It's NOT FAIR that i, a trans girl, can't cum from anal but random cishet men can...

it's NOT FAIR that i, a trans girl, can't cum from anal but random cishet men can. it should be me! genetics clearly have a sick sense of humor.

me too girl.

straight redditors goes out to buy a DRUMSTICK to fuck himself with

Sounds about right

You just need to be persistent and really hammer the thing.

i've been trying on and off for like 4 years and i still feel no pleasure no matter what i do even with expensive toys

maybe u just dont like dick anon

i'm a virgin

just fake it, men like that

What do you mean “no pleasure”? At all? I don’t get when people say this, do you know how many nerves are in your butt?

Not cumming is one thing, but I don’t get how that’s possible.

it's cuz ur prostate isn't enlarged as much hrt shrinks it

It's not that difficult...

rub your elbow for 30 seconds. what do you feel? you can FEEL it, obviously, because there are nerves, but it isn't sexually stimulating. that's what it feel like to have things up my butt, to me.

anal sex isnt about cumming, its basically just stimming until one of you gets bored and then you go back to making out

t. top who cant cum

You should add a meta-attraction component.
Imagine the partner of your dreams.
Think about them craving your ass. See your ass through their eyes. Think about how badly they want you, how much they want to fuck you, how you drive them wild.

The issue is it only works if you actrually think you're desirable like that. Part of the issue with dysphoria/ trans girls who think they're ugly can't get off on meta

then why do you even do it? wouldn't cuddling be better? why do you do something so performative if it doesn't feel good?

i'm not agp so this doesn't work. an anyway, how would that help? being turned on doesn't magically change your erogenous zones. stroking your elbow won't make you cum no matter how turned on you are.

That sucks I’m sorry

it does feel good
for me sex is more about being close and intimate with each other and about exploring each others bodies
also im still getting stimulated, it's just really hard for me to actually orgasm and usually sex is less fun when i try to cum

genetics

I mean, isn't one of the intended functions of hrt to atrophy your male organs? Your prostate is a male organ

homosexuals are so strange

Sex and arousal is like 50% mental

but if it doesn't feel good physically it won't work, period. could you stay turned on during 30 minutes of a guy rubbing his dick on your elbow?

getting a raging hardon during a medical exam and the doctor laughs at you out loud

i would kill myself if this happened to me

im the same... i feel so inadequate i wish my body wasn't broken, i feel like a guy could never like me

at least you have a prostate :(

I don’t believe the story is real because who tf gets a prostate exam at 20

what? if you don't have a prostate then just use your vagina? or do you mean you are amab and got it removed or something?

i'm not agp so this doesn't work. an anyway, how would that help? being turned on doesn't magically change your erogenous zones. stroking your elbow won't make you cum no matter how turned on you are.

being turned on doesn't magically change your erogenous zones.

It does if you have a female sexuality.
Women get wet, pussies dilate. Assholes dilate as well. If you try to fuck a chick dry it's just painful.
You'll feel it through your whole body if done right.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flushing_(physiology)

Commonly referred to as the sex flush, vasocongestion (increased blood flow) of the skin can occur during all four phases of the human sexual response cycle. Studies show that the sex flush occurs in approximately 50–75% of females and 25% of males, yet not consistently

During the female sex flush, pinkish spots develop under the breasts, then spread to the breasts, torso, face, hands, soles of the feet, and possibly over the entire body. Vasocongestion is also responsible for the darkening of the clitoris and the walls of the vagina during sexual arousal

Gets into hysteria stuff too.
Anyways, while you might not agree with me that the asshole will dilate in this way, can you at least agree that women seem to have some sort of physiological triggers, maybe similar to getting hard for a guy, that impact whether they will enjoy sex or not?
I.e. if you try to fuck them when they're not wet/dilated it will hurt and that certain mental triggers cause them to become wet/dilated?

if you don't have a prostate then just use your vagina?

i can't cum from there either so i guess we have a similar problem
still picrel makes me want to throw my body into a shredder

How do I get my boyfriend to adopt this mindset PLEASE...

t. bottom who cant cum

wanting to have a prostate as a cis woman is pretty unusual, have you considered that you might have gender dysphoria? especially to want to "throw your body in a shredder" over not having one. and bear in mind that only about 10% of amabs feel pleasure and orgasm from prostate stimulation, most (like me, the op) don't feel anything.

