/frengen/

you're kinda based, but so based i'm scared of adding you and we not talking a lot and also you simply not being interested in talking to someone as lame as me, but you're cool, i'll admire you from afar desu!

asl

19/M/US (Texas)

letters

B

about

am a rather airheaded twink i guess. i don't like conflict, i just want to make people happy nowadays. will be starting college in august so i'm very happy about that! i'm a sperg if you couldn't tell, sorry

interests

ww2 naval combat, farming, pigs, computer hardware, 80s electronic music, vidya, and anime/manga

looking for

friends and people to talk to, i'm NEETing right now and i get lonely a lot. i can VC, just not often.

not looking for

sex pests and gooners, people over 25...

contact

sagefisch

note

i do change names and accounts sometimes, but if we're close i will make sure to let you know. it's kind of an ocd thing.

I dont bite tho haha, ty anon <3

What is your tag?

asl

19 northern washington

letters

mtf

about you

perpeutally lonely tranny who moved for uni pretty recently,,, even though its a college town its hard to find intresting people. Im playing umineko rn and i really like it. I really like obscure music, visual novels, fgc, and old rpgs/ nier

looking for

friends or anything really

contact

sometimes_there

asl

21/female/latin america

letters

trans

about me

mtf who has been on hrt for 3 years and currently passes, ive been just bored and lonely

interests

music and arts, i study audio engineering and work towards being a music producer as well, i sometimes play games or watch anime or read some manga but not a lot of the time since it feels like im wasting too much time. I like cooking and also i have an interest in j-fashion as well

looking for

a friend, someone to talk to at times, si hablas español mejor

not looking for

relationships / creepy people

contact disc.

nozomuwind

si hablas español mejor

¿Te gusta alguna música en español?

asl

22 / MtF / IL

letters

BT

about me

Chubby boymoder whos been on HRT for almost a year now. Former night owl stuck on the day shift.

Interests

I have so many! Of course I love vidya. I like horror games, JRPGs, fighting games, all sorts! Can't think of em all to mention. I also love board games, TTRPGs, and tabletop war games! I have a massive Warhammer collection I would love to show off (and hopefully have you play with me ;w;). I also like card games!! Specifically Magic and to a lesser extent Yugioh. Used to really be into Yugioh, but fell out of it as it got more complex. Still have a massive Magic collection though! I'm sure I'm forgetting many things, but just ask and I will yap your ear off!

looking for

Friends!!! Preferably people from Illinois as well! I am new to the state, and have no friends up here! I want people I can hang out with, play games with, and all sorts of stuff!! I really wanna have people I can meet and hang out with irl at some point.

not looking for

I don't want romance or sex or none of that! Just a friend! Not really wanting people on the other side of the world or super far away, but if you think we match up well enough, feel free to add I suppose :3

contact

petrifexi
(this is an alt, I'll get to you soon!!)

deadonline.

asl

29/seattle/mtf

letters

tranabian

interests

shadow run, pluggnb, troons

looking for

troons to fuck

not looking for

icky baboonies

contact

lonesome_troonie

Algunas cosas, mas bien rock antiguo y algunas otras, pero depende

25?USA bisexual pennsylvania

looking for

- academic or career driven of any kind
- MD/PsyD/PhD
- people into any theory or philosophy that want to share their ideas or what books they are reading
- lesbian sex

please dont

minors
vindictive bpd

cont

photokeratectomy

Update

shadowrun sucks man

Literally less personality than any chaser on this board. I can't imagine you're having much success with that

sometimer ubbave to gib someone a chance

ooa meamr for

asl/letters

21/femboy/bi/neet/aus

about

extremely shy and hard to talk to so sorry in advance...

hobbies

web design/indie web, comics (marvel & dc), I don't really have a lot of hobbies desu

looking for

ppl to chat and play games with. I don't really have anything in mind but I'm willing to play whatever

not looking for

smalltalk, vc

discord

eyeofshiningjustice

>asl

20 f US EST

>letters

cis f lesb

>interests

emo/scenemo genre, butchering (i do on the side), makeup, rewatching all of the early 2000's chick flicks, horror, slashers ect, tea im p versatile

>looking for

femmes or ftm friendshipsor more idk im a fag, talking about sh cause im spiraling lately

