Obsessing over trans women has completely consumed my life...

Obsessing over trans women has completely consumed my life. I don’t know whether It’s because I’m lonely or something else but I been thinking on talking to a therapist about this. I don’t know if it’s a good idea or not.

keep at it anon you'll find your dream tranner gf eventually. we're really not hard to please

Yeah but it’s not fucking healthy
It’s not healthy to be obsessed on a fringe internet minority 24/7 and being on their spaces for some god forsaken reason

maybe but it makes me happier to have one more desperate chaser in the world because i can feel like someone out there might actually tolerate me

Not op but Several years at this point every attempt has either gotten me ghosted or only attracts people i can barely get to know or people who arent able to hold conversation/just wanna fuck many of them not even hot

Well at least I’m making you happy
And I don’t really like calling myself a chaser.
Beggars can’t be choosers

Beggars can’t be choosers

Yeah but fuck man i gotta be choosey if i wanna be able to be in a relationship with a tra s girl maybe even marry her i gotta like her i gotta be attracted to them and be able to be myself around them

just obsess over me
then it's not an entire community
problem solved

I'm gonna start therapy soon and plan on being completely open which means telling them that I as a cis man have found a deep sense of camaraderie in an anonymous transgender woman online imageboard
Will be interesting to see how that goes

talking to a therapist is obviously a good fucking idead bitch! dont be afraid to try a different therapist if one doesnt work out.

Hey Anon Babble

They are all nice
The young ones mostly just stick to young trans women on there 20s

you aren’t like my girlfriend

Same as me
Good luck
Yeah but I don’t know if it will fix me
I don’t know what will fix me

Anon Babble chud x Anon Babble mtf

i could be

But you probably aren’t going to be. Are you in Florida?

The ones i have seen on dating apps here in my state are not nice lol and id rather someone on the younger end cus i am rather than the 30-40 years who hit on me and make me uncomfortable

Match made in heaven. I literally told my gf "Stoic trad men like me were BVILT to take care of delicate flowers like you." It's true, overemotional guys get caught up in their spirals and make them worse. I'd rather be an ignorant bastard she can cling to like driftwood in a raging sea and fuck the dysphoria away.

based and kino and true

OP you're a tranny. take your pill alice.
also you have a therapist. talk to him for fucks sake you sperg.

I’m not a fucking tranny and i don’t have a therapist what the fuck are you saying

Good luck then idk how to help you anymore

Fuck you why do you fuckers always assume I’m a tranny or a repper

because what you experience broadly speaking some repressor went through that road. not saying youre trans though dont be triggered like I give a shit if youre trans or not

I’m not trans I have no gd or I’m not some agp freak. I’m just weird

dude just talk to your therapist. like why do you think about us so much. why do you get so defensive you (You)'d me twice to prove you're "not a fucking tranny" and then use Chiyo Mihama as OP picrel.

I'm just saying you should introspect a bit more.

because it gets tiring when you are constantly called that. Also using anime as an OP picture means nothing at all this is like the same logic a Anon Babble transphobe will use. Im just fucking autistic and lonely that is all

Im not rejecting your help just saying that the dating apps in my area arent great

I know this is gonna trigger you but fuck it

you are obsessed because you are a repper. This is not an idea you can consciously entertain without distress, so you repress it, but it continues to have an unconscious effect on your thoughts. If you admit it you can at least take control of your behavior and learn to cope better

You don't make a good case. I'll be nice and I won't call you a tranny, if you could elaborate on what you meant by "obsessing over trans women".
Like is it lust? Envy? Hatred? Jealousy? Curiosity? I'd be willing to talk through. Maybe as a testrun for therapy?

then why don't i feel dread over my male body.
Im a very hairy guy and i dont give a fuck it doesnt make me want to rip my skin off. The only thing that makes me want to rip my skin off is like being alone

it all started when i was like 15 i use to browse Anon Babble and i was very edgy and transphobic, but then like some german tranny made a thread and she was like nice to me and since i never had much female contact with any form of women irl and online I became like obsessed with attention from trans women. Now they are the only group of people that make me feel not lonely

I see. So it's not really a obession, rather it's you find community with them? Your "obsession" comes from a place where they feel like secure people to be around, yes?

kind of but it also has a lust aspect since i get like very like fluttery feeling talking to trans women sometimes

You sure it's not just a feeling for women who treat you kindly in general? To me and the limited interactions I've had with you, and what you've said about yourself; It seems like you're a bit of a loner. And that eats away at you. You seem also a bit autistic, which may make it hard for you to socialize. Lots of trans women are also autistic, so you feel like you can relate more to the ones, especially the ones you meet online. I don't think your lust, is lust, but more so a feeling of comfort and tenderness. You like trans women not because you're a chaser, but because they make you feel good. Yes?

yeah i do feel good and it never is in a sexual way i just like trans women. i don't know if that is a good thing or not

I think you're just autistic and struggle knowing what your emotions are. What you're feeling is friendship and comradery. Even if there's some boy and girl tension in there. I think though you should try to meet more people IRL. It seriously does you wonders to have friends you can see.

you need to stop being coped up at home on the internet all the time, you need to go outside and meet real people in real life.
join a theater course or something

It's typical chaser psychology. A man adapts and learns to accept/reject what he must. In doing so he forms an unconscious identification with the external image of his other, like trannies, that gets expressed as either love or hate. Both passions are on the axis of imaginary relations to other people. It's why reppers go through this dating trannies stage and why transphobic hate is necessary to secure a more stable cis identity. If you picture a black hole of repressed desire around which the repressor circulates in an unstable orbit, association with trannies is a partial and temporary way of indulging that desire, while hate is the course-corrective repellant that prevents collapse. I don't think its just autism or being overly online because why would you get fixated on trannies specifically instead of trains like a normal autist, faggot?