I'm a transphobe and I want to talk to trans people

Hi, I recently became a transphobe and trans stuff has been weighing pretty heavily on my mind. Weirdly enough, I don't actually hate trans people *at all* and I want to just interact with trans people to humanize them in my mind and stop fucking obsessing over trans stuff. Just any interaction really, although any light-hearted chats between a transphobe and a trans person is pretty damn unlikely.

Yeah, I don't know what the fuck I am doing. This is probably just going to result in me getting insulted or told to kill myself, but I kind of accept that.

we're just people i guess. what do you want to talk about

Why are ya a transphobe tho?

I have nothing to do (colloquial) and am wasting my time on Anon Babble, wanna talk?

idk you probably picked the worst place for this but thats maybe for the best
you like drawing or something?

I recently became a transphobe

seems unusual to be so self-aware to the point you not only recognise yourself as transphobe, but also acknowledge that you have "become" one.

Now I'm curious. How does one "become" a transphobe? Did you watch too much conservative media? Did you spot a hon in the wild and thought to yourself how ugly she is? Or have you had a bad experience with a trans person irl? What was your opinion about trans ppl before?

This is probably just going to result in me getting insulted or told to kill myself

Love yourself, unironically. Not just for your own sake, or for the sake of giving me some pseudo-moral high-ground. The more you love yourself and practice self-care in your daily life, the less you are going to be prone to being transphobic, or any other thing like that.

Being obsessed with negative energy, no matter where it comes from or where it goes, is a sickness. The more you practice mental/spiritual wellbeing, the more your mental/spiritual immune system prevents you from getting sick.

Also, going on Anon Babble is like mouthing the public drinking fountain.

ngl same, ion rlly care what niggas over 18 do i just hate seeing yall go after kids. my half brother became trans at 8 and its fucking ridiculus

Uh, I didn't really think that far ahead... I'm literally too autistic to understand how conversations work anyway.

Just talk about normal person things, i don't know. Maybe getting to know a bit about random trans people is what would help my mind relax around this stuff?

I'm just playing rounds of Balatro between checking this thread (scary).

Thanks for the calm response btw. I had no idea what to expect. Have a great day and I hope you feel comfortable with your identity and stuff.

Hi, I recently became a transphobe and trans stuff has been weighing pretty heavily on my mind

Perhaps a therapist might help?
You have much bigger issues than trans people, and trans people aren't the problem.

see this why im transphobic talk to a therapist is a crazy ass quote ngl. kike lover

what’s up anon fellow cis guy here who kind of had this question years ago and managed to make a number of trans women friends
after all this time my opinion is trans women are on the whole smart, cool, thoughtful, warm, and empathetic
good luck getting over your transphobia being transphobic is a dumb way to live

I mean I started as a teen without my parents knowing ordering shit with what little money I got from bdays etc, I’m 31 now still trans, my only regret was not stealing a credit card when I was 12 and starting earlier.

Yes transgender people are the problem.
They are mentally unstable
Women reproduce
Only a few troons reproduce
Toons are mentally ill
Most troons are sex workers
Most troons are mentally ill
You understand the new troon generation, and why they are not equal.
You see 100s of sex worker troons so you treat them like shit all live like shit anyway

What I'm trying to say is, there might be a reason WHY you "recently became" a transphobe.
Something that a bunch of pixels on the internet is unlikely to help with.
Doesn't have to be a therapist.

Sex workers have no business in society
Pop goes the weasel

still aint right niggas shouldnt be takin hrt till they 18

Because there sex workers and you don't want them hanging around you're business.
Bat to their skull

nah dawg i always been transphobic and i aint op. idk why yall cant leave kids the fuck alone, evreyone a freak in some way n thats ok but nigga cmon

That's the interesting part, my beliefs are entirely my own, with no outside influence. I was never exposed to much bigotry growing up, and I didn't get indoctrinated by anything.

