Puberty causes irreversable mental damage and makes you malebrained

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Puberty causes irreversable mental damage and makes you malebrained

this film made me so incredibly sad. even if i manage to stealth and girlmode after years of struggling, i will essentially mentally be a man forever because my most formative years were all spent as a miserable mentally unstable teenage boy. i will never have a childhood remotely similar to any cis woman.

i'm pretty sure this is what so called "agps" really mean when they talk about they experiences. of course going through male puberty is going to cause irreversable mental changes to us. if we were given the information and help needed to transition at 10, we might have mentally been very similar to cis women, but now there is no saving us from the mentality we're trapped in.

i just can't remotely relate to or understand womanhood. i'm a transbian and my taste in women is malebrained and gross. i literally undress attractive women in my mind and imagine myself cuddling with them.

my formative years were spent as an utter shut-in and i can't even relate to transbians. i'm barely a human at this point.

You guys talked to other people during your school years? Sure I was under socialized but I mean, why did you even bother? I basically limited conversations to interests so I didn't have to talk about myself if I had to.

What is the movie?

Demonizing maleness is feminist propaganda.

heavenly creatures

imdb.com/title/tt0110005/

there are tons of kind and empathetic men out there. but obviously men and women see and experience the world in different ways. my mentality will permanently resemble that of a man no matter what happens in the future.

im a cis woman and I didn't have a childhood or teenage years similar to other girls. so what?

how can i call myself a woman when i don't relate to womanhood at all, when my attraction to women is masculine, and when i literally believed i was a guy just a decade ago? cis women would be able to tell my agab just from my way of speaking, my body language and everything about the aura i give off.

Your body being physically male hurts no one.

it hurts me beyond words

yoooo same

a man made me insecure and i became more fembrained

we own who we are, even if they make us the villain for that, did you know they made an entire movie about cruella lol

You have internalized afabs hating men. Congrats on being brainwashed!

afabs don't hate men, they just see trans women as "trans women" or "weird men" rather than real women like themselves. nothing wrong with that obviously, it's only natural, but it makes me want to die.

resemble that of a man no matter what happens in the future

Is this not essentialist thinking? Men and women in actuality have lots of overlap. It’s easy to fall into thinking in terms of simple dichotomies because this is what the stereotypes tell us. But stereotypes don’t capture nuance and complexity of reality.

afabs hate men and you are living proof
they find men who are not chad disgusting and trannies are not chad

not true at all, they're more toxically positive and hugboxxy than hateful. just go outside, you're being delusional. my sister is a cisbian and one of her best friends is a voicemaxxing hon. she genuinely likes her and they've been close friends for years.

men are overall way more spiteful and mean than women.

to me, trans women are court eunuch or jester-type figures

none of that means anything because at the end of the day, men are destined to side with them and not us

men are more spiteful

this is also true, it's men who put us into this position in the first place

Trannies are men who side with women over other men. You are white knight simps for man hating female supremacy.

take your pills and stop deluding yourself repanon. ur literally on a trans forum.

whatever we are, we're not alone, even if the world tries to make us feel that way

i'm living proof of how awful men really are, i was forced into a body made in their image, not by nature, but by the culture they created, i wasn't allowed to know what i was, and they want it to stay that way

it doesn't matter if it creates more people like me, because my suffering doesn't matter as much as a detransitioner's

Why is all this a bad thing?
I'm not saying this as a chud like . I'm saying this legit as a tranny.
Why is your "male" coded upbringing, values, personality or interests a bad thing?

i'm a transbian and my taste in women is malebrained and gross

It may be "malebrained", but why is it "gross"? Why do you judge it with negative connotations? You aren't going around literally raping people, are you? You aren't sexually harassing people, are you? Is it merely "gross" because you consider all masculinity in a negative light?

Feminism is about breaking down the restrictive cultural roles that bind both men and women. If you genuinely believe in feminism, women can be "masculine" and that does not invalidate their femininity. Transwomen can be "masculine" and that does not invalidate their femininity.
There is nothing wrong with masculinity, except in-so-far-as it's used to perpetuate structural oppression (patriarchy). Even the bone-headed, dumbass parts of masculinity like truck nuts or emotional stuntedness are not misogynistic in a vacuum. They are only misogynistic in the context of a culture that enforces restrictive cultural roles and punishes those who deviate from the gendered ideals.

trannyism unfairly criticizes men broadly with no insight or self awareness

omg far right chud!!!

Your evil propaganda scheme deserves to die out.

there might not theoretically be anything wrong with it, but in practice cis women can always tell i'm not one of them because of my male upbringing and aura. it's heartbreaking.

