trannies who only want a cis partner are cis chasers
Trannies who only want a cis partner are cis chasers
stated this a few times and I'll say it again.
I would date a tranny if she was
1. Emotionally stable (not necessarily free of mental illness just... stable)
2. employed or in some sort of higher-end study
3. was monogamous
if a trans woman met these three criteria and there was mutual attraction I would date them. Sadly this seems like a fucking Olympian task for most of the trans community, who are mostly committed to being very strange
I would date a tranny if she was
1. Emotionally stable (not necessarily free of mental illness just... stable)
2. employed or in some sort of higher-end study
3. was monogamous
LOL good luck finding a tranny who is ONE of those let alone all 3
i just need to find a job or commit to starting college (i will be 23 years old in a community college fuck in so old)
I thought I was a bigot for not dating trans people? Now I’m a chaser? I get so confused keeping track of all this
1. Not super stable but able to generally manage my depression and dysphoria. Mainly just a bit anxious from truama but still able to talk to people.
2. Shitty job but im in uni
3. Very monogamous
So im like most of the way there. Unfortunately very non passing twink rn so nobody wants me.
It's me, im that tranny who is all three.
Sadly, im also the tranny that made the list
There is a difference between being a chaser and dating a trans person. Chasers can just be werid and fetishy about trans people. For example i find cis male chasers are obsessed with the "chick with a dick" cliche, while cis female chasers just like the whole idea of having a drag queen they can fuck.
Also, in my expereince chasers dont actually dont want to date trans women. They will never walk down their street, holding their hand. They arent going to introduce that woman to their parents. Once the excitement of the fantasy has worn off they will just go find a boring cis person to have a public relationship with
no this isn't how the term works, chaser implies dehumanization of the group, it's been used for other communities as well not just trannies
chubby chaser
find it erotic because they find fat people gross and that makes it more scandalous to them so hotter
asian chaser
think of asians as less than them and inherently more submissive which leads to fetishization
tranny chaser
rooted in transphobia and seeing trans women as less than women/easier or as sexual deviants which makes it hotter
when a tranny wants to fuck exclusively cis people it's because they dehumanize themselves not their partner, they see themselves and trannies as less than the cis counterparts. They are something different we would need a new word, like a runner or something
Honestly both of you sound fine just a bit young. Keep working at and you will get there.
Just try to have a life outside of trannydom, I see a lot of trans women who come out and then get pulled into the communist polycule puppygirl nonsense and its just.... kinda sad. Like the excitement of living authentically has worn off and now rather than push to build a life they want they settle into degeneracy
im emotionally stable and monogamous and ill try get employed at some point im also just aroace lmao
DISQUALIFIED!
i mean, not that it matters, if you arent seeking romance or sex, what are you looking for from a relationship?
pick a maximum of two, maam.
i wanna die before 25 or at least not age much physically or mentally by then
1. stable enough to have hobbies, friends, study and
2. work a full-time white collar office job
3. yes
less than six months hrt, but mailfailed once or twice in girlmode before that - so I wouldn't say my chances of passing are bad (def passing after ffs & pio)
where you at op? what's your phenotype, weight and how tall are you?
better than me. i started community college AND hrt at 26.
life sucks as a perma dissociative repper. wish i could be in your spot.
cuddles are neat
straight guys who only want a cis partner are cischasers
DISQUALIFIED
DISQUALIFIED
both of you get your shit together and stop using micro labels
I'm in Australia, if you aren't in Australia either you don't get anything more
I am most attracted to trans women and would ideally have a beautiful trans woman partner (passing not a requirement)
But due to widespread autism, asexuality, polyamory, and degenerate lifestyles/politics thus is functionally impossible. If I did get a trans gf she would have too many sexual hangups and dysphoria to have full on adult sex. Many of them don't even like kissing or holding hands.
So because it's essentially impossible I just date men.
I mean you sound like my type but do you freak out and get overstimulated just from being touched at all and do you have AVPD and regularly disappear for days/weeks? I have found monogamous and conservative girls to be just as hard to date as degenerate ones :/
sad European tranner noises
but good luck ig you'll find someone
If I did get a trans gf she would have too many sexual hangups and dysphoria to have full on adult sex
people say this and when asked usually are talking about bottom dysphoria/not wanting to top
I'm all three of those and then some, but so was my transbian ex. The relationship was a disaster anyway and very heartbreaking.
Cishet women can cuddle with each other. Most Transbians apparently don't understand this.
can sure, but past their early 20s they usually don't or they're lesbian
im the ameposter what micro labels did i use
i dont think this is a thread for you to rate everyone mentioning age
No i expect in a lesbian relationship with another trans woman neither of us will want to top with our dicks. I'd never expect that of someone.
I'm talking about general skittishness, sex repulsion, or being more comfortable with autos equal fetishism than intimacy with a partner. Many trans women just feel like it's icky and overstimulating for people to put their mouths on each other.
**autosexual
why do cis people think they're some prize to be won for trannies just for being cis? gross
ok then ur based i hope u find ur trans gf. you seem to keep running into autistic trans women
hopefuel because i have these 3 for now
I'm a gigapassoid tall muscular trans man and I belong to MTF trans girls with small, soft princess wands
I'm a 5'11 passing trans woman with a micropenis WYA
trannies say this and then fail to live by their own criteria
you're responding to a trans person
I'm 6'3, my vagina is severely atrophied (1 inch to 1.5 inch deep) and straight-walled (no ridges)
sounds good where you at though
North Canada
I won't. I gave up and got a boyfriend. I love him and we take good care of each other and have a stable relationship and great sex life. I am more sexually attracted to trannies but I am not wasting my life on them because it's a romantic dead end.
I do have many wonderful platonic friendships with trans women though and that this point it'll just have to stay that way. It's sad but a necessary sacrifice to avoid being lonely in old age.
damn I'm in south
ok. I'm in north Alberta in the town High Level