Are my standards too high? Why are good men so rare

I am autistically picky. I have a lot of criteria, many potentially overly strict. Too many to list

do list

good luck with that girl lmfao

prehrt crossie talking about how she's going to pussy stunt her way into marriage sksjfjskdf

No melanated spots on body. (aka moles)

Preferablely White or Western influenced east asia (Korea and Japan)

Circumsized

Shaved everywhere. At most some hair on arms and legs, nothing anywhere else.

Little to no facial hair.

Short hair, not buzz but no longer than shoulder length.

Lean but not skinny, not bulky or overly muscled.

Johnson of 4-6 inches

Does not speak spanish, at least not around me

No musty smell

A few criteria off the top of my head. Anything else is not only a turn off but disgust, with the exception of the race thing

sksjfjskdf

hsts or lesbian. Not a crossie if I pass in public akhi

yes a crossie if u never touched a mone sis

I was on hrt for a while but developed a phobia of needles so I had to stop. I'm too embarrassed to ask PP to switch me to pills so I'm just waiting to get estrogen implants

pre/early hrt troons are all delulu about how they look anyway so i'm not taking u at ur word on passing either

Nice bait to have me post pic, you can just ask next time

Recalculation for Males:
Now, we multiply the probabilities together for males:

Liberal: 0.30 (30%)

Over 5'9": 0.50 (50%)

Over 130 IQ: 0.025 (2.5%)

Hot: 0.15 (15%)

Cisgendered: 0.99 (99%)

Heterosexual: 0.95 (95%)

So the odds would be:

0.30 times 0.50 times 0.025 times 0.15 times 0.99 times 0.95 approx 0.000212 text{ or about 0.0212%}
This suggests that the odds of meeting a male who fits all of these traits would be around 0.0212%, or roughly 1 in 4,720 men.

doesn't sound too bad

post voice
ur givin me jungle fever

ok but i'm sure u understand why i'm skeptical when someone says they're prehrt but defo pass
anyway wtf are u doing sis get back on mones asap!!!

I had to get a job first ;-;. Ideally I'll book a consult for E implants by the end of this month

voca.ro/19LmmwZfUyLR
Never use "X fever" it makes you look like a simpleton. and stop asking for more stuff

godspeed

Realistically I pissed away my potential luckshittery by not being consistent for the past 2 years, but Hopefully I can still be a mid passoid

IQ was a liberal development. Omyfucking Overton window

high iq

liberal

combination for the most insufferable man ever, he needs to be a kind leftist plsss not a liberal ><"

kind leftist

oxymoron, all leftists are heartless monsters

So is the voice good enough or what

yeah but im not sure if i want to break that buck?
are you trying to get broken, dear?

jungle fever

Buck breaking

I'm good thanks

very good
ripe for a buck breaking

this doesn't even make sense, would I not be the proverbial doe

niggas can't even have moles now.

Goddamnit.
I'm brown by femcel standards.
I don't even want to talk about the hair or musty smell, she's just a low T sissy even by woman standards for those.

liberal

hot

this is a contradiction. if u want a liberal be ok with settling for a guy who drinks onions all day and has no muscle mass

130 IQ is 2 standard deviations above the men so that alone puts someone in the top 5%. Then everything else just cuts cuts out more and more. You tell me if your standards are too high or not.

men

Heh
Mean*

I would be a based chaddy liberal if I got fit. I wouldn't have to care so much about my country remaining a world superpower or all that other chuddy bullshit if I was strong enough to get my own even in a cringy socialist society.

pre-hrt

semipassoid

he’ll never know once I get everything

Wishful thinking , the only thing you can get is another faggot or a bi man. Start being realistic. Don’t get the chop because your dating pool will become smaller too.

>Circumsized

Ewwww

:( don't take it personal Everyone has their preferences

my own

socialist society

Loool

why does everyone hate liberals now :( Liberals are hot and cool

Why would top 0,01% man settle for a tranny?

uncut is personally gross to me

Never not getting the chop

they won't know if I pass well enough. Ideally they would be heterosexual and not care, if that is possible, which it may not be

almost a quad

We aren't so advanced that the computer would be handing out exact prison rations to everyone quite yet.
Gotta wait another 50-100 years minimum for that level of prison planet dystopia.

if i got fit

but ur not getting fit

cringy socialist society

my most socialist opinion is that healthcare should include subsidized gyms desu and i don’t get y libs and lefties don’t ever talk about this, instead they promote unhealthy lifestyles like obesity

flooding countries with immigrants

cutting on the healthcare budget all the time to the point waiting lists r extremely long and there’s a shortage of healthcare workers

supporting israel’s genocide in gaza

that’s not cool, and desu i was wrong cuz i described lefties. liberals (atleast in most euro countries) dress and act like they’re high class and better than everyone else while looking like ugly nerds

Heterosexual

why would a cis and truly heterosexual man want to date down and settle for a trans girl tho?

