Help me

bears

lmao gtfo. Bears are just fat and hairy. Tall, muscular guys are not bears. OP is not describing this guy as a bear.

Thats kinda gay bro

Musclebears exist anon

Woah, hot. Imagine if he just grabbed your hands from behind and interlocked your fingers

I'm a gay dude and that is a 100% certified gay thought so ur atleast bi

Like the way you noticed his hands like this, yea gay af

This isn't that.

Why did you lie to us, anon.

Well I don't know if it means you want gay anal sex, but maybe it does mean you want a D/s dynamic with a man at the least

You're bisexual you've just never met a man that makes you feel small before

I don't think I have daddy issues lol. He's not like abusive or anything lol.

I've never used dating apps before. I've heard of grindr though. I could download it. Idk I just never thought I'd be in this position before. I thought this shit was like; reserved for faggy twinks with the gay accent ;_;

Pls don't put anymore gay thoughts in my head, the number I have already is more than enough

They were big! How am I not supposed to notice that! It's like I was shaking hands with a fucking giant ;_;

Shut up man ;_; I'm fighting for my life over here

What's that?

just hook up with a musclebear already anon

;_; fuck. I literally bullied fags in highschool how did this happen to me?

That's karma for you
Would you suck him off if he told you to?

Bro I'd walk into the fucking sun if he told me to you don't understand what this Man's voice does to my brain.

I don't want a random muscular guy I want this one specific muscular guy. Maybe I'm only gay for this one guy and totally straight otherwise? Gimme something here ;_;

You should start dropping hints

What kind of hints? I've never really flirted with a dude before.

Hate to break it to you anon, you're gay as fuck lmao.

if he doesn't give you a boner from looking at him: not gay.

most likely you see him as admirable. someone you want to be like when you grow up. many young men lack proper role models or misconstrue taking on a mentor as homosexual grooming. it's ok to spend platonic time with another man.

the question you have to ask yourself is: does he get you hard? if not? you're not gay, just attention starved.

Not when j first saw him but when he spoke to me and I heard his voice I got hard

Yeah bro that's not the reaction of a straight guy lol

not gay. prison gay.
androphillia, or real gay people, get hard lookin' at other dudes. like you see him bent over and triggers monkey brain.

I mean, now when I think of his body it turns me on, but the thing that initially kicked it off was his voice. Also his hands. They were huge and kinda hairy. I have pretty strong hands but mine felt so tiny in comparison to him. Idk what's wrong with me. I've never had these kinda thoughts before.

Pls elaborate. What do you find attractive about his hands? What would you like them to do to you?

This is fucking cringe and gay but whatever.

I keep having this specific fantasy where he invites me and the other guys out after work for food (that's somthing he foes every now and then) we eat, and I head to my car but it won't start for some reason. He offers to drive me home, but as we drive he puts his hand on my back. I notice that he's not driving to my place. I never told him where I live. He brings me to his place. I offer to sleep on the couch. He says no and offers to let me sleep in the bed. I reluctantly agree. In the night he starts grinding against me. I try to pretend to be asleep. But he notices and whispers in my ear telling me to be a good boy. He then grabs me and puts my on my knees, making me suck his dick. His hands caressing my face. He instructs me on what I'm doing wrong and how to do better. Eventually he gets frustrated and slaps me. I get hard and he teases me for it. I keep sucking him until he thinks I've done a good job. He praises me, whispering in my ear what a good obedient boy I am. He bends me over and fucks me.

Again, keep in fucking mind that I've only been with girls. He's the first guy where these feelings have appeared! Wtf is happening to me? Is he a fucking vampire or something? Evil wizard? Incubus? Wtf man.

maybe you’re a switch and due to your size haven’t encountered someone to really activate your bottom/submissive state until now. you simply wrote it off due to your size and now that you are being confronted with it it’s new and strange and you don’t know what to do with these feelings

Damn ;_;. How do I make it stop? I'm a regular guy. I want to continue to be a regular guy. I can't function like this.

Anon this is the most homosexual string of words literally ever

you can’t fix it. you’ve bitten the forbidden fruit and you’re cursed with knowledge of your preferences. realistically you were fine when you weren’t faced with someone in a position of superiority (both in physical size and social standing) so if you quit at least you won’t be exposed to him anymore (although you’ll probably keep fantasizing about him). maybe download grindr and see if there’s anyone capable of making you feel the way he does so you can experience it and find a path forward (accepting that you’re bi or don’t always want to be the dom/top or whatever else you might realize)

Fuck my life. Maybe if It's just a weird obsession that'll go away if I fuck him. I'll realize I don't actually like it, I'll go back to normal and be free of this, and I'll drink enough to forget it ever happened.

That's pretty hot. Definitely gay though, be careful. If you end up fucking this guy and enjoy it more than being with women there's no going back.