>not looking for

romance w cismen/men

>contact

Disc: usyurrrr

pls no ghosting nonsense i will unadd u (;´д｀)ゞ

catfish

1/10 ragebait now im gonna have incredible lesbian sex

every ftm who has added you has disappeared

asl

19/m/Argentina

Letters

Gay and sometimes bi

Interests

Anime, software development, pokemon showdown, clash royale, nerdy stuff, language learning

looking for

Someone nice and interesting to talk to regularly ( I don't care if you're straight, trans or whatever)

not looking for weirdos, negative people

Contact

Discord: santi_solo_santii

jokes on you i just got a request MWAHHAHA (im scared now)

a/s/l

26/m/berlin, germany

letters

bi, chasoid

about me

xqc stole my look
9 tattoos
dressed in all black 24/7
diagnosed with being slavic and adhd

interests

experiencing ego deaths in random techno clubs, gym shit (i have a homegym sorta),
programming (web dev), music production (dnb, techno, breakcore),
ranting about neuroscience (nootropics n shit, upregulating acetylcholinesterase is goated),
3d modeling, 3d printing, machine learning shit, ux/ui design

looking for

a 22-30yo tranner, bangs, adhd/autism, alt fashion, interesting/similar hobbies
ideally from europe :^)
(if you try hard enough might save you from trump death squads tho)
or alternatively fun ppl to hang out with irl

not looking for

people under 22yo, or above 30yo
normies

discord

hy.pn

picrel is actually me

why do you look 36? You need to sleep, moisturize and eat real food man..

german xqc?!

i'm just genetically unlucky lel
but i dont think i look that old

i'm the real one, the canadian one is the copy

asl

27, f, Los Angeles

letters

B,T

interests

map games, classical concerts, raves, camping, shooting, museums, travel, documentaries

looking for

someone who likes going to random events and museums and interesting places, whether friend or more

not looking for

broke people that can't go anywhere, pedestrians (you're in los angeles, what is wrong with you), people incapable of planning or scheduling things, anyone under 23, anyone i have to babysit

contact

kasslightgatekeepgirlboss

AHAHAHA WHAT THE HELLL OML

what's up bud

Yer fucked pal, im sorry that happened.. godspeed

if you're not broke, why don't know how how to dress and take care of yourself by 27 years old? You have no excuse.
You're not a 12 year old child, mom is not going to take care of your trashy hair

asl

21, berlin, mtf theyfab

letters

bisexual. transgender (3 years hrt)

interests

i like cooking and gayming (i play a lot of path of exile but i like any games with nice summons becaue i dont have friends xdd), talking about league, plants

looking for

someone who wants to infodump me about their niche hobbies, if you are local maybe we can be frens :3

not looking for

weird cis guys, gooners, all the people who i have wronged in my life, anyone who wants to fuck my exes :|

discord

sunnymoder

what are you people talking about?

anyone who wants to fuck my exes

both lil peeps looking mighty fine on ket tho

that's why i dated them

Girl, have some self-respect please.
Even broke young teenagers are significantly more put together than you are.
Go get a haircut and learn to AT LEAST brush your hair and style your hair if you're not gonna put any effort in taking care of it. You look like a complete mess
If you're gonna try to write that kind of not looking for, maybe first try not looking like you are as responsible as a 10 year old
No one has time dealing with an adult sized baby

were you on ket the whole time?
my standards returned to baseline once i stopped abusing ket, even xans don't make my tastes so fucked

Your face is really unpleasant

I am literally in pajamas and armor what the fuck are you talking about dude

And you feel no shame? This is your first impression as a 27 year old woman?
You're not 10

not really. you fall under the category of child that needs to be babysat, so you're not what I'm looking for. get filtered

I just think youre really ugly and masculine idc about what dumb shit youre wearing

asl

23 mtf

letters

t and straight

interests

movies!!! i really like watching movies so i might talk about that a lot. i like reading too but reading alone in my room makes me feel really lonely so i try to read outside or with someone on vc. i like listening to music too, i’ve mainly been listening to kpop lately but i like ambient too. i really like those little word games that update daily and i like to vc a lot!!! i like going on really long walks and trying different smoothies

looking for

friends!!! i really wanna find someone i can talk to on a daily basis and watch movies with and just talk about whatever’s on our minds. i’d really appreciate it if you like to vc but texting is fine too honestly. as long as you’re a good texter (i’ll try to match that too)

not looking for

nonchalant people, anything romantic or sexual, people who don’t talk much and people who are way too woke like to the point where i can’t say much about anything without offending them (please don’t take this as a sign to add me if you’re a republican)

contact

pouchtrunk

listen here fed, i will not be radicalized or pushed in any direction. your psyops will not work. but i am looking for a better job so hmu

alright grown ass baby
maybe mommy's lessons to practice proper self-care is gonna stick in your next life

Is that how you cope whenever someone calls you ugly? I dont care what you do i just wish i didnt have to look at your ugly face nigger.

thats normal hair not even that frizzy thats what happens when you have wavy hair it looks pretty good. and if youre a trans youre more likely to get attacked /harassed so most of us wear some kind of armor. no need to be a bully

Didn't you try to get back in touch with one of them after stopping ket when you realised you made a mistake by ghosting her?
Still mad that she told you to fuck off?

