like wtf.
I know I'm a fag and like guys and dick, but somehow my own "fear" of being gay stops me from perusing this so I'm stuck in an unfulfilling cycle of faking my life?
How can I stop being scared of being a fag?
I know/accept that I'm gay, yet I'm scared to be gay
Transition into a woman. Then you can date men without being gay.
it's a slow and difficult process. focus on what you enjoy about being gay, and also try to think about what gives you negative thoughts about it, such as fear of social stigma or sterotypes, and slowly deconstruct those thoughts
or do this if you want to continue to wallow in self-hatred and try and fail to fix it with thousands of dollars of medical treatments
I had that once. I only learned how to force it down and kill it after it ruined my relationship with a guy i really liked. I hope you find the courage and motivation to do it before it hurts you the way it hurt me, but that might just be what you need to push you through it, so...
All i can say is you cant really live as a closet case afraid to ever admit your feelings to yourself. You have to force yourself to be honest and comfortable with who you are or you will never find love and stability
You have to learn to like yourself as a gay man. Get to know other gay men and spend (non-sexual) time with them.
And you have get rid of those nagging thoughts that religion or conservative people spew.
And you have get rid of those nagging thoughts that religion or conservative people spew.
easier said than done
most people here don't accept being gay though (not that others would accept them being gay if they did), they "identify as women" and try to date men "as a woman would"
Why should OP be any different? It's obviously easier just to cope and do
That's just homophobic of you. You are making it more difficult for him. If he finds good friends, he can enjoy his life. Simple as that.
society is homophobic
there's no escape
you either assimilate or face the rest of your life as a hated outcast
your choices are
a) marry a woman
b) become a woman
Homophilia is a disease
and transition is the cure
wtf i love estrogen now
toot toot
all about the girlpill train
im gonna be a good girls hsts
like no one ever was
to catch straight men is my true test
to marry them is my call
hetero man
gonna be a master
they'll never know i was male
take these pills
carve your face
woman life
hsts
gonna be a master
My society is not homophobic. And if yours is, then fight it. Change is possible.
But if gay men are forced to mutilize themselves and hide themselves from the public, then of course the society is homophobic and the worst homophobic people are those who should be there biggest support and still say things like "marry a woman" or "become a woman".
My society is not homophobic
you have never pressed the limits to find out
a gay person who tries to get to the top will find there's a different standard for his kind, you are on the bottom, you have never pressed your luck or tried to achieve social dominance
Change is possible.
lol
no it isn't we are monkeys and it has always been that way change is only possible if you change the fundamental matriarchal format, women are NOT ok with competition from men for men, and as long as they run things, ever society is and always will be homophobic
You really should go out more and perhaps visit other countries.
every single country is homophobic
there are no countries run by prancing flamboyant gays
gay acceptance means its ok for flamers to run things, they don't
that's because women hate them
blah blah what about these neoliberal breeder gay plants
no fems allowed
or fems have to be trannies now
we will probably see a straight trans woman as President years before we ever get a flamboyant gay guy in the job (200 years from now if we survive)
accepted im a faggot for a long time now, even indulged
still find it very scary even now, i get it anon. im not quite sure what it is to be honest.
yiff in hell, dogfucker
i know i'm not cause i still get nervous around women who i'm attracted to or show vague interest in me, but i watch a lot of gay media, porn and have a dildo collection
always called myself bi but know i'd never date a man, think i'm more sexually bi, but romantically straight but who knows how much of that is internalised homophobia or something
this stuff is needlessly complicated mainly cause the world says "pick a lane" rather than do whatever
I swear I like women
ok
only a true faggot would not be able to understand this
what's the cure?
yea wearing a dress in public and being mocked is much better
here's a tiny tip to prevent that: get huge breast implants right when you start taking estrogen
nobody will mock you then
thanks!
you first.
TOTAL HUMAN DEATH
yiff me dogfucker
stop grooming gays to become trannies
but the pinkpill is ever so delicious
dont make me bro
make me what?
do things that would make the good lord most ashamed
i have my bf for that
you believe in God?
we're complicated