Passing will guarantee I get a cis boyfr-

passing will guarantee I get a cis boyfr-

It worked for me

This bitch here has a guaranteed few thousand orbiters and has the gall to say that nobody would date her

oh but orbiters aren't dating material

It's still a metric of desirability

she probably just has too high of standards

yeh it doesn’t, cuz most guys don’t like penis. but hons will still pretend like passing gives u a happy ever after married to prince charming

I'd date her alright, the same way I'd date a cis girl and all that crap, but she'd probably liquidate me as a filthy chaser if I told her I'm ok with her being trans and that I actually knew beforehand ¯_(ツ)_/¯

You could have srs, but it's like who cares? You'll still affect your boyfriend's social standing if anyone ever gets to know you're a trans woman and that's a large reason for why you'd get avoided.

she's hot even with adams apple how come

yeh, most guys get pressured into thinking dating trannies is gay by eachother. i had the perfect guy but it didn’t work out and now im alone forever

because it is gay, trannies don't look irl how they do all dolled up and edited for social media
you are fundamentally men who have sex with other men

she doesnt pass. she has literally zero hips and huge shoulders.

wow i didn't watch the whole vid till now and yeah she's got a man ass.

The last things I noticed

are you fucking stupid? desirability isn't companionship you sex pest

no such thing

are you a brapapotamos?

a passoid irl

but if they passed, how would you know?

Desirability begets companionship. You don't get the latter without having the former

I would know if they said they're trans? What kind of question is that? The whole point is, would I know without her telling me?

They do hate one another

I found soemone I love, who loves me back and we are happy

"I will now insult you and ostracise you from this social circle, remain alone and unhappy or be excluded"

That's hatred

I mean she isn't wearing a pink triangle so when you say hello to her at a bar, if you say "hello, I know you are trans but I don't care", then that's awful.

I'd literally run away, never go back to that bar and remember it 20 years later

:(

I'm talking about the girl in the video who I assume by the time I'd talk to her I would've seen a video or two

whenever my friend has a gf I bite my tongue about things that bother me, especially if they don't bother him, and just congratulate him for having one

how is it humilating if someone can tell, but they're okay with it?

how is it humilating if someone can tell, but they're okay with it?

Because it means it'd be a filthy chaser

I'm starting to think transwomen are more neurotic and insane and insecure than women.
sure, they are agreeable and interesting and easy to talk to, but inevitably, that crazy manifests in the first few days.

a filthy chaser

you seem to have a lot of hatred toward the people who would accept you
do you think they all fetishize you?
a lot of chasers just want a woman, and transwomen are just better to talk to, have similar interests, etc. a lot of them just want to treat you like a woman. can you accept that?
and I personally don't want kids. the next argument is always: they'll leave you for some c woman because he wants kids
well I don't want kids, and I'm glad you can't get fat from having kids.

they don't look nearly as good as they do in perfectly lighted anglefrauded pics

I'm starting to think transwomen are more neurotic and insane and insecure than women.

it took you this long?

sure, they are agreeable and interesting and easy to talk to

this is just the facade they put up

trannies are NOT dateable
get yourself a real women

brapapotamos

yes

It's the idea of being trans that freaks people out. That's it. It's not just not being able to have kids, or having a dick, or the idea of srs, or not passing. Straight men don't like the idea that you're male. The best you can do is bisexual men in denial, like me.

you seem farly sane so far. are you prone to anything?

Someone post what she looks like now

looks like I'm going to have to put in some real work to be the kind of man they would date.
this is going to take a while. I guess nothing worth it is ever easy.

Yeah so he can be divorce raped and on the hook for child support.

True love can only exist between a man and his shemale

it's less correlated than you're making it out to be.

We've just been through a lot of abuse all our lives. Some my earliest memories are being bullied and hit, and it never got better

how is it humilating if someone can tell, but they're okay with it?

It just is. Why is calling a black person the n word derogatory. You being ok with it is fine, but approaching someone and putting that statement out there feels awful, it just does.

Approach me the way you would any other woman

Oh then that's different, if they've already told you.

I mean before anyones told you

vs investing himself in some tranny who's gonna decide that they're a "lesbian" in 6 months?

we do.
nobody is trying to humiliate you. letting you know you are accepted. so you know we're not going to clock you and freak out.
:/
I dated a black girl for a while. imagine if I was like you're black? omg? I couldn't tell! clearly the fact that I was dating her meant I thought she was cool af.

are you a cis woman?

Ok let me know when you've divorce raped him and turned the kid against him

Yeah but there are plenty of light skin black girls that look Latina.

My mom is dark skin Jamaican, no one believes me because I'm super pale I get mistaken for full white, especially after ffs, I have a European nose now.

And it's different, no one wants to be clocked. It makes us feel bad. And it's best to have that conversation in private, not at the bar. It's so shit being trans, worry about being rejected, being attacked being fetishised. I'm so stressed out

well I would never have that conversation in public, and I don't want to make you feel bad.
it's not that I fetishize you, it's that most of you seem autisic and actually approachable. I mean, the way you talk and stuff.
where are you from?

Let's not pretend this is just some man thing, women act like this as well and some of it among men is clearly downstream from them.