Stop spending time on this forum.
Your life won't get any better as long as you spend time on here.
Seek out a therapist and make friends in online/irl circles.
It does get better
Stop using Anon Babble
i am here because my isn't and will not get any better
Only because you are telling yourself that.
Your friends, family &future therapist disagrees with you.
i’m only here to find an opportunity to post a nude so i can get a modicum of dopamine to carry me through my shitty workday
You can do that on literally any other site that doesn't have such mentally unwell users tho?
got no family except my mom and the rest are a shitshow .friends got one that and we are starting to hate each other . therapist ? got no money energy or will for that
make friends in online/irl circles
i'm scared of people
bunny!!!
also this place holds my honfidence back when i look at prettier transgirls and see i dont pass so i shouldnt girlmode
"This place holds my confidence back"
So you agree its bad for you?
Make the changes you want to see, today.
So is everyone else. Start with online spaces where there's little risk.
my honfidence
i dont pass i dont want to go out looking like a hon
How many ugly ass men do you see walking around with 200x the confidence? Its about mentality. Nobody cares.
stop telling people to go therapy. Even if you mean well it's just bad advice. There are many people here who have been to therapists. Most of them saw no benefit, some got worse, others are delusional about therapy and continue to act like it helped them despite not showing improvement (you are here)
i just prefer to do it on an anonymous site. i don’t like having my pics attached to an account and on places like twitter/reddit there a lot of hot, of trannys that post high quality pics, here the bar of competition is much lower
i'm just here to peoplewatch others ruin their lives due to brainworms
"Dont speak to an expert of mental health, about mental health". Btfo lmao. Its always going to be better than posting ur issues on here.
make friends in online/irl circles.
I already have online friends but I've been trying to make them irl too. Its really hard. Also I'm unfortunately addicted to reading this board
I'm not trying to btfo you. Just sharing a perspective on reality from a position of experience instead of blind faith in expertise
Yeah psychology literally isn’t a science
sometimes this is the only place I can talk about my feelings
"psychology literally isn’t a science"
apa.org
lancashire.ac.uk
bolton.ac.uk
simplypsychology.org
No more advice from you anon
And how do you know my position isn't one of experience?
I was deeply mentally unwell and thinking similar things to what I see on here, several years ago.
I went to therapy, and talked about my insecurities and feelings. It wasn't immediate or overnight, but long-term hard work DID fix that part of me.
I know dozens of people irl that have told me the same.
Just because it didnt work for you, doesn't mean you should stop telling people to seek therapy.
it isn't anonymous if you spend enough time here because people will start to recognise how you write and you will share little details about yourself that will accumulate even if you don't join other social groups related to this board or start tripfagging or start posting face, and you will probably do all those things because you are human and social. it is also more full of mentally ill people so after enough time the stakes are a lot higher. this is why Anon Babble drama is a special breed of retarded and fucked up
I've been using Anon Babble for around a decade now (eternal electionfag) and it's never impeded my self-improvement which, while not exactly stunning, has been consistent. I go to a therapist (moreso for support rather than out of a need to get fixed up), I have a good few friends and am generally speaking a pretty happy and content man.
I enjoy Anon Babble for the sort of people who show up here, it's been infested by a lot of normies but there's still a lot of really genuine outcasts living on the fringes here and I'll always associate with them more than others. I've come across plenty of other chans while web surfing but Anon Babble is obviously the fastest with the most dumb shit to read on the daily so I spend the most time here.
Therapists are just retarded drug addicts who scam all day don't fucking get a therapist
Says the mentally ill Anon Babble user.
What's your degree in anon?
Types of people that recommend therapy:
Happy, well adjusted normies, attractive young women on tiktok, people with social lives
Types of people that don't recommend therapy:
Asocial retards on seedy internet forums
I know who I'm trusting if I want to be normal
let's see that ass
I just hope you remember who gave you the unpopular but correct advice when therapy fails
WANTING to be a normalfag
What are you doing here?
i cant talk to people irl
Just proving OP's point
As a normie, can confirm
If OP is saying that wannabe normies should get off the boards then I'm all in agreement.
