Any transbians here kinda see themselves as fem4fem gay boys? Like...

Any transbians here kinda see themselves as fem4fem gay boys? Like, you'll still identify yourself as a trans woman because of the way you present yourself, but also you feel wistfulness thinking about the emo boy romance you never had in high school, and so you're kinda happy pretending to be "boyfriends" with your girlfriend? :v
I don't even care about the whole "ywnbarw" thing anymore bc honestly who cares. Am I crazy?

Not beating the “this generation’s emo” allegations honey

u are crazy but its understandable desu. its just cope but its okay

if I was less repressed in school I totally would have been one of those femmy emo boys and ended up trooning out in college, but I was too afraid to even be expressively emo

idc. I'm not a gatekeeper. also not every tranny is like me, I only speak for meself

I didn't before this post. Now I feel that.

yes wtf theres others like me???
it's like I wrote this dude im ok with just looking fem in general but i still just feel like a gay boy
transbian t4t is inherently yaoi

Like, you'll still identify yourself as a trans woman because of the way you present yourself, but also you feel wistfulness thinking about the emo boy romance you never had in high school

No I feel wistful over the emo girl romance I never had in highschool. Extremely so

um, based department? hahah
understandable. ig I just didnt have enough dysphoria as a "boy", versus being a "man", you know what I mean? I think b4 puberty specially everything would've been agreeable to me as long as I was fem-looking, regardless of whether i was girl or boy or if the person im with was girl or boy, as long as they would've been fem too
idek if that's true rly im just stream of consciousnessing these thoughts

I'm so glad I could help you see the light, anonette :3

No, gtfooh with this male shit

honestly transbians I think are a good demonstration of why trans women actually are women
if trans women were men, transbians would be hsts, right? We would expect transbians to be a subset of hsts trannies. But instead, the vast majority of transbians are clearly agp, and are otherwise attracted to cis women and follow the same behavioral patterns as agps do.
I'm sure there are hsts transbians, but it's probably more like twinksbians on estrogen, while 99% of trans women who date trans women are primarily attracted to women.

transbians are straight men

I was sorta like the emo boy at my school, I had a crush on this other guy who wasn't emo but we would have had the hottest emo gay kisses in the back of the school.

a little bit but also not. its like blurring the lines between dyke shit and fag boy shit.

if transbians are straight men, why do they date each other?

Um, yeah, I feel like I'm in the minority cuz I can't imagine myself with a cis woman even though I find them desirable
But tbf I'm kinda larping as transbian ITT bc I also like men in general lol
I'm def not "hsts" though

t. seething chaser

I think most transbians are bi and that there's some that are trules (gigapassoid dating gigapassoids) and some that are just fem4fem gays (twinks on hrt)

because they can't get pussy and they would rather settle for something somewhat feminine than jerk off

this sounds like exactly what a chaser would do, I assume you are just projecting because I never had interest in pussy

most chasers like trannies and cis women

i was too fat to be emo in highschool. The Vietnamese guy asked if i was a witch

This is literally 100% exactly me to a T, down to "the emo boy romance I never had in high school". Any poly boysbians here looking for a g(b)f? >u<

yes. that's why you see threads literally everyday about them complaining how trannies shouldn't have standards as high as cis women's, and how trannies should just fuck their ugly manlet asses already, and how trannies are not "gf material" and only serve as a second-rate replacement for the real thing, and how trannies are training wheels, yadda yadda yadda, and then they wonder why they carry the stigma of being despisable

at some point the whole gender thing loses its novelty and you legitimately do start healing from the years of weird social trauma and this stuff starts happening. you start having these hippy thoughts like "love is what matters i dont care how" and shit like that. but everyone is different. i think this is why a lot of transes end up landing on she/they pronouns though.

Interesting. I think that makes a lot of sense. I'm rly tired of always trying to conform so much, always trying to catch up to an impossible standard. I also *can't* and, the more time passes, *don't* wanna erase my past growing up as a boy and how that person is still me in many regards. Labels suck, they just can't never do justice. I still wanna look as fem as possible bc of dysphoria and everything, but I think sublimating my irrevocable maleness with these sorts of gayboy fantasy frameworks is really cathartic and liberating... Makes it fine to be trans, fine to be male in a sense. Not sure if I'm making a lot of sense, but yeah, I'm just freestyling and trying to figure it out as I go :v

complaining how trannies shouldn't have standards as high as cis women's

they shouldn't though
you're lower value than a real woman

yeah i feel you. like the reasons dont go away but you just get so tired of the stupid social game. as the trauma heals you come to terms with your whole identity. it is what it is. anyway thank you for this thread anon, it warms my heart to see someone else with similar vibes. maybe we can be fruity emo boys and kiss each other someday.

People can have any standards they want, it's not up to you to decide
Staying alone is better than settling for someone you can't love
The prettiest and most gigapassoids of us also have higher value than most cis women, yet here you are pretending they don't bc you're a dishonest, bitter subhuman

yeah, i think this makes sense. p much describes my thoughts on the matter as well, thanks for sharing anon