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Furry Friday edition

QOTT

What's your fursona? If you don't have one, what animal/creature would you pick?

QOTT2

If you are not a furry, how do you feel about furries?

QOTT3

Have you ever dated a furry?

i'm not a furry but my "persona" is bug themed because i like bugs a lot. i've tried designing a fursona for fun but i was never satisfied or i had no clue what animal to make it. i think furries are fine, i think a lot of the hate they get just for existing is stupid.

qott

i need to design one i intend on keeping, but a bat. god i love bats, also probably the most ftmbrained species lol

qott2

neutral. i like anthros, and i like a LOT of furries and i love the passion for it, but the community has a serious shielding problem with creeps due to a fear of stereotypes being proven true. it doesn't excuse it, despite my opinions otherwise being positive.

qott3

no but i have lots of friends and family who are furries. i wouldn't be opposed to dating one either.

i think i am about to be broken up with. how do i make this as painless for myself as possible?

kino

qott

asiatic jackal because i am asiatic. I look like picrel irl

Think of the relationship as a house and of deciding to break up as moving one’s boxes out. Your partner has been moving their boxes out for a while if your assumptions are correct, so you have to start moving boxes before the house collapses. Yes it is a competition and you shouldn’t let them win

I never thought of it like that. thank you

spider

Are you a colony bug or are you playing solo

bats are the most fembrained species

I would argue that is axolotls or hyenas.
This is a very cute artstyle. This is how I remember some children's books looking in elementary school (that's a good thing)

Break up with them first and say it's because they're ugly

tbf i said FTMbrained and not fembrained. most bats i see are trans men, ironically typically passoids. i agree with you on axolotls and strongly agree on hyenas, too. axolotls seem more common with women overall but hyenas seem like they're one of THE lesbian and ftm repper species

why would i do tha6

Are you a pretty spider
Because single summer is coming up

Who needs a fursona when I'm already a hairy beast of a man

reddit pooners deserve to be force detransed

You won't be able to fix it so don't dedicate your time trying to fix it. Get ready that things are about to change and it's going to suck but sometimes suck happens and you power through

is ghis you?

We get it anon, you're miserable

Why are so many of us pet players?

Its all the social contagion/ROGD crowd.. but they dont like when you point that out, lol

What draws this crowd toward pet play and not something like age play or BNWO?

most ftmbrained species for fursonas would be rats though? a lot of ftms like rats (for good reason, they are fun and cute). I like axolotls too but because I am latinX
by colony bug do you mean is the persona an ant or similar bug? its not
idk i hate not being cis but if i was cis male i wouldve been raised to be a useless retard like my younger brother. being forced to learn to be a housewife sucks but at least i actually know how to clean shit and use a kitchen without burning the house down

you're absolutely right i can't believe i forgot about rats.

What? I dont think you got the point, these people are all very susceptible to social contagoin/trendfollowing/hyper-online behaviours etc.. So they all copy each other, i.e pretending to be trans, getting into 'petplay', just because theyre all 'popular' things

its hot asf

How do I cope with being unlovable and with nobody wanting to be in my life for more than a year maximum
Would anyone itt want to be my online friend if I paid them

No

So these people aren't just susceptible to trends, they're susceptible to trends within their specific community?
But how did pet play become their trend rather than something else of equal value?

But anon.... We love you <3 even if you have an undiagnosed personality disorder

will you be my friend

Unfortunately I cannot. I have avpd, I can't have any friends. I just like to hang out here when it's cold outside.
I think you should learn how to animate and make me a Warriors animatic (please)

do you know who i am? is this you?

You're the unlovable anon
Is this an elaborate play to get a gayden bf?

i havent posted here in months, you're probably thinking of someone else

What is it that you think makes you unlovable and incapable of keeping people in your life? I felt similarly after I had a huge and traumatizing falling out with my friend group several years ago.

If it isn't you, someone else is also complaining about being unlovable. Give them a couple of hours they will show up. Maybe you two could kiss?

Yeah, hence why I specificed 'hyper online' too. As for why its pet play specifically, Id say most of it started from the 'catgirls' trend a couple years back, and people eventually switched to being more interested in puppygirls etc recently

I have avpd, I can't have any friends. I just like to hang out here when it's cold outside.

How long have you been like that? Do you really just spend your time on here, or what else do you do to distract yourself? Im in a similar situation but really running out of things to do

need ill give him a bath

I have a fursona it's like a wolf/bat thing I like it furries are my friends :)

im sorry that happened.
basically every friendship or relationship Ive been in has ended by the other person getting bored or just leaving me for some unknown reason. when that doesnt happen, i end up ruining the relationship myself because i am insecure and afraid that i will be left again. every time i have ever gotten close to someone they have been better off after cutting me out of their life so i cant really blame them. im just not sure how to get better.

i am ugly and i am unable to pairbond with another human being ever again

I've been like this since 2020 but was officially diagnosed last year. I have multiple creative hobbies I enjoy year round. I also use sites and games like this to socialize, and have a long term boyfriend so I am never lonely. Despite opposing friendships (and stereotypical employment or education) I am petty active.
How are you running out of things to do? Things just seem to come to me.

What is your sexuality?
I think the other person says that, too. You're not Crazy Frog?

i dont know who crazy frog is and im too tired to go check the archive. please tell me more

guy who complained 2-3 threads in a row about being ugly and refusing to take any advice while wallowing. i don't hate him, but he either needs help or to not let men he meets up to fuck get to him

I’ll burn my eyes out before I get out

This not u?

Cool looking
Do you have green eyes irl?

no but i relate
waow

have a long term boyfriend

Oh, that explains things then, lol.

How are you running out of things to do?

I have only a few things to do but I get no enjoyment out of them really, and have 0 contact with anyone outside of immediate family who I live with. Been like this for years and will probably stay that way. Fml