Have this burning feeling in my butt and lower abdomen when i get horny and it feels like i need dick really badly

have this burning feeling in my butt and lower abdomen when i get horny and it feels like i need dick really badly

when i finger myself it doesn't feel good and i don't orgasm and i just feel frustrated until i stop being horny and it goes away

anyone else :( why am i like this
this isn't a hornypost its genuinely very frustrating

get a dildo?

You need deep anal penetration with a well lubricated dildo or preferably a real man's cock.

i did and it wasn't any better

but aren't all the sensitive parts at the front why would that be better

You're not doing it right. You need to go slow, control your breathing, and jerk your pp while you fuck yourself.

i dont touch my dick

It can take years of practice. Your secuality is adjusting right now due to estrogen. Your body is craving penetration, meanwhile your penis is going to soften and shrink and become less sensitive.

Anal stimulation is an acquired skill that is fairly time and preparation intensive, and requires the right mindset, completely relaxed, in control of your breathing. But with time and practice you will become more and more accustomed to it.

That's even better-- if you're not accustomed to touching your dick you should be able to get a hands free orgasm via nipples and anal stimulation alone.

i've been on estrogen for 8 years

every bottom should learn how to induce prostate orgasms, otherwise you get no release. it takes time and practice, it's almost like rehabilitating an atrophied muscle. your prostate hasn't yet strengthened those nerve endings, you have to exercise it

also you didn't answer my question, i think you're just saying shit

im lazy desu people describe it like some years long training exercise, that's so stupid it's easier to just not masturbate

hmmm sounds like you need actual dick and not your fingers then

same :(

sounds like you need my strap slut

Sorry, I tried to answer the question but I can be more clear:

It isn't just how long you've been on estrogen although that is a factor.

Your brain has to learn to associate some sensations with sexual pleasure. Some erogenous zones are inactive because of lack of use, particularly the nerves around the anus and around the prostate. Your brain has adapted to responding to penile stimulation because that's the input it's received, over and over.

If you stop focusing on your penis and start anally masturbating, ideally with some measures taken to put you in the right state of mind, you can gradually rewire your brain. Basically, you think sexy thoughts while touching an erogenous zone. Over time your sexuality itself can shift.

Everyone is different. Some people are born with a strong urge to shove things up their ass. For others, it might never appeal to them.

sounds like a psyop + crying into my pillow is way easier

you need dick

It's not a psyop. Just get yourself a man on grinder or tinder, get naked, get in bed, and he'll take care of the rest.

Just get yourself a man on grinder or tinder, get naked, get in bed, and he'll take care of the rest.

it actually feels surreal the effect this idea has on my body

it's real just get raped and get HIV haha

u dont know how to work it.

ALL men are rapists who want to inflict cruelty and suffering!

I CAN'T make him use a condom to avoid aids because.... because I just can't okay?

The best part is, once you find a guy you like and trust him not to cheat on you, you can both get tested for aids and then he can fuck your clean hole with no condom and cum in you.

men on grindr are rapists with hiv. also overwhelmingly fat, 30+, and ugly.

that's simply not true on any of those counds, and it doesn't matter what dating app you use. Men are men.

Also, men reach peak physical attractiveness around age 36 just FYI. They're also a lot better at sex when they have experience.

Also, men reach peak physical attractiveness around age 36 just FYI

fat old hands typed this

why are you being so weird and stubborn about this. I'm not fat at all, i'm a trans woman like you and I'm very proud of my looks and passability.

Who taught you that all men are evil diseased rapists and fat and that everyone over the age of 30 is old? Unless you're under 20 years old in which case... never mind.

i'm 22 i just don't like fat old men

Okay well you're being silly because you get to PICK the guy you want to be with, including his age. You have agency. Not every guy is fat or old or has aids. You can get one who is very handsome. The vast majority of them are just normal decent people who are looking for sex, romance, or whatever else.

I literally don't show any age at all you little slut STOP SAYING I'M OLD omg you are such a bitch fuck you how dare you