Now what

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Now what

im a sad lonely tranny, passing doesn't matter because the problem is inside.

tried literally every possible way to make friends and still failed

tried reddit, no one want to make friends and if even if i comment on something i cant really express my real feelings because they are actually crazy.

tried discord but everyone is happy and chat 9h a day with their already discords friends in their private servers. i have talked to some but they just dont give a fuck about me.

i have lurked on Anon Babble for a year and only now im participating and i like the sort of freedom but still feels isolated

irl is the worst because they are annoying and boring, even if i force myself to be with them they still ghost me and ignore me.

wtf do i do

Get comfortable with being lonely anon. When you put pressure on yourself to make friends, it just makes it an obligation, which makes it suck.

I'm willing to talk to you here though. What are your hobbies and interests?

Get comfortable with being lonely anon.

if you aren't also friendless please shut the fuck up with that

go to a psychologist and fix your shit, you seem to have deep problems with ur social skills
try to find groups of people like you or at least that share some of your interests and start there

nta, what if I can't do that. I am superior in all ways to the vast majority of the human population. Forcing myself to be friends with people like that sounds like torture beyond superficial relationships

That's how i recovered from being friendless. I was desperate when I was obsessed with not being alone, and desperation isn't a very attractive trait and actively makes people not want to be around you.

When I realized "fuck this gay earth its fine if i'm by myself" and realized friends were optional and i didn't need them, it became a lot easier to interact with people. This person I like doesn't like me? Cool, don't need them.
Still working on that, but hey, you know

friends aren't optional though. The human brain requires a certain level of social interaction to not start deteriorating. There's a difference between being an obsessive person, and being a lonely person, without the need for accepting that being lonely is ok, because it isn't

science and internet hobbies like cinema, anime and videogames. im just the nerd girl stereotype

What kind of anime and vidya? I'm personally always looking for more people with similar interests like that to yap at/with.

im trying but i starting to spiraling and losing will to eat and living, maybe i take everything too seriously

I'm lonely too. where are you from?

unless you're literally a complete shutin or hermit you don't need friends specifically to interact with
there's almost always family, strangers, and coworkers

the anime that i like are the ones thar try to tell new stories and explore interesting themes, the more Bizzare the more i like it. and also with the games, and i guess the games do it better. if you wanted some names, heres are some of my favorite games:

Little Nightmares

Mouthwashing

metro

Mirrors Edge

and here some anime i like:

Haibane Renmei

dr stone

carol and Thursday

evangelion

monster

I am superior in all ways to the vast majority of the human population.

yet you're friendless I imagine, delusional

you don't have to be "friends" with anyone to have decent social relationships
and if you're so far above everyone else it shouldn't be hard to at least find people slightly interesting that aren't Omega normies
just know your shit

family

don't live with family

strangers

Not going to try to talk to random people on the street going about their business

coworkers

Jobless

then just find like-minded people
if you're such a genius you can figure how to find them

a semi shit hole in the middle of europe, sorry if i dont tell you im scared. but its bad because of the good ones mine is the worst second only to spain

okay, so where are you?

Never said I was a genius, but presumably those like me are also having the same problem.

Its not delusion its the truth. You cannot have a social relationship and not be their friend. Unless your definition of meaningful social relationships is the cashier at target

If you've tried hobby discords, people ignore you because they don't know you. You have to become a regular to make friends via hobby discords.

I am superior in all ways to the vast majority of the human population.

This type of mindset doesn't help either lol

College

If you meant that to OP, that was me, not OP

im not that anon but, im also smart and cant find people like me because its either science smart or nerdy and im both so i feel alone in both communities

oh, I'm in the states. sounds like you live far away. had to try!

Let's be friends, what's ur discord ill add u

Not going to try to talk to random people on the street going about their business

there's fucking social locations and activities, go to them.
if you don't want to then get over it

Jobless

get a job

this sounds like a (You) problem

It sounds like we have some pretty good overlap with our favs and some interests. Do you want to talk on discord? I'm also a big fan of some out there stuff, and for what I don't know i'm always willing to listen.
Its cool if you don't though, I know some people use these threads just to vent.

there's fucking social locations and activities, go to them.

Its 2025, nobody goes to that shit alone. They will be with their friends, not wanting to talk to a random social retard.

get a job

even if I did, a coworker is not a friend

will i get groomed killed and doxed? i know for a fact that this can happens, the second you act funny im done. there are dm in this place?

ok we can do that

even if I did, a coworker is not a friend

sounds like a skill issue I go apple picking and do paintball with my coworkers

im op, heres my dis mary_04561_04479. dont make me regret it

You cannot have a social relationship and not be their friend.

this is just false, acquaintances exist
I have plenty of them and I'm hardly a social butterfly
I just go outside.

You literally sound like you live in a sitcom whatever experience you have is not applicable to broader society

Acquaintances are essentially friends, the only people who think otherwise are social butterflies. Only difference is an acquaintance is circumstantial and you don't go out of your way to hang out with them

its not the same, im a different anon but you talking with people you know is not friendship. its strangers with extra steps. i want connections

idk i just have friends who think im cool enough that they will spam me all day. Its kinda cool
how do you find those people? idk, i found them all on this board

mood

how that logistics happened i need a step to step, did add each other on dis?

added them on discord

met up since they live kinda close (1-2h from me)

hang out once or twice a month

had sex/was intimate at some point

now they seem to like me enough to talk to me once a day

friends usually start out as acquaintances
if you want deeper connections straight away that's basically just wishful thinking
after all how will you even know much about them?

enough about you tell me about your pets nigga

thats not true. Friends start as acquaintances only when you already have friends, because you have the luxury of being half in half out. A friendless person doesn't have that luxury. I've had better experiences with autists because they either like you or they don't theres no retarded trial period shit

why wouldn i kill myself over this? this is what i ever wanted. the chances of being this geographically close are less than 5$ and not caring much about sex but its a good optional thing.

there are many other ways to have acquaintances than just friends of friends
you're probably just stubborn and autistic youself

i have one female cat, i hate her because she is messy but if wasn't for her i think i would actually killed myself over loneliness.

idk look on tagmap.io
i am lucky because i live sorta close to a big city that is very lgbt friendly
if i didnt i would probably just move away from here to the next best lgbt friendly city

im moving to Germany in 5 years, i will be living in a real city for my second time i hope i can get the same things as you

which part of germany are you moving to

not what i said

Frankfurt

oof. the trannies there are not fun

its basically impossible as a tranny anyway, it wont get better

really? fml

i was in the same problem even when i was not a tranny, now its actually better because i look in the mirror and be sort of happy about this one thing. the rest as said in my op is shit. without being myself and my cat who distract me i will be not here today alive

move to the other side :3