Had you experienced that?
Had you experienced that?
Every transfem I know just played video games with other dorks
absolutely... T_T
kind of I think. this made me cry a little
This has been my life for a long time, and it still is now I've only been on HRT for a little bit. Thank you for this
thought it was sweet until the I read the tags
this is some utter bullshit. some of the more selfish and self absorbed people ive met are trans girls, people who take and take and don't give, people who dump huge walls of text about their day or their current hobby or whatever but just reply like "oh lol" or "wait what I wasnt listening" if you ever try to move the focus of conversation off of their immediate focus or away from their 2 hour monologue about their favourite metal bands or whatever.
As an incredibly quiet trans girl this sounds like my ideal friend lol
some of
Why'd you even reply?
Again, this is just hsts versus agp, like everything else
Yes, but ironically in transitioning I discovered that giving to others wasn't just something I had to do to be tolerated but instead a foundational expression of who I am, I just needed to fill my life with people what would *appreciate* my giving nature and who would in turn meet my needs as well
it's just a theory made up by someone who believes in demon possession, nothing controversial, bro
Nice argument, you must be agp
oh no! I'm a fake thing you made up!
Yes, exactly. This is what "I saw the TV glow" is getting at. It didnt show a dramatic suicide or death by social beating, but instead showed the quiet death of the soul, of basically suffocating your sense of self to make space for others, because what you want is too silly, too ephermeral to ask for.
Im post transition now but its still my life in some ways. Yes I can be me, but asking someone to love me, to try and navigate my body and the social stigma of being seen with me, just feels like too much.
Im so utterly burnt out by rejection that I've made my life small, earning my keep finding my little joys and fetishising the idea of experiencing unconditional love and affection. I actually see a lot of trans girls like this, its like once they reach the late 30s they just kinda... give up on wanting the life that everyone else gets and settle for their little quiet routines and hobbies
when i was 19 i accepted that i had dysphoria but not that i was trans and came up with a concept called "the internet user" as a way to cope, the idea was i would get a job where i interacted with people as little as possible then go home and get on vrchat or similar to be a girl online and live my "real life" there, part of why i transitioned is because my idea for how else to cope was do depressing
like gravity!
Galileo was actually wrong, though. His argument was that the universe revolved around the sun, not the Earth. He had no conception that the sun also revolved.
how is k6bd going?
I don't think I've read it since the part where everyone died
blanchard is a shithead and his typology is a gross oversimplification but you can't ignore the fact that there are definitely people out there who fit the description of agp
accepting anything "as a gift" with no strings attached ESPECIALLY SEX
EVER
LMAO whoever wrote this post is the worst kind of abuser. NOBODY does things for you without expecting them done in return, ESPECIALLY sex. every single solitary time ive heard this from someone it was a test and if you actually took the bait you failed and they went apeshit and screamed at you for hours for being so selfish. i dont let people help me do fucking anything, you're not allowed to help me cook because i know that afterwards youre just doing to diminish the amount of work i do and claim that you cooked most of it. youre not allowed to help me clean because youre going to tell me that i never do enough and then bring up all the times you "helped". and most importantly of all i will NEVER let someone get me off, in fact i would literally rather just give someone oral and walk away without getting reciprocation myself because it just feels so much safer.
Galileo created the scientific method
I don't care? My point is that your idol was, in fact, wrong sometimes.
keep reading anon
That’s the point of the Always Sunny joke zoomer. That the biggest science guys were wrong about something even though they were right about something else. Don’t comment on cultural references you don’t understand
Okay, so what's your proof that Blanchard was correct in this case?
looks pretty cool, I'll have to binge it sometime
is it close to being done do you think?
pretty close i think
What was Newton’s?
Newton devised all kinds of experiments to test his theories, anon.
of course i’ve experienced that. if i’m not low maintenance why would anyone put up with me?
tfw the purpose of life is to join a transbian polycule
WHERE IS IT HOW DO I JOIN I WANT TO GET HURT
sex without expectation of reciprocation
sorry what?? this doesn't fit with the others why does everything have to circle back to gooning
how is that gooning? the idea that someone can just give you a nice time without the expectation that you'll do it back? sex being inherently transactional like that is really fucking exhausting sometimes.
post-group-sex tgirlposting
suck me off while I play vidya I’m tired
no its just normal sex but one person is taking care of the other person. how did you get anything beyond that?
because everybody is a weird sex freak everything is rape total great ape genocide
Low self-esteem, insecurity, and a poor sense of self. I know it all too well.
It's a scary mix when they have all this self-hatred and a craving for connection from others around them, mixed with this strange sense of entitlement and ego when their needs are not met.
I think if they can't take what they dish out from others (info dumps, vents, etc.), it means that they don't respect you as much as someone else. They'll either push people away aggressively and become more lonely than they already are, or they are going to be completely torn down and broken when someone that they hold in *high regard* tells them the truth about their parasitic behavior. They will not know who they are anymore, from all that trauma dumping they created a false sense of self. Tread carefully.
Well you're in for a rough awakening because i watched one of these utterly obnoxious people break up with someone just like you for being "too boring".
hot if you imagine it's a cute guy writing this and not a gross transbian
need love from men :(
I thought about this really early into accepting myself to. Its so hard to imagine i deserve anything as a tranny a lot of the time. This idea of living off nothing gets beaten into you.
Eating one slice of pizza, only speaking when spoken to at social events or playing a charecter you think others will like. Never doing anything active, talking to no one as long as possible, distracting yourself with games or youtube, shower but only to maintain appearances. Dont stay to long and dont think about anything other than your interests. If you focus on yourself youll realize how viscerally uncomfortable you are with your base form.
Stay up longer. You need to be distracted. Every second with youtube is a second you dont have to spend trying to fall asleep and in the milky drowsy darkness of your room realizing how much you hate the pathetic mess of a human you are.
One day that scab hardens over and the pain is still there but we get better at ignoring it. This is just what life is. Of course until your egg breaks when you realize "oh my god this isnt normal". When you begin to understand the fact that yes you could truly be genuinely happy and comfortable without the need for distraction. If only you were born right.
A wall of text? Every day, I just don't read 'em