My parents found out i was on hrt

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My parents found out i was on hrt

parents found out ive been on hrt for 6 months

theyve known im trans for years but are still in denial after multiple years and multiple convos about it.

eventually just said fuck it and went to an endocrinologist to get hormones. Made sure they didnt hondose me. Ive been looking a bit better since.

my parents found out and confronted me about it today

my dad screamed at me so much i no longer recgonized him

my mother genuinely looked with a sickly stare at me. I hate i do this to them

i ugly cried like five times, one time my autistic younger brother saw. This made me cry more. I have not cried in at least 2ish years.

they took my car and took me off insurance. The car i believe is in my name but they have the title somewhere in the house idk. I think im up a creek without a paddle.

not as bad as some people have gotten it ik but idk how im going to get to my job or get to work without my car.

i really want to run away or kill myself but i dont want to hurt my parents more.

yes ik im stupid for not doing diy.

Ama ig. Pic rel is the first thing on my camera roll.

if the car is truly yours call the cops, you're an adult ffs

Car was a hand me down gift from my aunt to me. The documents for it are in theory under my name. Im worried about upsetting them. Im worried theyll know the cops and theyll look the other way.

did they steal your keys or what? steal them back

Fuck if ik where theyre keeping my keys.

check around the house when they're not home, figure it out lol

this sucks. do you have any friends?

I think im up a creek without a paddle.

i never heard this saying before but i like it
dont kys, you care about your little brother

theyll know the cops

why would they?
get official, threaten them with cops, call if they do not comply. this is your car and your parents wish you nothing but harm anyway

i have friends who've offered rooms/couches to me but im worried if i leave ill never see any of them again. I was in my brothers room playing mario kart with him and was holding back tears worrying i would never get to see him grow up.

i love my parents there genuinely wonderful people. theyre achilles heal is not accepting me (and i dont feel like im a saint in helping them in that process) they were literally perfect until then. I cant hate them.
they work with police departments a good bit for there work.

haha go scorched earth on your family yolo

anon is underage but even if they weren’t it’s bad advice that someone with Aspergers and poor empathy could only come up with in a serious way.

loving people who don't love you back is a bad way to go through life

endocrinologists dont give hrt to underaged do they? thought only blockers

just stay with people who hate you and are actively making you lose your job so you become dependent on them forever yolo

19 but dependant on them for housing, paying for college, general insurance etc. also was emotionally pr unstable even before this so
ik, this is a problem ive had. But like they love me, they love me a lot, they just dont see me as a girl. I feel like one day they maybe could but if i just leave they never will. They're not bad people just far in the denial hole. They mainly were just upset i 'lied' to them ab not going on hormones (they cornered me like a year ago when i tried to do this while telling them and told me to cancel the order or else).

What kinda child has a fucking car and a job. Get real
No loving parent would steal from their kids, the insurance thing is just petty. Idk about cops, but what choice do you have? Make sure to alert your friends and a few lgbt orgs of your situation in unlikely case that police works with your parents against you. Keep in touch with your brother, contact aunt, don't let this slide

sad..my parents are like that too, nice aside from being homiphobic and transphobic. i diy but my mom went crazy when i got my ears pierced and im constantly going off and on hrt because i dont want them to notice.
i guess theres only 2 options really. they either come to terms with you or you work towards moving out

just go homeless, at least you'll have a car

It seem your family loved you and you also loved them.
Think from their perspective: You are the one who "killed" the son they love so much, you hate your male body meaning you hate their son,... it takes time to heal. The path of trans is lonely, hateful, and financially broken.

the car they seem indecisive on. My dad wants me to keep it and just have me pay the insurance on it (which i cant afford) my mom wants to straight up take it, either way im kind of fucked

i work part time and go to uni. Im a college kid with maybe a few thousand in savings currently not going to college but not enough consistent income to get an apartment or really make any sort of bills.

just be firm in your conviction to transition and don’t let them manipulate you into stopping, if they really do love you then seeing your life improve as a result of what you’re doing will probably make them relent. In the meantime just walk away if they scream at you and tell them that it’s your own life.

they scream at me and all i can do is sit there and apologize. I hate being so fucking weak. I wish they were awful people so i wouldn't feel bad about leaving

hard truth: time to start looking for job so your parents stop having so much leverage over you. do you want to stay under their thumb forever, letting them dictate your life for you?

I wish they were awful people

They are.

if you are18+ and literally have a prescription for your hrt you can call the cops and double down.
especially if they are trying to hinder you from going to the place of gainful employment or hurt your life in any way for being a fag.
you have legal rights.
just so you know.
you can even file restraining orders and tell a judge what happened and they'll protect you.
0 larp

like you can literally kick both your parents out of the house, and they'll have to pay for it while theyre kicked out. lol

apologizing or screaming back is just reinforcing their behavior, just give them the autism stare and say that you aren’t willing to engage further unless they can be rational

i think that shit goes down the drain if i was using there insurance to get the hrt. Also hinges on a jury/judge being sympathetic to a tranny vs two parents who are not abusive otherwise.

they just look at me like im an idito and blame me for "not talking" and "not communicating

granted this is less autistic stare and more autistic mental breakdown but still

you should ride in on your noble steed and steal her away to safety

irl knight x princess yuri but theyre both just truamatized tgirls

i asked grok and it says you still have legal rights as an adult and they cant do that.
(most likely) idk what state you are in.
you should ask ai.
because i think you have more legal rights than you know in this situation.

believe it or not, trans people have a fuckton of legal rights in situations like this.

no mention of the boers

fake screenshot

Living with parents past the minute you turn 18

Nahhhh cmon now

money

i asked grok

why do people feel the need to ask llms questions on others' behalf and post it like they've done some substantial research

OP here, asked gemini about my specfic state and it spat this out in a lil summary section after a big wall of text i cant be bothered to read rn

Holy based do this

yeah. you have legal protection.
and also if they do mess with your gainful employment and access to commerce in anyway they are cooked even worse legally.
a judge will fuck them up.

bump

Op anon, really dont want to be in the house with them today. Anyone know any good ways to kill time in a suburb with nothing to do
I unfortunately care about them to much to want to do that because im a weak bitch
I dont plan on stopping. If i could have repped i would have but my dysphorias to high. They feel like my mental health has only gotten worse since starting which is true but theyre blaming the pill for it instead of like the ten other things going on in my life rn. Again i was pr unstable before this.

living with parents

on hormones

talking about "running away"

This is an underage person

but i dont want to hurt my parents more

I assume you understand that this attitude is not going to serve you well

I unfortunately care about them to much to want to do that because im a weak bitch

all those centuries of legal precedent and human rights forcefully seized from tyrannical rulers brought down to a crashing halt because anon le felt bad for her abusers and didn't wanna get them in trouble. you are a human being and you are being manipulated

Probably but it hurts to acknowledge that.