Neither of those first two have anything to do with liberalism and Israel is not conducting a genocide in gaza

Presupposition

liberals do the first 2 things lmao, u must be american. and denying a genocide rlly doesn’t make u look good

liberal

yeah

over 5'9

yeah (6'1)

over 130 iq

never had it tested but im npd and i think im the smartest person i know

hot

couldnt tell you but im at least above average i think

cis

yeah

heterosexual

i had a boyfriend in high school but he was exclusively a bottom and like a foot shorter than me, still think this one cuts me out of the running tho

Yes I am american, the truest liberals will oft be american as it is a uniquely liberal state.. Denying a genocide doesn't make me look bad either. Watch. There's no genocide of white people in America..... oh no I just denied a genocide

never had it tested but im npd and i think im the smartest person i know

Literally me wtf where are these guys irl

no ur not denying a genocide by doing that, but ur denying a genocide by claiming that israel killing every person in gaza and replacing every person in the west bank by kicking them out of their home isn’t a genocide

location issue, cali is mid

wasn't aware Israel killed every person in gaza I must be behind on the news

probs, everyone here is either a leftard or a trumptard or a cultural zeitgeistard who just follows whatever they think will get them brownie points

i doubt it's everyone but if you're not involved with the actual party, the only vocal people you'll run into are maga death cultists and commies
i'd suggest getting involved in local politics if it matters that much to you, but everyone in it is probably an old fuck

u wouldn’t know if all u watch is mainstream news cuz they lie and claim israel is the good guys. but yes that’s what they do. they kill a lot of innocent civilians

Well first you said all of them now you said a lot, anyways I don't want my boyfriend yearning post to be a political discussion esp not israel palestine

go on dating apps if ur that desperate

tried, no luck, all cringe

maybe it’s u and not them

no it's them. You can't seriously think people one dating apps are worth their weight in paper?

depends on if they want a relationship or hookup. ofcourse there’s a problem but there’s also a problem with urself if no guy is ever good enough. like for a first, drop the iq standard it’s super weird

you are and always will be an imitation of a cis girl, as in not the real thing
if you think your mental illness, bitchy personality, and obsession with passing is going to somehow be endearing and attractive to a truly cis guy all i can say is "lmao"

I feel like that is one of if not the most important one though. I don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone I find insufferable because they are dumdum

I'm not bitchy. "obsession with passing" just means wanting to look good which applies to all women. You kinda just described a cis woman tbdesu

those are pretty high standards honestly
130 iq alone drops your dating pool to like 2% of men
i'm guessing maybe 70% of men with an iq like that are liberal, so now you're down to 1.4%
over 5'9 shouldn't be too much to ask i'm not looking it up but i'd assume like another 70% of men would make that cut so now you're at like 1% of men
hot? fuck, i dunno. very generously assuming a tenth of men are hot to you, you're at 0.1%. probably it's more like one in a hundred men, so 0.01%. say, 0.05% or so.

one in a thousand or one in ten thousand men, somewhere in that range, should meet your standards, if this is really all there is to it (it isn't and you fuckin know it)
but how many men like that are gonna make themselves available to you? are you hot? would they have any interest in you? are they gonna be okay with dating a trans person?
and what about other complicating factors? might nearly meet all your asks, except he's npd. do your standards account for that?

of u think ppl with less than 130 iq r dumb ur retarded lmao most ppl have around 100 and r not dumb at all, actual dumb ppl have an iq like 70 and its very noticeable without asking them

most ppl have around 100 and r not dumb at all

most people are fucking retarded what are you talking about. 70 is LITERAL mental handicap status not "dumb". I think ~120 is entering smart territory and 130+ is my preferences. Obv lines are blurry IQ isn't some super concrete thing but generally that's what I'd prefer

yeh ur retarded do u even try to like hang out with normal ppl? ppl u think r “dumb” constructed the home u live in and made ur food btw

