/chasergen/ chaser general

when i say mainstream pop i mean the genre of which most of the mainstream pop falls into, which is alt-pop !!! im really not big on it but ya charli is quite good she isnt alt pop, but yea people like ed sheeran nd taylor swift make alt pop believe it or not, its the other way round lole

Move to the new thread if you want to call my music taste shit or whatever.

i don't need you to dip you do your thing however you decide to compose your days.
idk, i just really do not like fakeness, it causes me stress and triggers southern trailer trash passive aggression instincts. and the way i feel like you interact with me as like, someone you kind of openly dislike but refuse to acknowledge disliking and pretend to be nice to, it makes me feel incredibly patronized and faked at ig
i don't know what i can change except filtering you but that feels really rude
but like irl if someone hates me but fakes nice with me i avoid them like the plague unless i need to use them for something
and i genuinely like you as a person so i don't wanna be like that at you

It is always too easy to say should know better

im not being fake, i told you how i feel! this is about the fact you think i dislike you, not the fact i dislike you.
to make it very explicit and restate; me putting up firm boundaries with you is what i need in order to share this space with you because of how you treated me in the past. the existence of those boundaries is not the same thing as me disliking you.
it is not fake or false its just being assertive about my needs, which in this case is those boundaries being maintained

Take it to the new thread ladies.

No let it stay here

dw this is the last i will say on it all anyway like its no drama and not something i wish it litigate endlessly least at all in thread

sorry, that was maybe a more blunt/insulting way than i should have put it.
but like, okay, you've expressed this exact sentiment to me a lot, and i understand how you feel is not active resentment.
but i also can't really conceptualize

i cannot be real with this person or interact 1-1 or do anything beyond amicably share space if we happen to be stuck in the same eplace

as anything other than disliking someone
this is how people treat coworkers who they hate

Good take to have honestly.