Im afriad my gf will cheat on me how do i get over it...

im afriad my gf will cheat on me how do i get over it. she's fully admitted that she likes men's personalities more but women's bodies are more attractive. and its noticeable in the way we interact, she has more energy with her male friends than with me. help

Uhhh... Ask her not to?

Genuinely sounds like your just mutually exploiting each other if this is even a problem you can have. Your gf is retarded anyway lol

Total transbian obliteration

Don't date a misogynist

i want to stay with her and she assures me she'll never cheat on me but i dont know what to do. i cry like a fag about it and she doesnt seem to care. i cant tell if its some autism thing or if she genuinely doesnt give a shit. i just need help

If you're transbian then you have both girl body and guy personality so you win on both counts and she shouldn't leave you

worse, im ftm pre-t until my insurance catches up

she likes men's personalities more but women's bodies are more attractive.

it sounds more likely that she would cheat on you when you start developing a manly body and personality

Is your gf cis

Jesus, this is not a good relationship. Please leave it. Your partner shouldn't be attracted to someone that...isn't you. Also, she admitted that she doesn't think of you as a man. *biden voice* CMON MAN!!

Just let her go be with a real man, you failed dyke. It's better for everyone if she gets to be with the dick she deserves and your taffy pulled clit rots alone and untouched by all but your crusty ass vibrator.

this is literally my exact concern, that i won't be enough for her in some way and its all going to go to shit because of it

i hope you find or are with someone who truly loves you.

no, mtf

What do you wanna do op

im so conflicted. i love her so much but what can i even do if thats how she feels. we fight so much that it feels like its not worth continuing this most of the time, but i truly dont want to leave her. i love her to death and would do anything for her but i dont know if she truly wants me. it makes me bawl my fucking eyes out nearly every day over it.

Thats rough op what does she say when asked

If you're arguing a lot, it's not meant to be. Leave.

Get a share bf

how do the arguments usually go op

she usually tries to assure me in some way that she loves me but immediately meets me with things like "is this because of" -unrelated thing or just repeatedly implying im being ridiculous about it. maybe i am, but i dont think so.

i wonder about this a lot, honestly. its just so hard

Breaking up with my ex was the hardest thing to do in my whole life, but it had to be done. I couldn't continue being miserable and pretending like everything was ok to her. It's not fair to do that to your partner, but by staying with them you're wasting their life and their time. Once I got it over with i was filled with relief. You will be to. Actusl good relationships have minimal to no fighting.

how do the arguments start

i think it may be the answer but i also don't, because we swore to be with each other forever and have all these plans together. im just so miserable though, i truly dont know what to do

usually she'll make like extensive gay jokes about it to her male friends and it just reminds me that she truly likes men better, and that to her i wont ever be a real man. at least thats how it feels anyway, she doesnt reassure me at all. just bitches about theyfabs and shit which makes me feel like she views me this way. we had a conversation earlier where she expressed getting bottom surgery was like mutilation for mtfs and it felt like she was implying it was for ftms too, when she knows how important it would be for me. its just a combination of things that start off these arguments, usually with her being pessimistic or dismissive in some way.

I told my ex those same things. I wish I hadn't, and I did. Sometimes I meant those things, but most of the time I was thinking about how I hated these fights and didn't want to be with her anymore. Again, don't waste her time or your time by staying in a relationship where you don't really, truly love someone. If you have doubts you want to be with someone forever, I don't think they're truly the person for you.

i just want verbal reassurance from her and it seems like she just cannot give it to me in any meaningful way, just buys me random shit to make up for her being shitty to me. i hate it, it feels so fucking disingenous and like she's trying to smooth over these things with money

i want to be with her forever i just need very basic things from her, and not getting them is causing all this misery.

what redeeming qualities does this person have

she's so funny, and the smartest person i know. she used to be very caring at times, and now its like being with someone who is a good friend. i felt held and understood by her for the longest time, even though she would treat me badly sexually when we were younger. it feels like we're meant to be together, which is why its so hard making a decision now. cause with other people ive dated i didnt love them, and now i love her. and im just crying like a fembrained bitch over everything. im ngmi

I bet she's a chadhon. Like a tall chad that's a bit fem and transitioning but will never pass

not a chadhon lol but she would pass 100% if you saw her

How'd you start dating?

we were friends first and then started dating in college

I know a way to make her like you but you're not going to like it

what way would that be, i would do anything at this point

she likes men's personalities more but women's bodies are more attractive

I feel like the exact opposite

what way would that be, i would do anything at this point

be you

get on T

get the injections in your hand

start doing your gfs e injections to give you "more practice"

swap the injections, injecting her with T

gets her super horny

There ya go

what i would give if making her horny would fix the issue lmao

You could get her to get you pregnant

no thats vile. i'll do anything for love but i won't do that

do you have a plan op

yeah i think i know what i have to do.

You need to rip off the band aid and transition and see what happens

yeah thats what i mean, aint nothing to do but do it. sucks that i have to wait but oh well ig

is that your plan?

hopefully. or i can take it like a man and just let it happen while she does whatever she wants

whatever happens i just hope she chooses me