As a chaser, how do you realistically find non-dysphoric non-op trans women? I don't like intruding in the spaces of those who want SRS or don't like attention to that part of them, but it seems like there's no space for those like me to respectfully express this preference
And don't say Grindr as the answer please
well like it’s kinda about your motivation no? i think (overshare?) id be fine with a guy touching my weenus and whatever, but he has to like not be gay about it cause im a GIRL ! so i think if youre trying to just be normal (normal?) about it, im sorry this stigma stops you, but honestly if youre hot, most trans girls will be cool with that stuff if you’ve shown your character well i think
tl:dr, don’t lead with it and you’ll probably be fine
Leading with it is a necessary evil, I don't want to lead on or waste the time of someone who doesn't want to engage in a relationship dynamic that involves acknowledging what's there, it's better for both parties imo
But that also complicates the matter far more, since how do you even avoid that awkward exchange?
if you preorder me i would let you suck it every time
And don't say Grindr as the answer please
Why not? That's by far the easiest way to find trans women who are down to use their dicks. Probably trans friendly gay clubs as well.
well, i feel like you can broach the topic early, without it being too soon; i am celibate until serious commitment, and i broach the topic of intimacy and what i want (kink wise) early to make sure we’re compatible, but not trying to enforce that discussion? you can def do it, you just have to be okay with the occasional rejection sweetheart !
Grindr is a hell hole here and might bring about some unpleasant situations
no easy answers
my bf found me on a dating app, but ngl we both didn't really expect a stable relationship, it just kinda worked out as a complete surprise
so uhm, maybe just do 1-time hookups with a low bar to clear and vibe check with an open mind?
THATS SO CUTE AWWW I LOVE LOVE
OK, well that's been where I've found non-bottom-dysphoric trans women to hook up with. Where do you live?
well im dysphoric but im not bottom dysphoric
type shit i be on
Slovakia
desu i dont care much if i top once in a while (i just dont wanna do it all the time because its a hassle) but i dont want intimacy without commitment
captcha: RYNDR
In all honesty, Anon Babble is mostly American with some Western Euros, not sure if people will be able to give you practical advice. I could tell you where to find trans people in any progressive American city but I literally have no idea if the advice would apply to you.
ooh that’s my limit, i have little bottom dysphoria, but he CANT be gay about it idk, and im a girl . there is no such thing as topping for me FR. also just like me on the no intimacy without commitment shit
understandable
type shit, but no you’re valid asf too doe !!
i love slovakia i once broke a tv in a holiday apartment in bratislava and we covered it up
Grindr
The fact that there are men who want to be sodomized in the anus and mouth by women with penises makes me furious. You chaser faggots should just be gay like the fags you are. Die
As a chaser
Why is there always open hostility to people expressing a sexual preference?
Is there a problem?
100 with you op, not trying to manipulate anyone or date those whom I'm sexually incompatible with.
I want a GF who can send me pics in sexy underwear and a nice bra with her bulge and bra showing, that's hot to me.
If you are in the west date non whites as they tend to match this preference more and go for girls who say they are vers bottoms because those tend to be bottoms who like you to play with their dick.
Trans specific dating sites sometimes have setting to just look for non-op girls as well.
I tend to find far more of these trans women in Latin America and SEA desu.
Grindr is decent in Brazil, Mexico ,Colombia, and the Philippines for trans women.
difficult country have you expanded your dating search to Czechia/Bohemia?
It’s a contradiction in terms. Is she’s a trans woman then she is dysphoric, she doesn’t like her penis, she does want a vagina. If “she’s” not dysphoric, “she” likes “her” penis and likes using it, that’s actually a gay man who cross dresses and takes hormones.
And gets fake tits and facial surgery and calls herself a woman?
I'm convinced that the only people left in Anon Babble are trannies with mental disorders in the waiting list for SRS and chud tourists from Anon Babble, there's such a lack of diversity of opinion that you can't convince me otherwise
i don't have a bottom dysphoria but that's because i already got srs
you will penetrate the neopussy
you will enjoy it
Bro you want femboys jfc
if the thing that interests you about trans women is the dick, you're just closet gay.
if it's like. you meet a girl and you like her and find out she was born a boy and she's shy about sex because srs went poorly? normal, cis het that fell for a woman with a birth defect.
if you have a dick and you suck a dick, it's gay.
there's such a lack of diversity of opinion
good!
gender isn't a choice or an opinion. you either get srs or you're congruent in your sex (not trans).
By that metric SRS doesn't make you a woman, it makes you a castrated man on hormones, waiting to be called a transphobe for applying your logic
define my logic before assuming you've applied.
by my logic: they delusionally believe they're women pre-op and see their dick in the same light as a cancerous tumor whereby their smugness post-op stems from the validation of doctors agreeing to remove their cancerous growth.
if you don't understand what ego-dystonia is to begin with, then you would think trans is the identity like the rest if the trenders.
nah femboys are gross and unattractive
the same bs that has been spouted 100 times for more than 20 years on this topic. If you don't accept that a trans woman's dick is different then neither is her mouth or ass hole it's all male at the end of the day so shut the fuck up
non-dysphoric trans women
You're kinda stupid, huh?
if you don't accept that their dick isn't a dick then you're the transphobe.
no anon. if you don't do anything to change it, then you didn't transition. if you didn't transition, then you desisted. if you desisted, then you're cis.
you're the one that doesn't think sex reassignment surgery does as the name implies because you're stating they're always male or female without a threshold. if you don't think they're changing their sex, then you're the transphobe. that's the point of srs. correcting a birth defect to reassign their sex.
Repulsive Wario-nosed motherfucker
birth defect
No anon, the chromosomes are XY, the regular development is into a penis and being male, it would be a birth defect for an XY individual to be born with a vagina, SRS is thus causing a defect in a male.
ego-dystonia
So a psychological abnormality in the psyche of an individual who would normally not develop an aversion to a part of their body
If you try to ground "true" transness to either a genital or dysphoric basis, you just circle back to mental illness which is exactly what the chuds argue, and it is mighty ironic that you would say we're the transphobes when we're trying to normalize it as self-id and personal adhesion to gender norms in their entirety or just a part of them, but be my guest if you want to turn SRS from a voluntary functional and cosmetic procedure to a figurative extensive circumcision necessary to enter the trans folk
Why is it so easy for literally everyone else but me to find a relationship? Fucking hell.
I could say the same thing, the bar is higher for a man I guess
non-dysphoric trans woman
Your not going to find one. Suck it up and accept the fact your going to have to be emotionally availble for your partner in a relationship. Thats just a universal thing. Most cis women dont like a lot of there body and get anxious about it, you need to be able to reassure whoever your dating that they are pretty.