Hop on grindr to look for a tranny to blow me from time to time

I'm thinking that I can string her along till she loses interest in me.

I kind of felt pity for you at first, but now I really don't. This is nothing but self-serving cowardice. You know this is wrong, but you prefer passive sabotage over honest communication.

You're emotionally avoidant, exploiting her emotional investment, and are planning to discard her when it’s least inconvenient for you. You're acting with clear selfish intent and avoiding all accountability.

You don't actually care about how she feels. You're trying to time the breakup for maximum comfort to you, not minimal pain for her.

Just break it off so this poor girl can find someone that deserves the kindness she's shown you.

just get over it and see what happens. tell her that you arnt sure about a relationship but youre happy to spend time with her at least.
if youre gonna fuck her at least be a friend.

grow a fuckin spine and do something about it
fuck's sake it's always the frogposters

You're emotionally avoidant

I've always been. She knows this.

exploiting her emotional investment

Not at all.

and are planning to discard her when it’s least inconvenient for you

planning to discard her when it’s least inconvenient for her**********

You're acting with clear selfish intent and avoiding all accountability.

I'm acting in her best interest.

You don't actually care about how she feels. You're trying to time the breakup for maximum comfort to you, not minimal pain for her.

Quite literally the opposite. The best thing for me would be for her to disappear from my life.

Just break it off so this poor girl can find someone that deserves the kindness she's shown you.

She's on grindr for fuck's sake, be real

This is why as a passoid I stay inside and away from shitty people like you

I feel like she's at the peak (or close to it) right now, so she has lots of feelings

have you considered that it's because she thinks you're in a relationship genius

kys

this is why women should be with women, especially trannies

Okay then you’ll just have to stay with her forever then since you’ve already put yourself in this situation lol

shut up rapehon

You are a massive fucking moron incapable of taking any accountability. I hope all tranners here see that this is exactly the sort of low quality, emotionally retarded men who inhabit Grindr looking for trannies. Absolute slime with every excuse and rationalization in the world for being a gross cowardly fuck.

dude it’s literally the fuck and suck app

You people are genuinely retarded. Like incredibly fucking retarded.
Grindr, dumb fucks, did you even read? I went there to get my cock blown, that's it. How is it my fault she has made more of it? Fuck off, idiots

For gay dudes it is. Trannies on Grindr fall into one of two types: outright prostitutes or naive and desperate girls who use it as a legitimate dating app.

i only sleep with dudes, but my point stands, cis people especially men are evil to trans people

nah i use it as the fuck and suck app i think you’re just retarded, no offense of course

retard thinks trannies use Grindr like gay men use it

kys bro honestly

if you dont know that trans women are love-starved and desperate then ur an idiot, most trans girls arent looking to hookup with chasers then get dumped

having been in her position, please be honest and straight forward with her. you pulling back/showing less interest will only make her panic and try even harder to become close to you

Lmao you use Grindr to get run thru like a disgusting whore because you have no self worth and actual mental problems but I'm the retard?

and yet that's all they're ever going to get

Sounds like a tranny issue then, sorry.

if it's her fault then just shut up and do whatever you want then. you were pretending like you gave a shit about her in the op so we gave you some perspective

why are transbians so psycho wtf

I've always been. She knows this.

Admitting a flaw isn’t redemption, especially if you're actively leaning into it as strategy.

Not at all.

Straight denial, but the facts you've stated in this thread say otherwise. You're benefiting from her affection and sex while planning an exit behind the scenes. That is exploitation.

planning to discard her when it’s least inconvenient for her**********

Pure cope. You're not timing it for her, you're timing it for when you feel less guilty. You're rewriting your motives to avoid facing what they really are.

I'm acting in her best interest.

Most delusional line so far.

Quite literally the opposite. The best thing for me would be for her to disappear from my life.

Then why haven't you left? Because you're still getting something from her. Attention, sex, comfort. That line is meant to sound noble but you're exposing a fundamental contradiction.

She's on grindr for fuck's sake, be real

Whether she's on Grindr or not doesn’t change your behavior. You're trying to cheapen her kindness retroactively so you can feel better about using her.

You're using her knowing she's emotionally invested. You've framed her feelings as an inconvenience and then blamed her for catching them.

You've insulted people calling you out, not to defend yourself with nuance, but to lash out and dominate, because the illusion of moral high ground is gone, and now all you have left is aggression.

You are so fucking pathetic.

Yea OP let slip pretty quick he doesn't think he's above any criticism, looks down on this girl and is gonna do whatever the fuck he wants.

based
don't see anything to add
op is a faggot

just let her know you are not looking for nothing serious you should have done this since the beginning instead of acting like a retard

Lmao not a transbian I'm engaged to a man and have only ever dated men. Sorry but I dont get talked down to by nasty hons who chase gross Grindr dick

Its the only app that we can use dumb nigger

Admitting a flaw isn’t redemption, especially if you're actively leaning into it as strategy.