Yes I know the chances are low but I think everyones are on paper low tbd, mine are just lower.
NPD is fine as long as it isn't an extreme presentation, but he's just in my computer he's not real :(. Also might be BI/Gay

No offense but why do you think you're smart enough to warrant a 130 IQ boyfriend? From your responses it doesn't seem like you're particularly smart either

ppl u think r “dumb” constructed the home u live in and made ur food btw

Yeah and dogs herd the sheep for farmers and beavers build natural dams, Doesn't make em any less stupid regardless if I appreciate their contribution (which isn't needed in a capitalist system as they are doing it for personal gain)

yeh ur retarded do u even try to like hang out with normal ppl

When I was a kid sometimes. People generally liked me but deep down the one friend I had I didn't much enjoy his company because he was about average or a bit above average intelligence and not very knowledgeable. I don't see how one can "try" to hang out with people, either you do or you don't

because I am. What response makes you think I'm dummy?

he's just in my computer he's not real

you are straight up fucked if you think you're gonna manage to find someone compatible with all of this without the help of the internet
are you gonna be approaching them? are you just gonna be a wallflower waiting for the perfect man to show up out of the blue and offer you a rose?

but i think everyones are on paper

i don't know about that
like one in fifty people are good enough for me to at least date them for a while

i dunno. to get a guy like you describe you're gonna need to cast a wide net and make yourself very obviously interested. you can't really afford to narrow things down much more than it already is if you ever mean to have a relationship.

ppl do jobs cuz they like doing them, and yes they need money to survive, is that a bad thing now? u actually sound very dumb

you are straight up fucked ... the help of the internet

I know :( But people online are always so weird

are you just gonna be a wallflower

That's the current plan ig

make yourself very obviously interested.

Maybe once I get srs I'll be more confident

What are you talking about? People do jobs because of money, not everyone who works a job likes it, in fact many times they fucking despise it. You have no knowledge of the mindset of the construction workers who built my apartment, so being personally grateful is unnecessary because their doing of it is all covered by the goal of wealth generation. You do not fit my criteria

i’m not saying everyone likes their job. and ofcourse they’re not gonna do it for free when they need to literally feed their family. how can u brag about being smart and then be this dumb and ignorant?

wealth generation

they likely don’t even earn enough to safe most of it retard

What the fuck are you talking about dumbass, you are arguing against a ghost. This is why my partner needs to be above the threshold.
I didn't say you implied they'd do it for free, I didn't say they generate stable income. Try reading instead of looking for things to get mad at cuck

has 0 reading comprehension

gets mad at others and tells them they’re not reading

lmfaoooooooo ur funny hon

kill yourself I hope 3 messages of low tier ragebaiting a socially inept tranny was fun for you

socially inept

i can tell, that’s y ur single
and srry i don’t feel like killing myself

i can tell, that’s y ur single

Wow sherlock use all your brain cells for that one?

jesus

Some requirements are kind of repulsive and everything put together is way too rare... I mean you do you, if they're requirements because you'd prefer to never be in a relationship otherwise that's fine. I got somewhat high requirements except I don't care to factor in looks and my requirements realistically preclude me from having a relationship which I'm totally fine with.

i used 1 braincell for that, the other 1 is for fashion, skincare, makeup and being pretty knowledge

which ones are repulsive?

based if true

i didn't even see this
more like one in a hundred thousand men at this point
yes, your standards are too high, unless you yourself are exceptionally attractive in every regard

To answer your actual question, this is insanely high standards for a troon, yes. A guy like that can get a top 5% cis girl without trying.

Also, het is absurd and cis is double standards, get some self awareness.

I think I'm alright, I fit into all my criteria except the race one (aside from the stuff pertaining only to men)

How is cis double standards, I'm fine if men don't want a troon. But I do want a cissoid. Het is just normal, I don't want a fag.

A guy like that can get a top 5% cis girl without trying.

I don't know if he'd want to though. Aside from just hookups.

It takes like 30 seconds of thinking to come to the conclusion that it's unrealistic, also the emphasis on IQ despite it being pretty universally agreed to be a bad indicator of intelligence

Unrealistic and too high are not the same. Obviously it is rare, but that doesn't mean I necessarily should compromise. Also IQ is not a bad indicator of intelligence? It has a pretty well established correlation. it is by no means perfect but the whole anti-IQ is just the average thing of tards not wanting to be tards so they make shit up to not be tards

How is cis double standards

You ARE a tranny, if you can't countenance dating one, why would a cis guy do it? Why should he?