I come for the normies
t. hikki neet otaku
Therapy only fails when you don't want it to work. It isn't a magic silver bullet, you have to put in work as well. If you're expecting it to just "work," you're going about it the wrong way. All a therapist is is a sounding board for your own thoughts who is trained in interpreting them, it's a two-way street
"Normie" is a tribalist term to keep people inside this hellhole of a website.
There is no such thing as a "normie", just people who dont want to ruin their lives and people who do
be me
schizophrenic
alcoholic
last friend I made gave up on me
psychologist gave up on me because I was “low risk”
have been constantly in and out of psych wards for an embarrassingly long time
failed transition
the only people who keep me around keep me around out of pity
Yeah but sure, it gets better. Fuck you. My life being miserable is what dragged me to this fucking site to begin with. If I quit all I do is cut myself to one less coping mechanism.
Everyone should want to be normal lol
the only people who keep me around keep me around out of pity
You dont get to decide that for them. Only they do. and until they say so, you cant assume thats their reasoning.
No you fucks don’t replicate experiments and use sample sizes below middle school bio demo experiments. You’re a group of pseudoscientists with a several hundred year history of horrific abuse against prisoners you gather. Psychologists are bad people and not scientists. Shrimple as
It kinda does tho
No point it's like arguing with a chiropractor
Your retarded fascist ideology relies on that catch 22 a lot doesn’t it
I think you are posting links which you know are not credible here and basically you are exhibiting symptoms of an unwell mind, telling people to stop using Anon Babble on Anon Babble. That's why I said you are delusional about therapy helping you. There are some other namefags here who also claim therapy helps them but they are still here putting their mental illness on display so it's all very ironic ifykyk
Jesus works you just gotta believe real hard in Jesus
While many will point to the most surface level aesthetic of normalfaggotry in the form of mainstream opinions or beliefs, normies are people who adhere to strict normative frameworks and who think that the optimal position is to be within the socially accepted template of "normal" rather than each person accepting themselves for all their faults and idiosyncrasies.
I can clearly delineate myself from normalfags and I'm not someone who wants to ruin my life, I've got it together better than plenty of normies specifically because I don't try to hold myself up to an arbitrary standard of normality.
That would probably be better than spending time on Anon Babble
No conformists are a thing as are asshole therapy zombies
You're a fascist if you don't take an uneducated crank's opinions seriously
i cant make friends that why im here anon
this
this place is full of polchuds, terfs and transphobes. this is a shithole that only serves to make u feel bad and helps u with nothing.
even worse than that
it's full of trannies
"Opening up and talking about your feelings is evil and abusive"
Bro kys
Your ideology is made of retarded cranks. Enough people have been hurt by you that everyone knows it.
Actually you just made one. Keep it up anon
This is like saying "the world is flat because I hate all globehead scientists".
Get a job u schizo
No all the electroshock, lobotomies and institutional abuse are. A several hundred year history of brutalizing helpless people. Your unfalsifiable ideology permits any abuse without punishment because it has no measurable effect and therefore no standard for malpractice.
Tldr for the social scientists: y’all are bastards
No one trusts psych scum the rapistanon
Electroshock, lobotomies, etc
Those are both illegal now. Do you live under a rock?
The 21st century model for psychology and helping patients is literally about unpacking trauma and talking about feelings lmfao.
Read a book schizo
Electroshock is still legal and many people are still alive from the last round of lobotomies. No one was ever punished for that because psychologists have no standards whatsoever.
And why does any of this mean that modern day psychology should be stopped? You're advocating for no more electroshock or lobotomies, and i agree lmao.
That is not what counselling or therapy is about.
Changing the subject u fucking coward
ok gross ogrehon...
You were calling me schizo for saying electro shock was still happening, are you now schizo because you were completely fucking wrong?