Strategy for what?

Straight denial, but the facts you've stated in this thread say otherwise. You're benefiting from her affection and sex while planning an exit behind the scenes. That is exploitation.

She benefits from my nutsack rupturing in her throat.

Pure cope. You're not timing it for her, you're timing it for when you feel less guilty. You're rewriting your motives to avoid facing what they really are.

Fantasy, and wrong.

Most delusional line so far.

Least delusional line from you.

Then why haven't you left?

Because that will hurt her.

Whether she's on Grindr or not doesn’t change your behavior.

Of course it does. If you're gonna act like a cumrag (hanging out on grindr as a hole) don't be surprised when you get treated like one. EXCEPT for the fact that I am not even doing that.

You're using her knowing she's emotionally invested.

I'm using her the same way I've "always" used her.

You've framed her feelings as an inconvenience and then blamed her for catching them.

How do you or I even know she even has any feelings? I'm just applying the cautionary principle here.

You've insulted people calling you out, not to defend yourself with nuance, but to lash out and dominate, because the illusion of moral high ground is gone, and now all you have left is aggression.

I'm always aggressive.

You are so fucking pathetic.

Not an argument.

Do you think I've found some gem I'm exploiting or something? I can show my body on my grindr profile picture and I can pick and choose whatever. I'm being nice here with ZERO gain for myself.

thats not true is just the most convenient one

trannies are just mad that no one wants to date them
get that nut and let some simp wife these troons

proof that narcs rationalize it all in their head … you’re not fooling me dude, it’s clear as hell what you are

projecting

D:

Poor girl doesn't know what a blessing it will be when it ends with this narc. Dude has the emotional intelligence and empathy of the new Ford F-150 with all wheel drive

I am someone that prefers being alone for the most part, well done for catching me.

There's nothing wrong with looking for romance on grinder. There's nothing wrong with having emotional attachments from a result of sex. Women's emotions are pure and good. Selfish men are literally disgusting and worthless.

Shame on you OP, rather than arguing and defending yourself you should humbly accept that you're in the wrong and have hurt an innocent woman who wants love and reflect on your actions so that you can become a better person.

deep down he's petrified of being vulnerable and opening himself up to hurt, so he completely disconnects any emotion not just with this girl, but everyone potentially romantic in general. its very sad

It's fine if he doesn't want anything more. But the fact that he's coming up with every excuse and rationalization to not be upfront with this girl, like thinking she should know better or it's gonna hurt her if he does it sooner rather than later, is just pure narc cowardice.

It's getting very desperate now. It's ok, you can let the thread die. I'm not being gaslit by you :)

i think the narc assessment is right
i don't even really dislike narcissists but they never know how to behave themselves when they're in a position of power over someone else, even a very minor one, and they're fundamentally cowardly by definition of narcissism

its obvious that you close yourself off from anyone who could potentially hurt you. its okay and not your fault you're this way, but please don't let it hurt other people like you've let it hurt the girl you met. you can still end things with her and not string her along further

Calm down narc, and notice that I'm not even talking to you, I'm talking about you with other people, because you're not worth talking to.

I see you have failed to take responsibility. This is the bad end. You are not a real man.

Send her my way, i will treat her better

I don't do drugs.
Other people can't hurt me though! </3
I'm just not interested in relationships, sorry!!!

yea cause you close yourself off completely whenever you think you may get hurt, that's why you avoid relationships. is it really so awful to end things with this girl if it means you don't hurt her feelings as much?

this is what's so fuckin dumb the consensus this entire thread from literally every poster other than op is "just end it wtf are you doing" and he just will not hear it
it's obvious cowardice and at this point we're rewarding op with attention by continuing to post in the thread

you close yourself off completely whenever

I'm not sure what you mean by close myself off, but whatever you think that entails, LET ME ASSURE YOU MY FRIEND; I am always like that.

is it really so awful to end things with this girl

Yes, because it might break her.

if it means you don't hurt her feelings as much?

It will hurt her less if I wait a bit.

I'm just not interested in relationships, sorry

Tell her that then you faggot

When she's ready.

It's not for you to decide when she's ready or what's best for her. Wtf is wrong with you?

I know her a bit, so I am for sure more qualified than the rest of you combined.

why is this whole board defending a weirdo who gets overly attached to a fwb they met on grindr?

We're not we're telling OP to break it off now if he doesn't want a relationship, which she obviously wants

samefag

Meds

because this thread is full of trannies who think they're finding their future husband on the gay sex app

be gay

be lonely forever never establishing a relationship with mutual attraction and parity in goals and expectations

Many such cases

I'm not lonely, and my attraction is only for failed males that I can humiliate through sex.

The people you meet are

I meet lots of different people

OP if you can get what you want maybe you should amass an army and get even more