My mom once asked me how am I not ashamed to be transitioning like some pervert.
Told her that I don't want to hurt anyone or really get in anyone's way, and I'd rather just be left alone to just do my thing.
"Well you're part of a society and more importantly a part of a family. You cannot 'just be left alone'. Therefore, you're a narcissistic egoist."
What the fuck? It's been like 2 years and I still can't think of a rebuttal. She's right, isn't she?
Holy fuck, please, detransition. You sound like someone who loves to be miserable, being a detrooner will greatly help you with that.
You're either a chud, a bot, or a retard.
I'm surprised she didn't bring up religion, lol.
Imagine posting the most basic ass gaslighting phrase and framing it like some existential trvke.
you would be way more of a drain on society and your family as a dysfunctional repper
implying that being a narcissistic egoist is a bad thing
That's fucking retarded
I won't stop harassing you and you're evil for wanting me to stop!!!
Eat her corpse when she dies
Thing is that I don't have anything against egoism, actually
But honestly, I'm not sure if I just feel called out or I try to hang onto trying to show my mom I love her—She doesn't believe me
Also, what did I do to you :((
There's no reason to care about a society that hates you
why are you lumping me in with the other two replies insulting you? I was being completely genuine and speaking from experience.
t. dysfunctional repper
Also, what did I do to you :((
Because you're making big deal out of the most basic ass gaslighting trick that a fuckton of kids hear whenever their parents try to force them to guilt-trip into doing something. There's a bunch more, "I guess I was a bad mother/father/parent" is also a very popular one.
It's a nothing burger.
you're part of a society and more importantly a part of a family. You cannot 'just be left alone'. Therefore, you're a narcissistic egoist
That's literally just projection you moron, she's projecting her transphobia onto other people and attacking you because her narcissistic ego is injured by being related to a social undesirable. How have you not realized this in 2 years.
By showing them you can be trans and live in society.
The morality of normies is inverted. A nothingburger is a crime; a crime is a nothingburger.
My bad I read it as "you would be *less* of a drain"
I wish you a good day anon
none of my days are good and it’s almost 4 am but I appreciate the sentiment nonetheless
you are not an egoist; otherwise, you would have had a rebuttal. Hells! If you were narcissistic, none of what she says would bother you because you would be confident in your own self delusion.
think of all the hons out there who absolutely look like brick ogres dressing in the most saccharine clothing they can find. Antagonizing fights with people over their delusional sense of beauty. THAT is an egoist. THAT is a narcissist.
everything I don’t like to hear is gaslighting
some of you have such perpetual 13 year old goth girl mindsets about your parents
Self-hatred is a form of narcissism u kno
self hatred is a pathology born from abuse and neglect. ie: parents who don't love you enough and don't trust your own autonomy.
It’s actually not tho. t.hate self but parents love me too much
and what is wrong with that conclusion? Her parents are clearly guilting her and manipulating her to be something she is not for the sake of a society, and clearly a family, that condemns her. That is gaslighting.
If they loved you, they would try to understand you.
what made you come to the conclusion that you were trans?
Kill your mom now, being your self is not narcissist don't let her gaslight you
If society won't let people do their own thing as long as it isn't hurting anyone then that society is immoral and needs to change, not the people inside that society
Read Marx or Rothbard depending on if you're a leftie or a rightie. I also recommend "The most dangerous superstition" and "the constitution of no authority"
not killing my mom because i love but hello makaposter
I never quite got a good angle on whether or not being trans hurts anyone desu.
It's a drain healthcare resources, it can cause disturbances (e.g. trannies in women's bathrooms), and lgbt in general has a lot of grooming.
And I love you too cronaposter
Let's kiss
Well, if it's not just your sexuality, there's a lot of evidence out there for trans people being a real thing. You being a pervert is just an added bonus and might even help you find relationships.
Well, what's more of a drain on healthcare reasources, your dysphoria leading to worse diseases like depression? And why not just either not use gendered public bathrooms or just go in the mens bathroom when nobody is watching?
We might just have to
On its own there's nothing wrong with using hormones to change your body how you want. There is something wrong with using the government to force people into validating your identity and paying for your healthcare. For the longest time I conflated doing the later with the former and it's led to me hating myself for wanting to be feminine.
They can just shoot depressed people and call it MAID. Being a tranny is much more expensive.
So money is evil not being trans
Ask her why she doesn't want to preserve the harmony of the family by helping you transition instead of being a bitter regretful person who can and will take out your resentment upon anyone you know and are in contact with.
That's a fucked up way of viewing things and invalidates psychotherapists and big pharma who make money off it.
>"Well you're part of a society and more importantly a part of a family. You cannot 'just be left alone'. Therefore, you're a narcissistic egoist."
the premise is true but I don't necessarily agree with the conclusion. I mean everybody does SOME things for the sake of themselves rather than for society, so unless you're a disgusting freak that makes everyone panic as soon as they see you or think of your existence I don't think it's fair to say that someone is a "narcissistic egoist" by mere dint of transitioning
Same reason for why she initially was against me being gay.
She wanted strong male protectors (weird)
Wants grandchildren (valid)
She raised me so has some say in how I should repay her (valid)
"I used to get abused, so do you really think it's better to be a woman?" (fair)
Retard.
Grow some ovaries and stand up for yourself you sound pathetic.
Grow some ovaries
Wow it's that easy?
She raised me so has some say in how I should repay her (valid)
No that's weird having a child is excepting they to be their own person not folding down cause mommy dearest didn't except a trans child