Feminism is about breaking down the restrictive cultural roles that bind both men and women.

The loudest feminist response to “men” “breaking down the restrictive cultural role” that binds them by transitioning has been to oppose them.

a little gentle banter on Anon Babble

OMG YOU HURT MY SNOWFLAKE FEELINGS YOU EVIL FEMINIST BITCH

Oh come the fuck on. That was the most even-handed, male-sympathetic feminist viewpoint you might ever see posted here and you have a melty over it?
Would it make you feel better if it I said:

If you genuinely believe in feminism, men can be "feminine" and that does not invalidate their masculinity." Transmen can be "feminine" and that does not invalidate their masculinity"

You can be a "weak", "soft", "sensitive", "virgin", "incel", "manlet" and that does not invalidate your masculinity, friendo. And you deserve opportunities for community, belonging, and relationships, regardless of your lifestyle and characteristics.
Just don't squander them by being toxic IRL. Save it for Anon Babble.

i tried to side with men, everyone likes the idea of men, but the reality is too harsh...

we're punished by men for being attracted to or trusting them, we all are, but unlike other women, we're considered unwelcome and undesirable by default, anything bad that could happen to us was deserved

we're monsters for wanting to be seen in ways normies take for granted, any comraderie between us and men only exists because they see us as a more impressionable version of what they actually like

i literally undress attractive women in my mind and imagine myself cuddling with them.

I haven't done this since puberty. I am definitely AGP type but the estrogenic castration killed my male libido. IWNBAW but at least I'm relatively harmless now.

"incel"

I see many self described feminists using "incel" as an insult precisely to invalidate masculinity.

the first 6 months of hrt i was basically ace, but sexuality has slowly crept back up unfortnately

if you're saying that as a trans woman it's actually based, it's only cringe when men say it

the problem isn't being malebrained, it's that we live in a culture that doesn't want to acknowledge or understand us, the mainstream idea of love is almost dystopian

but we don't have to get all of our socialization from normie culture

gender critical women became prominent on the foundation of men mocking and baselessly being skeptical of trans and non binary people for years

and part of it was from the top down because people who invested into homophobia and lost wanted to try again with transphobia

cis women can always tell i'm not one of them because of my male upbringing and aura. it's heartbreaking.

I understand - there are many minutia they pick up on, and their responses are hurtful, and unfair.

However, the presence of an “aura” does not imply some unalterable intrinsic nature. Having an aura does not necessarily reflect ones true nature.

It's been almost 5 years for me and a gradual slope downward. I think up until early 2024 I could still get aroused. It wasn't just estrogen actually because I noticed psychological/ego changes in addition to the hormones that made me a passionless person. I'm like a room temp glass of water now.

gender critical women became prominent on the foundation of men mocking and baselessly being skeptical of trans and non binary people for years

TERF beliefs have always been the default feminist position, and trans accepting stances have historically been the minority feminist position. Broader trans acceptance is a more recent phenomenon.

Blaming men for the negative aspects of feminism is a cop-out – feminism is as pure a female creation as exists. Women are not children, they are not incapable of forming their own bigoted politics, and feminists don’t lack responsibility for their own wrongdoings.

broader trans acceptance is a more recent phenomenon

well it was until men ruined it lol

for the longest time there wasn't even a word for sexual harrassment in the workplace, men were just getting away with it in the time that book was made

well it was until men ruined it lol

Feminism is about breaking down the restrictive cultural roles that bind both men and women

Get a load of this retard

I’m only addicted to anime and vidya because of male puberty brain damage

t.the 27 years old “found out I was trans last week after my parents threatened to cure me off”oomer

wanted to be a girl since 8, had panic attacks over puberty changes at 11 and puked the first time i had a male orgasm. gatekeeping and being an asshole like that helps no one anon.

sounds like a retcon. Because I had intense stomach discomfort for weeks after I first cummed so I think it’s a physiological thing having to do with muscles not your gender journey novelization.

if my 10 year old self would have been shown pictures of the average 30 year old man and women and asked which one i want to look like when i grow up, i would have chosen the woman no question and would have become incredibly suicidal. i literally maladaptivaly daydreamed about being a girl in bed every single day as a pre-teen.

i just can't remotely relate to or understand womanhood.

Same as all trannies.

A woman doesnt understand what it feels like to be woman. She just exists. While having all female biological stuff and being perceived as a female. It's not something a tranny could understand.
Trannies are men who are convinced they understand women so well that they believe they can actually think like women.

Trannies always have to feminine in order to mimic cis women, but cis women can be as masculine as they want.

That may be so I just think you’ve assigned undue psychological importance to the cumming thing.

or because you should ack yourself, retard