I don’t personally subscribe to the concept of marriage as a social institution. I believe in deep, soulful connections between partners, but the idea of formalizing that bond through a legal contract—especially one that can carry heavy financial consequences—doesn’t make much sense to me. When a relationship ends, it’s already emotionally painful. Adding legal battles or obligations like alimony on top of that feels like compounding the heartache.
Additionally, I’ve always found it interesting that marriage, as an institution rooted in religious traditions that historically rejected LGBTQ+ identities, became such a focal point in the fight for equality. While I support the right for everyone to choose the life and relationship structure that suits them, I still question why marriage, of all things, became the benchmark for progress—especially for gay men, given the historical context.
tldr: I'm an incel