/bigen/ - bisexual general

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/bigen/ - bisexual general

sleigh bells - treats edition

QOTT1: whats your favourite “obscure” album?

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FAQ:

Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?

Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?

Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?

Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.

Do you love me, OP?

I love the way you say things, and your voice is really nice too

What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?

Only difference is that our flag is prettier.

Am I bi if I have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?

This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.

Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?

'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.

Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?

Both are able to be attracted to trans people.

I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?

Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.

Should I be harsh on myself?

You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for you

Resource for Bisexuals:
biresource.org/

youtube.com/watch?v=LvYeNGkKMJc

I've always wanted to try playing drumsm, they look so fun
but I think I may buy a new bass bass...

hopefully I'll get to the psychiatrist soon and start taking meds again
it's strange, but I actually want to
I stopped taking the ones I was prescribed because the side effects were terrible

Last time I went to the funny shack, I had sport therapy (jogging and pilates and things like that), pottery classes, meditation class and uhh psychoeducation

that does sound nice actually, especially pottery classes...
when I was in the funny shack last, we had.. nothing really.. it was a quite sad place
basically just one corridor in an old building with patient rooms along it, and a WC at the end, a smoking section that was walled off, and a dining room area

I did ask for a pencil and some paper and started to draw there a little bit
I haven't really drawn before or after sadly, but it was quite nice

be me

meet up with a guy about a month ago

talk about how we want something short term and casual, essentially were both looking for fwb

meet up at his place

we hook up and have a lot of fun and he makes it clear that he likes me

am very hesitant to leave (i always have trouble going out the door and saying goodbye when i genuinely like the other person

text him that i got home safely and that i had fun and i cant wait to see him again

we agree to meet up again another week after but i became ill

try to make plans once i got better but he responded with “im busy but im sure well make something work”

its been radio silence ever since then, my messages keep showing up as sent/delivered but he still has me matched on hinge and following me on instagram

i try to cope by telling myself hes probably just busy but he posts on his instagram stories and ocassionally views mine

mfw

did i do anything wrong? i admit ive gotten a bit too comfortable and kinky when we first met up but weve known each other as acquaintances for over 5 years now so i would have assumed he would know about how “eccentric” i can be
its worth noting that he hasnt blocked me on anything (yet) but hes been leaving me on delivered so im just receiving nothing but mixed messages

For someone just starting out, ythink an hour of super inclined walking would be good on a chill break day? From what I’ve read it’s not good to go hard every day.

I need more basses... but no money... but I need at least 5 more.. no, 10
I need a wall of different basses
I love my current one but I need many more

its not looking good.... if I know this guy, and I'm sure I do, he will probably write after a few weeks when he gets lonely...

your muscles need time to recover
it depends what you are doing on your ON days
if it's lifting, then cardio should be fine

Sort of not sure if I should start dating men

can definitely feel romantic attraction towards men, and appreciate their bodies aesthetically

but only get a semi-hardon at best when thinking about sleeping with a guy or when looking at gay porn (unless it involves bondage)

had sex with a guy once, and only got semi-hard as well. I really enjoyed making him cum though

also really like using dildos and butt plugs, would be interested in (power) bottoming

I really don't want to have sex again without having established some deeper connection before - but because of that, I'm afraid of a situation where after building up romantic attraction to a guy, I can't match that attraction on a sexual level.

babe u just need to go with the flow

Probably found someone else, really dont you feel disrespected that he doesnt even reply out of courtesy? I guess he doesn't want to lead you on but like other anon said, wants to keep you within reach. You can move on but keep your feelings in check

i try to see the best in ppl desu i had a friend who didnt reply for days or even weeks bc he was busy and i dont like jumping to conclusions

You deserve better :/

it sucks because even when i lower my standards (i may be a tranny but i still take care of my physical appearance and have hobbies and aspirations and i expect my partners to be the same) i still have guys waste my time and lead me on
meanwhile my brother (who cant cook his own meals, keeps his car looking like a crack hut, and is still very dependent on my parents) has been going out with his girlfriend for over a year i really have no idea what im doing wrong lol

Idk it's annoying it's like people who put more effort in get less back and if they don't put that effort in they get nothing and then there are others who don't put any effort in and coast by. It can be frustrating but there's really no making sense of it. Just keep trying your best to find someone who you're happy with, appreciates you, and treats you right, because the rest you can't control

New thread, new me. Just kidding, I’m still a total loser

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Ah lol yeah okay, I can see why you would end up choosing that if you were drunkly skimming the descriptions. I hope the bureau will agree with you that moving sand and doing word association games isn’t conventionally agreed upon as leading to measurable results for most patients. I mean… Lowkey might as well have done crystal healing or chanting mantras in a room full of monks or something instead.
Fwiw I know a few people who got long term talk therapy for ptsd (and bpd too), but I guess judging by the other anon’s replies it’s wildly different what’s offered from place to place.

Im’ a clumsy idiot with clumsy idiot hands (I missed a bracket)

it depends what you are doing on your ON days

It’s still more cardio, but running, and then some weights too.

moving sand

I did some reading and people say it's good for people who have trouble putting their emotions into words.. which sounds good.. but still..
though I never understand what emotions I am even feeling lol

Lowkey might as well have done crystal healing or chanting mantras in a room full of monks or something instead.

this is pretty much how I feel about it haha
I need clinical diagnosis, I need clinical help

Fwiw I know a few people who got long term talk therapy for ptsd (and bpd too)

this is nice to hear
if I'm honest I'm not even sure what therapy is supposed to look like lol..
and I noticed that I feel all ready to talk about so many things, I write things down that I would like to bring up
but then when I arrive at the office I'm like
"oh shit, I've actually got to talk about these things" and it gets scary

how do i start a polyandrous relationship

idk

polyandrous

Find some male feminists youtube.com/watch?v=X_j5Wim358g

i want some actually attractive men though

Actually attractive men don't enter into polyandrous relationships

ok well where can i meet a man who is loyal to me and only me but i get to sleep around with whoever i want

Again, only creepy male feminists with low self esteem who aren't attractive

Just look like this

SLEIGH BELLS MENTIONED!!!! plus a music related qott shall get me to post here finally lol

qott1

ebner - 4-track fuck fever

You sound like an absolutely godawful person

hi bigen do u like my emo fit
notice st. peter's cross

Anyone else weirdly puritan despite being bi? Like I'm not really interested in fucking someone unless I can see myself marrying the person in question

I think it would also be nice to be able to answer "my wife/husband" when someone asks me what my body count is

take the prep and go to the bathhouse bigot

dont tread on me

lol

How am I a bigot, this is my life choice, I'm not forcing anyone else to do this

um well yeah. idk about THAT strict, but casual sex sucks hard. i wanna date someone for a bit first

I just wanted to know if I was alone on that

It's a joke, buddy

I'm not your buddy, guy

Leaning toward being in the same boat, probably more aligned with the other anon.
Sex seems alright, but I'm not specifically sex-motivated. I feel like if I were comfortable enough with a person to fuck them, I'd also be comfortable being in a long-term relationship with them. Directly gunning for marriage at the outset seems a little destructively idealistic, but I think long-term relationships are definitely for assessing if marriage is a viable option.

Yeah there seems to be a lot of people who want to slut it up and although that seems fun I'm just not that type of person

I love my ftm bf. I can be gay as fuck with him and he won't judge me for it

I don’t wanna get deleted :(

Fetus undeletus

like the feminine form

like tiddies

think the vag is ugly and unsexy and don't want to be up close to one

think cocks are aesthetically attractive

I'm still bi, right?