i can't cum from there either

just rub your clit like 99% of women do? if you don't have gender dysphoria i can't imagine why you wouldn't just do that.

sorry i don't mean to be like mean i just really don't get it

i don't know what you're talking about. butt stuff doesn't feel any different for me if i'm horny or not, it always feels like nothing.

i'm literally that type of straight man. that's why i'm here.

you considered that you might have gender dysphoria?

i'm ftm and i've been medically transitioning for almost a decade actually haha...

bear in mind that only about 10% of amabs feel pleasure and orgasm from prostate stimulation, most (like me, the op) don't feel anything.

i don't know why but that makes me feel a bit better. I imagined it's more sensitive and enjoyable than our equivalent. the way cis guys write about discovering they have a prostate makes it sound like a godlike experience.

just rub your clit like 99% of women do? if you don't have gender dysphoria i can't imagine why you wouldn't just do that.

i have bottom dysphoria but it's more about feeling bad about what i lack (though i don't particularly like what i have). I don't mind touching it but it's really embarrassing and inconvenient to do during sex.
i've orgasmed on my own maybe 3 times internally and it's a different sensation from an external orgasm. though it's also hard for me to orgasm externally. I wish I could just cum from any type of receiving sex but I guess it's not as common as people make it seem.

i don't know what you're talking about. butt stuff doesn't feel any different for me if i'm horny or not, it always feels like nothing.

You have to be horny in the right way or it doesn't work.
Hard vs. wet horniness
Fembrained vs. malebrained attraction.
Meta is how trannies usually describe the type that will work for this

i think you're a schizo.

genetics can make it easier, but everyone with a prostate has the potential to cum from anal. the limiting factors tends to be how dedicated you are to practicing and trying out different stuff to figure out what works. it took me months of trying every single day to learn it, but now i haven't needed to touch my dick in years

oh that makes a lot more sense. sorry about that anon, maybe consider srs?

cumming JUST from being penetrated is rare in both sexes. as i said most amabs can't, i mean if you watch gay porn the bottom is usually jerking it also. and there was some study that said that 90% of cis women can't cum without touching their clit or something. but still i'm sorry, i mean, wishing you luck, i think i can kind of relate.

Aww well you have to experience it for yourself. I can tell you how to do it (already, meta, imagine a guy staring at your ass and like get in his head like "oh wow I can feel that that guy is looking at me and wanting to fuck me") but ultimately you need to try it for yourself.
If you want one other example I might be on to something, many pooners have dry vag and they often feel "hard" or enjoy clitoral stimulation rather than being penetrated in their non dilated vag.
I.e. in my framework they are afabs experiencing malebrained attraction and being aroused but being dry.

everyone with a prostate has the potential to cum from anal

completely untrue.

completely untrue.

how is that untrue? just because you don't know how doesn't mean that your body is incapable of it

it is. if it could, it would have happened by now. that's like saying "everyone is capable of beating usain bolt's speed records", it's probably theoretically true, but not really.

if it could, it would have happened by now.

this is a fallacy. i thought i couldn't do it because i didn't have luck when i first tried years before. i read up on it and you have to go into it with a completely different mindset and really rework your entire thinking about arousal and orgasm. it's like learning to speak another language. you can hear it be spoken and not understand it, and if you never learn it, you'll never be able to speak it. but if you put in the effort and practice and really learn, you can do it, but most people won't put in the work it requires.

give me one hour and i can fix that

find a new one that wants a romance-only relationship with a tranny

it's not a fallacy, not everyone can. bear in mind, i'm not just not a cis man, but since i transitioned before puberty, my prostate never even reached the full size, on top of the shrinking from estrogen. just because it worked for you doesn't mean it will for everyone.

find a gf who is a top

it doesn't matter if it reaches full size. it could potentially be a bit harder for you, but it's not impossible. it's analogous tissue to the female g spot, and most women don't know how to orgasm from it despite it being possible for them. everyone who complains this much about it has a defeatist mindset that will hold them back from ever having success with a prostate orgasm

transitioned before puberty

Tell us more. How young? And did you do blockers or E that young?

blockers at 13 estrogen at 14
but i had 0 puberty. i was a late bloomer.