The fact that even trans aren't open to dating trans tell you everything you need to know about how attractive a trait it is.

All too high standards are unrealistic, the only reason they aren't the same is you could in theory have unrealistically low standards like only dating an unemployed elephant man.

The correlation just doesn't make sense. My preference says nothing about the preference of a cis person. Also this hypothetical ideal person would probably prefer a tranny assuming the have a vagina, because they would not want someone too fembrained as that is extremely annoying and insufferable which a tranny due to male socialization to some extent would have less of.

Hooooooly shit okay you're completely delulu, never mind, I got rused into replying to a lunatic imbecile.

All too high standards are unrealistic, but not all unrealistic standards are too high. I know mine are somewhat unrealistic, but if the compromise doesn't make sense, then they are not too high

k, What I said was all true but wtvr ig

would probably prefer a tranny

i'm sorry to tell you this but you are coping. this is delusional.

It's just objectively true, if I was a cis male looking for a girlfriend, I'd prefer a tranny bc they are less likely to have the negative aspects of female socialization. The only difference would be ability to bear children.

and I'm essentially looking for the man version of me, so it's not delusional it's just a necessary thing that follows from the premise

objectively true

ah, jesus
and your strategy is to just sort of sit around and look pretty?
i don't know what to tell you, anon.

and your strategy is to just sort of sit around and look pretty?

Well it's not a strategy per se, I am just too socially inept to do much else. Nor do I think there is anything I can do besides random luck

that doesn't sound unrealistically high
i have tranner friends who have hot tall smart bfs
they're all passoids tho

i really don't know what to tell you. your standards are too high, your perspective is very narrow, and your ability to exert your will appears to be by your own admission very weak. i have no idea how you're ever going to manage it. yeah, dumb luck is about what it's going to take. do you at least, like
i don't know
exist in public spaces? where you might even be approached? cherry on top of all this would be if you're a neet shut-in

well do you think I have passoid potential

cherry on top of all this would be if you're a neet shut-in

(˶˃⤙˂˶)
I go to college sometimes

idk what u look like

deez

ITT: a perma-single tranny

if you are pre-hrt you have potential yea

i need a reaction image for this but i don't have any so just imagine

didn't see this you are actually pretty hot so at least there's that but like
shit, idk, anon. practice socializing. i'm not saying you necessarily need to compromise, but you do need to broaden your perspective and you definitely need at least some social skills

What is the vibe of the image intended to be

Do you fw hood niggas or do I gotta be rich

No i don't at all sorry :( less about money more about the culture

Aight baby girl you do you

Mostly related to looks, especially circumsized and no melanated spots. People will pretty much inevitably get them at some point and you don't really want to rush to remove to them since you may miss cancer during screening later. People also lose up to maybe 3 inches with age, full body shaving or similar feels too high maintenance for the rest of life and laser isn't as effective when you're not suppressing androgens. If you're using cisgendered as a proxy for amab nontransitioner that's fine, if you mean someone who feels some irrational attachment to their sex I think it's silly and doesn't really concern you. Also don't think their sexuality by itself should matter to you beyond if it enables them to be attracted to you. Also not really sure if you've taken a full IQ test irl, but over 130 IQ seems like a bit of a lazy proxy for what you'd want, there's higher variance in different categories of the test at higher IQs unless you're just capping out and to some extent results will vary depending on which test you want to go by.

u 2 big dawg

why are they repulsive though, maybe disagreeable but repulsive seems strong

You aren't ugly or anything, on the off chance this guy exists, and somehow would date a tranny, looks probably won't be a barrier

high iq

liberal

Sorry you're fucked. You'll have to settle for an illiterate midwit who compensates his ignorance with wikipedia "articles" and common sense tautologies.
Godspeed

You come off as the equivalent of an authoritarian state with no concern for the wellbeing of their citizens in the form of a prospective girlfriend and if someone merely happens to meet your standards it just seems like selfharm to date you longterm. I mean people are free to do 24/7 tpe if they want, but I don't really think it's good for you even if you're really into it and I'm certainly not.

Speak of the devil

over 5'9"

Ur just being mean to me for no apparent reason

I want at least a 6 inch difference so i can feel small :(