okay, i'll say it more directly and without irony.
Many people overlook childhood when comparing men and women. i can say that boys face so much violence in childhood that it is crazy, and in many cases they are alone with it. but that's all other boys and men, it is not the woman's fault. i disagree. In my social circle, many boys were beaten by their mothers, not once, not twice, but many, many times, and the father may never beat them. the thing is that women are very cruel to the weak, like any other human being, they just can't beat grown men, so children and other groups are their victims.
i can compare many brothers and sisters and say that even in one family you see the difference because girls face much less violence as children, and boys, if they don't have an older brother or a strong father, eat shit. even before school people treat you like a grown man, but you are weaker, so you are under everyone.
Your life becomes a little easier only when you grow up, but now everyone compares you to women, how much easier it is for you to live, but no one looks at the problems and your childhood traumas, because no one stood up for you, everyone expected you to stand up for yourself at the age of 9 and the same now.
And when you say that women are better because they supported you, it was a minority, at least in my life I saw a minority of girls doing it. the thing is that it meant nothing to them. it didn't cost them anything in the social game to support you. it is expected of them and whether they do it or not has no negative consequences. but society doesn't expect boys to be comforters, so it is risky and can lead to bad things.
By the way, I have been comforted a couple of times by guys who were not even friends or sensitive at first glance, but society buries it in you from childhood.
The problem is that there is a percentage of bad people and they are evenly distributed among men and women. women are not better at all, I am tired of this lie.