"Go to therapy"
"Electroshock and lobotomization are bad and should be stopped"
"I agree. Counselling and therapy don't do either of those things though".
"Stop changing the subject you coward".
you cant make this shit up
One leads to the other schizoanon. They can ruin your life with the information they tell you to be unguarded about. You’re probably affiliated with psych somehow (probably in a trainee or secondary role) or literally just such a conformist that this ideas doesn’t dawn to you. Either way a threat to thinking humans.
Therapists can just abuse you and there is fuck all you can do about it. Therapy is especially dangerous for trans people especially since any respectable cis therapist can sit there and gaslight you about your own experiences all day while you pay him or her for the privilege. People who get the halo effect from happy normies are just too dumb to consider things like that.
Also yknow, to underline the point, you’re going to the same organization that does electroshock and chemical lobotomies to talk about your feelings. Doesn’t it seem like almost anywhere else would be better?
Im neither of those things, just someone who has positively benefited from counselling & therapy.
The scientific community uses evidence-based practises to determine if something is worth doing, and in this case, it is:
psychiatryonline.org
"Out of all treated cases with outcome data 4 (0.25%) were Much Worse, 11 (0.69%) were Worse, 497 (31.08%) showed No Change from intake, 546 (34.15%) were Improved, and 541 (33.83%) were Much Improved, for an overall improvement rate of about 68%."
Unless you are gonna start schizoposting about how "they lied and made up these stats bcos jews" or something retarded, you cant deny the evidence
I know you’re trolling but yes unironically. Most therapists are trained in one “disease” and try to fit people into that. All the mental illnesses have essentially the same symptoms so they just write down whatever and that’s the subhuman thing you are from now on. Usually disagreeing is also sign of the illness so make sure you agree that you have that illness if you ever want to not be labeled with it.
TLDR for the social scientists: y’all are bastards
yes we’re scientists check out this massaged opinion survey
Just pathetic
What evidence do you have that shows the opposite? Crying and whining about made up shit on the internet isnt much in the way of evidence anon
Look up moncrief et al. That one metastatic that showed psychs systematically manipulated data on ssris and that their only measurable effect in sufficient sample sizes(I know the idea of sufficient sample sizes terrifies you) was that they castrate people and make them kill themselves.
Just to stop one example of how your entire system is based on lying to and hurting the most vulnerable by abusing false authority
*metastudy
We arent talking about ssri's holy shittttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt.
Counselling. Therapy. Explain The Negatives Or Fuck Off
Remember your exercises
It’s essentially just a friend whore who’s down to report you to the government and profits off the worse abuse in history. The solutions they have to problems aren’t based on anything and are at best delusional. If you get hurt by them no one will care.
stop using Anon Babble
t. namefag using Anon Babble
Says you lol. Again, show me a study or btfo
If someone feels the need to report you to the government you probably should be
I think the current way suicidality is handled is incredibly bad
My study is a basic understanding of sample sizes you pseudoscientific retard
I think if someone is truly suicidal however you treat them doesn't matter, that's a choice an individual makes. That's what this all comes down to you're an adult you either get the help you need and make the effort to get better or you rot on Anon Babble and scream about how the available options will literally castrate and drive you to suicide, even though you are voluntarily pursuing the former and unwittingly pursuing the latter because of the shit you read on here
There isn't going to be a study for everything you deal with in life. It's not btfo to be adapted to this reality and think for yourself.
That's fine if you feel that you're doing well in life, but there's nothing wrong with seeking help from a professional if you've thought for yourself into a bad place
Exactly. schizo boy over here just hates authority and likely wants to keep people trapped here
friends in online/irl circles.
how i try ;_;
Exactly so treating it essentially as thought crime is idiotic
Sounds pretty paranoid to me. Maybe people just hate you and your abusive ideology.
I'm sorry you have a poor relationship with your father
"People" being you, a guy who decries an entire industry of millions because of a few bad apples.
lol u got rekked
A few bad apples ruin the bunch faggot