Be me, straight cishet male, 18 years old
Never had a girlfriend
Never had a crush on a female
Love playing as female characters in games but not for sex appeal
Never been able to talk about girls the way my straight friends do
Be in the school library studying for exams today
Girl asks me for some tech help because I do computer science
I help her
We talk
Get lunch together
She asks if I'm gay
My brain freezes
....Am I gay
Idk do dudes get you hard? Have you tried thinking about having sex with guys? Is it like not your thing or repulsive to you?
Ik for me learning i was bi was hard but thats because im mtf and imagining myself with anyone sexually as a man feels utterly repulsive. Having sex as a woman though is awesome.
Though it is also just possible you dont have gender dysphoria and could just be ace. Moral of the story is i cant anwser this question for you. You need to do some self doscovery.
Um, well I haven't really imagined sex with dudes or if they get me hard, thinking about it now tho I am defo not replused by it. I don't think I can ever picture myself on top in a sexual situation that is for sure. "Having sex as a woman" that sounds really curious to me, as in I think I would wanna try that.
Thank you for responding i hope we talk more
Please be bait. We don’t need another transbian weeaboo.
I can promise I am not baiting anything, just unsure about myself is all
Ok so you could just be a bottom but if you think you might be trans consider these questions:
1. If there was a button you could press that would just make you a cis woman, would you press it and if so why.
2. Suppose you have to go somewhere utterly boring to do something equally boring (like going to the dmv to renew some license idk). Would you rather go there as a woman or a man. Theres no chance for a sexual encounter your just running an errand. Would you feel more comfortable as a girl or a guy.
Ignore them, they're terminally online and to distract from how pathetic they are they try to defend the community from "outsiders" which is just anything that threatens their identity. People like this will also try to tell you they're helping others that's a lie.
Good luck exploring it.
Hmmm.
1. I think I would press it yes. I think it would be nice to be a sister to my older sisters as oppose to their younger brother. The idea of being called Sis makes me smile a little.
2. This is a tricky one. I mean in my current state I do feel quite uncomfortable in public places and doing basic errands, but I have always pinned that to social anxiety. The thought of going out as a girl seems scary
Thank you, this all seems very new to me so I will admit I'm scared, and yes I will try to avoid responses like that, thank you for responding kindly
People like this will also try to tell you they're helping others that's a lie.
every accusation is an admission
Possibly the stupidest thing I've ever read in my life. You're guilty of murder.
Be me, straight cishet male, 18 years old
I don't think I can ever picture myself on top in a sexual situation that is for sure
....
Do you feel like youd only be pressing the button to be a better sibling or because the idea of being a girl genuinely appeals to you and makes you happy.
If this is the case then why does it make you happy. What does being a girl represent to you.
You dont have to have the anwsers to these questions right away. But think about it. Also if you genuinely think you might be trans you should probably leave. This is like the most toxic space a transfem could possibly be in
Also: cringe suggestion but it genuinely shattered my egg. You know those asmr video where people with nice voices call you good girl/boy. Watch one of those and see how being gendered in those ways makes you feel.
can a guy not bottom?
Hmmm.....I mean I think maybe wearing a dress or skirt seems fun? the thing i like the most about my current appearence is my long hair which most call feminine
oo lol i can try
Not a straight cishet guy. No.
Try and report back to thread anon. Try one with a guy speaker and one with a girl speaker.
Why not?
Okay! I'll begin now and report back when done. I'll do
1. Good boy by a male voice
2. Good boy by a female voice
3. Good girl by a male voice
4. Good girl by a female voice
Im not gay. I love the women that I think should exist, and hate the ones that actually do.
Because cishet men don't break their watertight seal.
a generalisation.
Reporting back!
1. Good girl by male voice.
2. Good boy by male voice.
3. Good girl by female voice.
4. Good boy by female voice.
Thats my ranking after listening anon
Ok interesting. How did each one make you feel?
1. made me horny
2. made me horny
3. made me happy
4. neutral face
So: just from this seems like you at least like men and dont neccessarily like being a guy so. Again cant tell you anything else and even what i said was an overstep. Stew on these thoughts for the next couple days and listen to trans and queer experiences. Try to understand what it all means to you.
the same situation happened to me. was she trying to get me to sex her???
I appreciate you talking to me I really do, and yes I will definetly think it over. thanks so much anon. Liking men does seem a little more comfortable for me than liking women
I know in my situation she wasnt trying to sex me, she was just curious and she may have been making an assumption based off my appearance . we have since added on snapchat and talked a little about cats so i think she is comfy being friends, i know im only comfy with friendship
try sexing her just in case
dose the thought of dudes get you off in any way? if so you may not be straight, simple as.
i really do not want to do that so no i wont be
never really thought about it. i dont watch porn or anything and i have never had a relationship or anything remotely close so i dont exactly think much about sex. when i think of dudes i do see abs tho
if you don't terrible things will happen to you. so do it or else.
no i will not sex her. that is final.
happy at girl on girl action
horny for mens approval
doesnt care for being obedient to women in a male way (only cares for it in a fem way ( transbian in the making))
Got another one.
then you've chosen death
by my tongue
how can i be transbian if i am "horny for mens approval"
and what gender does this tongue belong to?
I imagine you shall find the transbian mind is a mystic and wonderful thing, full of contradictions and worms. I will let you discover for yourself the joys of the male-attracted transbian.
but im not trans or lesbian so i wont know from my own experience, i need to be told