I have wavy hair myself, it's quite common in the west you know. But both men and women learn to groom themselves. You even are using the internet, stop being lazy and inform yourself if you don't know how.
You have no place to try to look down on people when you come out looking like a grown ass child.
Parents often tell their young child to do their hair before being taken in picture, you haven't learned the lesson after 27 years

The only people who wouldn't think that you don't care of yourself after seeing that hair are the ones who never even bothered so they can't even tell the difference.
If this is the picture you chose to represent yourself as first impression, I am terrified to imagine how you look like at your worst

ye, the wrong one; pussy one is much more interesting
that was still on ket btw; after quitting dissos i realized how she used me for her nefarious bpd shit, i'm happy she's gone from my life, it's like taking a shit after being constipated for weeks
she's using you too btw and she'll ghost you again if she feels like it, bpd niggas can't be trusted

you're splitting

am i? i can see the positives, but the negatives far outweigh them
you can stop projecting now, i have far more intel on what happened than you think i do

I'm not that anon, but seeing you split was pretty ironic and funny

i know you aren't, the way you type is very distinct :^)
don't worry, though

I dunno man, if her bpd bothers you so much, why didn't you support her when she decided to quit drugs and take her meds to get better?

Sounds like you're just grasping for anything you can get to cope with losing her better which wouldn't be the first time for you lmao

again, once someone made me aware of how she used me, i'm happy she's gone - guess i put my faith in the wrong person
also, you might not know this but i legit told her to stop using illegal drugs as a way to cope with bpd

and well, stop projecting. sometimes it's not about losing a certain person, just certain feelings, and as you might know, bpdfags tend to overload you with emotions when it's convenient for them

all cluster b's manipulate

and again, i know your writing style well, stop talking about yourself in third person

you're splitting again lol

stop projecting, that doesn't work on me

you're talking to two different people, my only messages were the ones about splitting silly
But it's always funny to see people split like that while talking about someone they feel wronged them
You even tried to convince the other anon that this demon is going to do the same to them, and that everyone like that is the same
It's splitting, try informing yourself

anyway are you done blogposting? Or are you co-morbid HPD?

my only messages were the ones about splitting silly

there's 3 other ppl in this convo :p

that everyone like that is the same

that's literally what the classification is for, have you ever heard of DSM-V?

co-morbid HPD?

used to consider that a possibility, but my guess is now with cyclothymia and adhd

another annoying retard samefagging a pointless argument with themselves and shitting up the entire thread for attention again

going to combo breaker for fighting games?

many such cases anhon

that's literally what the classification is for

No, personality disorders don't work like that. They are a wide set of negative traits that may or may not apply.

On top of that, what it really is used for is to make it easier to go through masses of people in general hospitals and to point them in the direction of a therapy (DBT) that is likely to work on most of them.
But if you knew anything about mental health, you should know that it's not clear cut. What do you think this is, some physical illness or something?

Either way to make those kind of blanket statements and to try to get people on board with how horrible x person who wronged them is, well.. ironically enough a pretty common BPD trait.
Girl is splitting

used to consider that a possibility, but my guess is now with cyclothymia and adhd

And by considering the possibility you mean getting completely obsessed with the idea and building your identity around it for 2 months

You fell in love with a borderliner and got burned because you thought you had a chance, even after she told you that you don't.

grow up pls

>asl

21/m/lithuania

>letters

some bullshit but probably pan

>interests/hobbies

basic all the media shit playing euro truck, fallouts at the moment, bars, cycling, cooking, dumbshit history but reading into lithuanian interwar history atm

>looking for

I want someone with a unique perspective in life or just someone to talk to honestly the more talking the better especially if someone wants to call

>not looking for

idk I accept everyone I WANT TO KNOW WHO EXISTS but no sex because I am happily married

>contact

wuzimu8400

some physical illness or something?

in most cases it's caused by brain inflammation or fucked up receptor protein methylation

you think you know me so well, yet all you do is projecting
you've literally emotionally abused me after your LDR shat itself and then went ghost when you had an episode after promising that you'll stay around

Hi Aethy :3
I actually thought you'd have moved on my now...
Could you stop spreading lies about me pls?

I told you from the start that it's not a good idea for you to get close to me. You did it anyway.
Maybe don't trip on empathogens the next time you're around a BPDemon and then fall in love with them after making out once in Berghain :3

Are you really going to be dishonest to try to keep the argument going? We both know what I'm talking about, there's no need to play dumb. BPD is quite vague in some ways, it's more about checking enough boxes so that you can get help in a timely fashion.

