

is you following her around and trying to force her to talk to you and be in a relationship again when she clearly doesnt it fair to her? lol
is she not allowed to choose not to be with you or something? not allowed to say "no"? is that fair?

just leave her alone, she made her choice and she doesnt want you in her life

you know what? just kill her and get it over with, if you can't move on normally than just get rid of the problem outright, it helps numbs the heart

you're being really mean

I would never ever hurt anyone I am a pacifist

ik bb its not fair. it never is. but the effort we put in isn't necessarily worth anything. we aren't owed anything. we do things for people because we love them, not because we get things back. as for finding what you did wrong, that has to be done with a lot of thinking

you didnt answer my question

are you being fair to her?

you have to go to her house and serenade her
it's the only way, it's very romantic

I'm not talking to you you're acting like i'm an evil murderer
yeah okay I won't do anything again sorry I'm just really sad it's really hard when people leave for no reason it just reminds me of my mom too much.

Someone needs to go fuck OP so she can get over this

how is asking you "are you being fair to the other person in this situation?" framing you as an evil murderer?

it's a simple question

you're attacking me a lot and being really mean

why is asking you to take a moment to consider how your ex might think and feel in this situation a personal attack on you???

because you keep saying mean things with it, and how am I supposed to know that if she won't even tell me? I'm not trying to force her to date me I just want to know why she doesn't want me anymore and it's not fair I don't get to. I already said I wouldn't do anything again so why are you still trying to make me feel worse?

you should be a murderer, you literally have the solution yet you don't want to do it because you want to act like Gandhi
she just isn't gonna tell you, my advice would help you immensely

im really sorry about that op. i think im gonna agree with on this one

I don't like sex it won't help. it makes me dissociate and feel gross. I only do it so I can keep people around.

in the slim chance this isnt a larp, please for the love of god you will only hurt yourself and her if you ever try to talk to her or anyone she knows ever again. cut contact with everyone involved. the mutual is also not your friend, and neither are any of her friends. if youre gonna be homeless try to focus on what you can do about that rather than spiraling

11/10
I love you. Please bring me flowers

we didn't live together I said kicked me out of her house as in I was visiting and she kicked me out. not as in kicked out of where I live. I have a job and enough money saved for a few months rent if I ever lose it.

That's like really sad. Can someone give you a hug or something instead, then?

tranny shit testing a tranny

This is advanced
You do sound like a sociopath tho

I don't want that I just want to cry but I feel like I don't have tears my eyes feel pressure and I'm really upset

I am not. I have seen many psychologists I only have PTSD and DPD and obviously gender dysphoria.

Poor thing, I know how that is. Just feel it out, you'll be okay eventually. I hope you can get that cry out, it helps sometimes

stahp making me hard