I've always been a bit unsure on what to think of trans people, but I never really gave it much thought and just let people be. It was only when I realised I could explore my thoughts by chatting with an AI chatbot where things started to change. I legitimately went in expecting to chat to the robot for a few hours, have things click in my mind, and to be able to start accepting trans people. As you can see, that's not what happened. A couple times I thought I had started making it make sense in my brain, only for my logistics to poke a hole in my acceptance. I at least feel solid in my beliefs now, although I wish it wasn't like this.

Actually, these beliefs eat me up inside, I feel caught between sticking to what seems right and feeling empathy for what trans people go through.

As you can see, that's not what happened

I assume you're not the poster spamming up the thread. If so, I don't really know what any of your beliefs are!

only for my logistics to poke a hole in my acceptance.

I feel caught between sticking to what seems right and feeling empathy for what trans people go through.

This is very interesting, because it seems like you empathize with trans people, but have some logical reasoning you can't shake off that makes you against them, but you don't want to be at the same time?

Do you want to maybe talk about what that is?
Maybe we can work through it together.
AI chatbots only repeat back to you what you say to them more or less.

Troons should stay in troons land and not in most cities.
Clean up on troon sex workers
Sometimes you need to beat the troons out of town

hell nah senpai kids cant consent. when our jewish society collapses yall gonna be in trouble less u cut this type of rhetoric out.

Retard.
I'm not trans.
HOWEVER, I'm also not coming here just to intentionally start a fight

t. amerimutt

u were probably suicidal cuz u were a mentally ill gooner lol. at any rate kids still cant consent to hrt

Where there's troons there's drugs and prostitution.
Back ground check shows most troons are Hookers.
You over played your hand and now people are fighting back.

idk bro im deadass right, if yall left kids alone an cut out the gigglygoonclown type shit ppl wouldnt have such a problem. like furry, trans is an inheretly sexual thing and minors should be segregated off

When you see the lifestyle of trans people you will understand sex workers and drugs. Get those troons out of your town.

No, I'm not the annoying guy spamming the thread. I've just been trying to make reasonable replies.

Do you want to maybe talk about what that is?

Want to? Sure, I guess so. But that certainly is pretty tricky for me to figure it out myself. It essentially just comes down to how gender is defined. The sole reason I don't see this stuff as valid, is just due to my own logic of what we consider a man and a woman. We're all born either option A or B, and I just can't see transitioning as changing those fundamentals...

No, I genuinely don't want to be a transphobe. It's not fun.

I would like that, thank you. Dunno what to say though. I'm very dim when it comes to actually having a conversation (autism).

Why would people have to live by YOUR definition of gender lol, the world doesn't revolve around your dictionary. How people feel and think has nothing to do with you, you don't have to understand/agree with something in order for you to you to not hate it. I don't understand flat earthers or K-pop stans, that doesn't mean I hate them lol. You said you were autistic earlier so I'll mostly paint it as an autistic thing but atleast try to challenge your ego sometimes.

Can't say that I do. I actually find drawing to be annoying.

Sure thing, here's my take on it. I'm MtF.

I like todo this thing when interacting with people who want me to admit I'm a man somehow or another where I'm like "Okay, is your definition of a man just someone with XY chromosomes and that's the only defining feature?"
If yes, then okay, w/e, I'll say it: "I'm a man."

But then if that's your definition, I don't want to hear anything about how I should "act like a man" or "am dangerous" or "should be/are naturally masculine acting" or anything like that.

Usually people want their to have their cake and eat it too I think with these definitions.
They want the definition of man and woman to just be chromosomes or whatever, but also want man and woman to correspond to all the assumptions we make about men and women simultaneously.

If you were to say to me "you're of the same nature of me, distinct from the nature of all women, because we are both men." I'd have to disagree with you heavily, because that's just not the case.