Besides in the clinical sense, BPD is more like traits that in part form a self-defense mechanism due to past trauma.
That self-defense mechanism is self-destructive but that's what it is.
But that's also why DBT is so good at treating it.

Anyway please stop blogposting. I had my laugh, and I got to educate you but this has gone for too long.

Could you stop spreading lies about me pls?

what lies? do you want me to list all your victims? i could also get everyone to build a nice compilation of your atrocities, for everyone to see

I told you from the start that it's not a good idea for you to get close to me.

neat victim blaming. "it's not my fault i abused you, i literally warned u"
you'll never get better

you're both bpd, and one is probably autistic and hpd too
Please take the hint and some fresh air and let the thread go back to being frengen
Thank you

this is enemygen now

Except that I didn't abuse you and you're just mad that you didn't get what you want :3

But sure, tell yourself that.
We both know that shit like this is exactly how you do damage control everytime something doesn't go your way :)
You're forgetting that I sat next to you while you did it a bunch of times in the past

Frenemygen.

Except that I didn't abuse you

that's what your POV is like, ask anyone else who knew and is impartial lmao

We both know that shit like this is exactly how you do damage control everytime something doesn't go your way :)

go ahead and prove it then, bitch

I've been telling him that he's BPD for months lmao

I wouldn't even be here right now someone wouldn't have told me that Aethy is talking shit about me. But you're right, time to touch some grass

i'm not bpd, you're just projecting

is this the 26 y.o berliner agp sissy detrans skinwalker druggie arguing with his tranny egfs or what is going on here

Hey bpd girl, do you know what is likely to happen during your psychiatric diagnosis if you tell them that you were abused by someone with a personality disorder?
You will check an important box in how likely they are to diagnose you as BPD.

Also in this thread you are the one anon who is trying hard to convince others and even strangers about how bad this x person is. This is a very harmful BPD trait and you should really consider starting DBT. What you're doing is quite destructive, it does not matter how much you feel hurt. How you feel do not justify your actions.

No one else is doing this, you are. Stop using terms you don't understand like "projecting".
But Ironically enough, projecting is what you have done the past hour.

hi gf, missed u, didnt see u in the last frengen :c
xoxo

do you know what is likely to happen during your psychiatric diagnosis if you tell them that you were abused by someone with a personality disorder?

nigga how is being a victim of abuse a bpd trait
thats like saying that if you got your shit stolen, you're likely to be a thief

trying hard to convince others and even strangers about how bad this x person is

i don't even have to try, that person admitted to it and literally said

I told you from the start that it's not a good idea for you to get close to me.

you should really consider starting DBT

sure i have no better uses for money than wasting it on (((therapists)))

How you feel do not justify your actions.

it's not just about me, there have been several people who can attest to the other person being harmful

projecting is what you have done the past hour

no, you

Yeah, the impartial ones called me retarded for even interacting with you. They were right :)

You've been active here for years now and almost everyone knows you already and knows how you tick.There's nothing I need to prove.
If you'd grow up a little and learn to control yourself maybe you'd have a better chance of finally finding a gf that actually stays with you for longer than a week or two. But I guess the issues are always in the other person lmao

Anyway, bye now. See you on Sunday if you're coming :3

nigga how is being a victim of abuse a bpd trait

It sounds fucked right? I know. But that genuinely is one of the most important criteria.
You really don't seem to understand at all what a personality disorder is and what role it plays in mental healthcare.
Point is that you are the type of person who is the most likely to benefit from DBT.

And nah, you can get DBT for free. Go get your psychiatric diagnosis first though, then you can get the right therapy.

the impartial ones called me retarded for even interacting with you

your "perfect" ex literally added me and told me i was right lmao

There's nothing I need to prove.

translation: "there's nothing i can prove"

But I guess the issues are always in the other person lmao

i'm on good terms with literally all of my irl exes, and most of the people ive hooked up with

See you on Sunday if you're coming :3

what happened to your break? honestly it's a weird cope to go to a techno club and only interact with strangers on reddit, not irl

asl

2x tranny from NA

letters

transsexual

interests

I want a mentally sick man who likes seeing women cut and get worse to cut for and give me praise

looking for

men who fit the above description

not looking for

anything else

contact

bloodgirl5
I pass and have nice boobs

Wow this thread is further proof that there's a good reason I avoid social interactions and isolate myself. Relationships are nice but it's clearly not worth the drama. Thank you anons for not tempting me to message any of you