i want to share my perspective, one that many people like me (25 year old cis man) probably share.
be me 14, clueless and enjoy ragebait cringe comps
be 15. bff turns trans. i know you are here, somewhere, old friend ;)
be 16. educate myself to try and understand what my friend went through and why they stopped talking to me. also had a ftm hit on me and didnt quite get it.
be 17. libtard, love is love, accept my bisexuality, have compassion (oh born with female brain etc)
be 19. explained to parents about trans after they encountered it in the news using THE SCIENCE!
be 20. college has shown me that trannies may be insufferable. but i respect it, dont judge the murder for one bad crow
be 20. slept with a tranny who came onto me. was weirded out when she kept trying to convince me i was trans. bugged out.
still 20. the heavy social aspect started grating on me. the endless media spectacle. the constant self pity. im basically gay now, and i dont make it anyones problem. it began to get old
be 22, working. respect trans, tired of the bullshit, the talking heads and influencers dragging our community down. scandals and grooming my lesbian friend showed me on kiwifarms. i began to decouple ideologically.
be me today, totally ambivalent to the trans cause, because i can no longer believe in good faith that 100% of you would be trans without social media and i cannot believe even 50% of you would meet the scientific criteria of being physically transgender (intersex condition such as feminine brain patterns or hormonal patterns etc)
able to seamlessly identify real vs fake trannies here in PNWville based on this. never fails. i can see it in their eyes.
i still love my trans friend wherever she is these days but man, nobody sunk the pity ship faster than you people. social burnout. poor strategic planning in the activist levels of the movement. totally coopted by the dem establishment for the culture war. comes off as performative now.