I think functionally, most people don't actually use "man" and "woman" to mean nothing other than the chromosomes someone has. Usually it's loaded to the brim with associations we have related to gender. And if I'm going to be associated with one grouping of those behavioral associations or the other, it'd be the woman one.

Like, I'm perfectly okay saying "I'm a male woman" for instance, under this way of defining terms.

IDK, I think it's all blown out of proportion.
"I'm a man with boobs and a srs vagina lulz"
or
"I'm a male woman lulz"
It's accurate, no?
if you have some better way of putting it, go ahead.

reminder that if soifags were as visible as trannies they would be hated 20x times as much.

2 years. Probably less.

You're completely right, and that's exactly how I used to think, let people have their own definitions and ideas on how things should work. It makes a lot of sense, and I kind of wish I could go back to that mindset. But now, I started to believe that MY definition of gender was correct, and that everyone else is wrong. It's not really a great mindset, but it makes logical sense to me, unfortunately. I don't ever enforce my beliefs on others though, because...well...that's basically impossible and sort of a waste of time. I don't hate them for being 'wrong' either, it's just a lens through how I view the world now.

Transphobia is perfectly valid but you don't pass as a real transphobe. You're too nice and conciliatory. Keep working at it bigothon.

That's autistic AF
There are lots of perfectly good reasons to hate trannies: they're gross, they're pozzed, they want to rape and mutilate children, etc.

You're constantly contradicting yourself; "You're completely right", "It makes a lot of sense", "wish I could go back to that mindset", "It's not really a great mindset", etc. Just keep challenging yourself and you'll get there. Also calling yourself a transphobe is a bit unnecessary I think, being a transphobe is hating trannies for the sole reason that they're trans and I don't read hate in your words, just confusion. You can love people while thinking they're wrong ^_^

Thank you for your response.

In response to what you're saying, I don't give two fucks about gender roles or what society expects men and women to do. To me, it really is only about chromosomes and stuff. A man can act as 'girly' and 'feminine' as he likes, and that's completely fine. Same thing for women acting 'manly', however people want to act, I think that's fine and doesn't influence their identity. For example, although it is weird, I see nothing wrong with men wearing skirts.

Feminine and masculine only hold meaning based on whatever society portrays it as. (that probably sounded pretentious) Personally, I don't really believe in feminine or masculine, or I at least don't value it at all.

You don't have to act like a man or be dangerous or anything. So yeah, I think men can act exactly the same as women and still be male. To me, man and woman truly are just their barest definitions and don't imply anything about how that person should act.

Have a great day. Hope you are happy with your identity, even if I can't agree with it.

hi silly

Why? So they become ugly hons instead of developing like women?

You have a great day too anon.

Lmao yeah that's autism

I'm contradicting myself? I don't really see how... I just find my current beliefs logical, while also regretting that it goes against what makes people happy. Actually that does make sense, my current mindset is uh, 'cognitive dissonance' or whatever you call it.

The only reason I became a like this in the first place was due to challenging my beliefs and trying to be more accepting. I sort of burned myself out on finding a way to make being trans make sense, until I realised that the opposite sounded right. I'm not really sure how to challenge myself from here.

You should turn your autism on definining transphobia. Can you really be a phobe if you don't have hateful beliefs and care about trans people's happiness? You haven't even told anyone to detransition. Do you think transphovia is something you can just identify into even if you act like a perfect ally?

It doesn't have to make sense, you'll never be able to make sense of it since it's not something you're going through. Just like I will never understand what autistic people like you go through, I think your beliefs are crooked but I don't judge you for them whatsoever nor do I hate you lol.

The only reason I became a like this in the first place was due to challenging my beliefs and trying to be more accepting.

And that's good, you should've stopped there. Allow yourself the peace of not understanding/knowing everything. I don't think you're a bad person, the opposite actually, you were 95% of the way there and just took a wrong turn at the last step.

i just bothered reading until here, love u nona ur mannerisms when discussing are so pretty <3

thank uu pooks, kicked my feet reading that >_<