Are high dysphorics actually the lucky ones?

be early midshit tranner with late midshit gf

one day while i'm driving her to laser appt, she says how i'm lucky that i realised i had to troon before i grew body hair

I kinda snapped at her that i wasnt lucky, i just have such bad dysphoria that i didnt need to grow body hair to break down and shoot up bathtub E

talk about how i'm not lucky, i'm unlucky because i'm kinda cripplingly dysphoric, while her dysphoria is more manageable

she looks at me blankly and gets out the car

spend the next hour in the parking lot realizing what i said was really shitty

she comes out and i apologize, thankfully she didnt take it to much to heart and accepted

Idk /tttt/ are higher dysphorics more lucky because it results in an earlier trooning? what do you think?

early midshit

before i grew body hair

Ropefuel

No, they both have their own struggles. The lucky ones are the luckshits. The ones who can pass no matter when they transitioned. Like me.

my girlfriend made an innocent remark

I sperged out and told her her problems don't matter

summed up for anyone who doesn't want to read that wall of text

what does midshit mean to you?
my friend started hrt at 22 and she was no body hair

not OP but I trooned at 19 and never grew body hair or facial hair lole

As i said ropefuel
I started getting bodyhair at like 14 i think

19 is youngshit btw
me too ;~;

bro how? unless you mean just pubic hair that's like SUPER early I think. Are you mediterranean?

I feel like I pass better than people I know, but my dysphoria is way more crippling. So I relate to this question.

19 is after puberty is done. Id be delusional to call myself a youngshit

Im a east european ogre

literally still a teenager

tfw high dysphoria

came out as a child

got told to fuck off by parents

was able to grow a full beard by late middle school

over 6ft tall

No. Having high dysphoria does not help, it just makes life worse.

its all pointless

Im literally her

19 is not youngshit lmfaoo, I trooned at 18, before body hair and haven't mailfailed once after 2.5 years, it's all about B O N E S

it's all about B O N E S

that has nothing to do with the fact that getting to transition as a teenager makes you a youngshit. youngshit doesn't mean passoid. it means you get to live more of your life authentically and as a result should be less fucked in the head than actual mid and lateshits

If wearing a hoodie 24/7 and being a need is authentic...

i mean i do that now as a 30 year old trans woman

having worse dysphoria doesn't translate to transitioning earlier though. transitioning earlier speaks to other things. dysphoria can just as easily be pushed down and turned into dissociation as you try to perform masculinity to please the people around you, which is what happens with most late transitioners as far as i can tell. you're lucky because you were able to properly acknowledge your dysphoria and act on it. you already know that most late transitioners hate their bodies and feel dysphoria about similar things to you, not just stuff like body hair.
i guess asking passoids for empathy is just impossible. it seems impossible for you guys to acknowledge you're better off in literally any capacity and will chimp out or guilt trip if anyone at any point expresses a pain which you don't share. you called your friend faketrans for expressing a bit of jealousy and then went online to try to justify yourself to one of the most transphobic trans communties out there. i'm not sure, is this female socialisation, or just plain narcissism?

I'm not a passoid, and I'm not trying to justify myself, what I said was shitty.
She's more trans than me for actually transitioning rather than just being a perma boymoder.
But I think if I was more dysphoric I would realised sooner, and that's somewhat interesting convo I guess, the whole point of the thread is that mb she was right and more dysphoria can be a blessing in cases where it means you recognise it earlier.

i can easily imagine someone transitioning very early despite having little dysphoria, as long as they were in a sufficiently supportive environment and exposed to the existence of trans stuff in a positive light. late transitioning is a symptom of repressing dysphoria. it's only if you've not had to repress it that more dysphoria leads to earlier transition.
i had dysphoria as a teen, but i couldn't properly identify it. if i had more dysphoria than i did i feel like i'd just feel more formless depression and probably would have just ended up going through with one of my suicide attempts, not transitioning. just like if i was more attracted to men, i would not have known i was gay earlier, i only would have known that i was more strange and broken and unlike the way i was supposed to be.

could also be like me and be 26 year old who started at 21/22 but was highly dysphoric since early middle school (i fucking hate myself for figuring out how to buy drugs + fake ids with BTC in 2012 but not estradiol from alldaychemist / inhouse).

This
Except for the beard and 6 ft thing, that's grim. Sorry for you.

22 and no body hair is crazy, you sure she doesn't have kleinfelter syndrome or some shit?

Nah. Luckpassing is more dangerous than being clocky, like tenfold.

I already had face hair and body hair at 14 y.o. ... (I started the transition at 15)

yeah i'm gonna be real I'm like a giga luckshit also in a t4t relationship. my gf is also a passoid but she needs makeup to pass. She continuously tells me how lucky I am to be able to pass without makeup when she can't. Is it annoying she uses me to compare herself to? yes. My response to her is always STILL "babe I think you're super beautiful no matter if you have makeup on or not" and kiss her. literally all you had to do was say something remotely sweet or supportive to her or even just go "yeah sorry you have to go through that" like a normal person would do. she was expressing her dysphoria to you, granted in an unhealthy way, and you instead decided to diminish her struggles and basically imply she's not as trans as you, whether that was your goal or not it would have come off that way. You're a really really shit girlfriend, and if you were very uncomfortable with her comparing yourself to you you could've just gone "I really don't feel comfortable with you comparing yourself to me like that, I'm sorry you have different struggles to me but Id appreciate if you did in a healthier way that doesn't also make me feel bad"

NTA but I'm western euro and I had a neckbeard at 13. Looked like shit.

idk if it's really that innocent of a remark for someone to make it sound like you suffer less and how lucky you are that you have it so much easier. it's a backhanded jealous remark imo

I started at like 11 kek
I pass though but med genes man

what's the point of this LARP? no one believes you