I want my doro back. I want to be with my doro. I want to watch my doro draw her comics. I want to hear my doro sing to me again. I want to make my doro laugh and have my doro make me laugh. Why won't my doro let me apologize and be with me again?
I've unironically tried love spells and I think I'm at the end of my rope because I don't think there's a way.
Please, the most witchy /tttt/ poster, give me a really potent lovespell so I can get her back.
WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU DO TO HER YOU MONSTER
doro came all over me, bad doro!
I guess 'controlling' might be the right term, but I really was just lonely and wanted to see her.
Now I'm lonely and I'm sure I'll die alone.
You told us you were marrying her you lying cunt what happened?
How dare you, honestly. and you're already justifying, you deserved that shit.
I was coping in a fantasy I wish was real.
are you Black, anon? if not then i'm sorry, it's already over....
I've unironically tried love spells...
anon, we have special protection against spells that wont work on her. guess u'll have to have a direct approach
what kind of mental illness makes someone like this?
Love
can't be it. After all, haven't you heard the saying, "If you love something, set it free?"
Don't think OP is capable of that.
After all, haven't you heard the saying, "If you love something, set it free?"
You know old sayings can be wrong?
Except for a stitch in time saving nine. That's always true.
The full proverb is this - "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was."
It speaks to an eternal truth of relationships - the need for autonomy.
If you are so obsessed with someone that you want them to stay with you even though they don't want to any more, that isn't love, it's just obsession. You don't care about that person's well being. You're just selfish.
you have to be her.
it is the most potent lovespell we have.
It's just so hard to live without her. Why do the spurned have to suffer?
My doro will come back to me one day
I notice that you're no longer trying to argue the obviously false assertion that you love her. That's good, it shows we're making progress.
You say that it's hard to live without her, but there are billions of other people on this planet who do it every day.
You're the only one who's so obsessed that you feel this way. And you're only this obsessed because you choose think about her every single day.
You could just distract yourself and move on. But you don't.
Let me ask you this - Suppose circumstances forced her to get back together with you, against her will. She's miserable. You're happy. Would you actually be satisfied with such an outcome? You would basically be a happiness vampire.
I notice that you're no longer trying to argue the obviously false assertion that you love her.
I still do though I just didn't mention it in that post.
You never refuted my point that it's just obsession, though. The point stands until you do that. You don't love her - now please, I want to know what you think about the scenario I asked about here.
What makes you think she'd be unhappy with me? I just fucked up and I know we'd be happy together if she just let me back into her life.
Oh, I don't know - maybe her own testimony, given freely, many times? I'm not about to go digging up the receipts, but she's made how she feels about the situation very clear.
There's no question from what she's said, she would be miserable. Now please, tell me whether you'd be ok with being a happiness vampire or not already.
What if she was a worm?
The non sequitur will not distract me. I think I have a good idea of the answer to the situation I posted
here, but I really want to hear it from your own mouth. I want to hear you say that you really just care about your own happiness, not hers.
Yeah, but what if she was a worm though?
I'll humor your idiocy so that we can move on - If she was a worm, you probably wouldn't have this selfish obsession with her.
Now - happiness vampire. Yes or no?
I JUST WANT TO MAKE JOKES AND LAUGH AND TALK AND PICK THE BRAIN AND HEAR ABOUT THE DAY FROM THE ONLY WOMAN WHO WILL EVER GET ME
I don't care. I just want answers. We can't move forward until you answer my question.
What if you were a bicycle? I could ride you to work.
You couldn't. I'm posting this anonymously from an unknown location. If I was a bicycle, you would have no idea which bicycle I was, and where. Now - Happiness Vampire. Would you do it? Or wouldn't you?
If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?
I'd say it does because there have to be animals around who are often not considered to be people
You may not believe me. But you can move past this and be happy with someone else. You just need to try.
Genuinely, your behavior here is sick. It's not normal. A therapist could teach you coping mechanism to untrain the selfish, unhealthy obsession you have for this girl.
But you can move past this and be happy with someone else. You just need to try.
That's not gonna happen. Anybody else would be a downgrade.
I know because I've talked to a few women since and they were just fucking dumbasses.
I'm not trying to be funny, but she's like Breaking Bad and I'm being asked to downgrade to Sesame Street.
I feel you so hard!! A while ago I fumbled an easily cis passing baddie who also happened to have LOADED parents. You have to work on yourself, make yourself better, learn from the mistakes you made (I made so, so many in that relationship) and move on. You'll find another girl out there, I promise.
And no, she doesn't want to talk to you. Maybe send a little apology in 4-8 months when emotions have simmered down and that's it
Obviously trying to meet other women right away wouldn't help. An obsession this serious, won't be eliminated that easily. Like I said, it would require psychological intervention. Or, at least, conscious effort on your part towards overcoming it. You should focus on being comfortable alone first.
I'm too fucking old to be alone with myself anymore. I just want to be with my forever person.
I'm curious - have you ever been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder?
She was
I see. That might be why you feel like she's the only woman who will ever get you.
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Nobody can replace her