worst champions league final in awhile don't know why i watch this shite, tbph
/gaygen/ - Champions League Final edition
post hole
it's probably at least partially my fault, i'm just super touchy about sex stuff. i'm trying not to just entirely give up, but i really find gay dating tiresome, like women are so approachable, i'm just not into them.
it's 100% your fault. get therapy
Feet
therapy doesn't work, plus i'm medded to the extreme, like i take so fucking many lol.
penis
Alright thats about enough. You've had enough attention in the last thread. Give it a breather and let people have a break already.
then you're fucked. good luck with women
listening to shit vgm wishing i wasnt an ugly retard
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Hiii everyone <3
I hope you're having a wonderful day
what are some fun songs you like to chill out to in the summertime? i'll consider them for my playlist
John Footpenis
my buddy wants me to smoke weed with him anyways (i fucking hate smoking weed), so i might go do that.
Here's some from Dirt 5 that I like!
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youtu.be
youtu.be
i know that reference
It combines my three favourite things: prostitution, feet and cock.
bottom
Nooo >.<
Got my meat sucked and nut swallowed. Night successful
you are a prostitute or you use prostitutes?
What do you meeean
sub bottom
do you like jazz anon?
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congrats
i thought you had a bf
Whyyy
hairy bottom with hairy pits and crack
I like jazz! :D
pillow princess
______ away the gay
i need one so bad
you're not fooling anyone
I think this is more your thing
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when i broke up with my bf he went through as many insecurities he thought i had to tear into me
how he told everyone i was a loser, how im ugly, etc etc etc
i got back together with him :3
bottom
we don't support troons or indians here
Who sucked you? Did they have good head game?
apparently no one cares about me but my cat and i'm a failure to her
also he just wants to be happy, and doesn't care if i am
We’re already half way done with 2025
i am a hairy straight passing bottom
is there any demand for me in the gay community?
Post halfway through 2025 feet
Yes, also a vacant space in my arms and legs
Who do you think sucked it?
BF. His head game has improved since we’ve met. He's definitely learned how to maneuver my meat in his mouth. But I still prefer the ass and hole game
marinas top pick
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with boys
so, he doesn't suck you off everyday?
straight passing
no, fuck off
How big is your dick? And is it thick? Maybe he had to get used to your size
I'm straight passing I think haha
straight woman passing
i go into relationships with people who don't care and get frustrated that they don't care
and then when i think of it im like well how is this helpful bringing up the past? what about my mistakes? and is it really a helpful attitude to gaslight yourself all the time and pretend your emotions aren't real
i like the ho-down music, not the singing or lyrics
I like the vibe of k0k0
i love jazz but it seems like there is no white males really doing jazz anymore lol
tons of great black artists though
chet baker was truly one of a kind, haven't heard anything like him besides a few imitators
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the lyrics are the important part
rare chet image from 1955
happy pride month!!!!!!!
why aren't we using the other gaygen that was already up
pride month
pridemonth
priDEMONth
What's wrong with being straight-passing as a gay man?
If they could choose, most gays would want to come across as straight
nothing, straight acting gay guys are pure sex especially if they are dominant sadistic tops
girl, are you implying something?
Just came to a shitfucking bate trainer
It's so hot to watch, shit makes already hairy guys look even dirtier
yeah, that it's unnecessary to make another new thread when one already exists
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I wish Morrissey would do a jazz album, he has the vocals for it
this.
not today
Nah we don’t live together yet. Looking into that for the second half of the year. But I do get bussy multiple times a day on the weekends.
Average I feel, he just has a small inexperienced mouth.
rugby gays are fake. any gay man involved in a sports team is doing it for one reason only
just seems a bit odd to make it seem like it's a success that your bf sucked you off...when that's his job
Took my date rifle shooting and he was cute and a terrible shot. He's a city boy and so far I think he's been surprised by my hobbies.
manifesting total nawrocki victory today
is 7x57 is a bottom round
i've never shot a gun in my life but some in my family are hunters who i secretly hope die by the claws of an animal :)
Every hole is a goal anon
you'll be surprised by this coincidence, the rugby poster is in fact a fake gay
you theory holds some truth to it
i get hard too easily to play those sports
i don't understand how ppl do wrestling without cumming
How big is your dick?
need a racist nazi hubby who will share his unusual hobbies and interests with me
thumb sized
i assume they beat off before or they're straight
I'm in the UK and grew up on a farm so we only really use .22 bolt action or long target pistol. Sometimes a 12 gauge shotgun for clay pigeons.
how many sheep have you shagged
comfy, .22 is nice but in the us ppl who went to a mental hospital can't use modern guns, only antiques, so i have to stick with old stuff
honestly surprised you can even own a gun of any description in the uk these days
you don't really think about it during the moment if that makes sense
just kind of focus on the match
None I'm not Welsh or Muslim.
We have them at clubs mostly, you join as a member to use their guns, but you have to buy the ammo and have them keep it there. I don't own a farm so I probably wouldn't pass for a firearm application myself, but I went to agricultural school as a child and it was expected of us to learn practical shooting for pests and target shooting if we ever hosted rich people and stuff.
oh neat
that's not how my penis is wired
A_t = ceil(P × (1 + r)^t, 10)
A_(i+1) = ceil(A_i × (1 + r), 10)
GODDAMMIT WHY MUST I SUCK SO HARD AT MATH
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need me a sammy body pillow
in the uk
not muslim
yeah right
gays are simply too dainty to be involved in any serious altercations
ah a horse cock connoisseur
no wonder the uk is pedo central
What does gaygen think of our openly gay rugby player?
he's hot
He's 6'5" and could handle two men at once.
desu a bit too bulky, but pretty hot
thats nederlands and russia darling
what does his penis look like?
skipping ankle day
in the trash
also israel
hot
Seeing a giant gay man a head taller than his straight companions gives you a window into Ancient warfare and how those Greeks and Romans in their skirts must've been in constant fear of being taken as a man-wife.
Sammy was 21 in that photo, that was before Photoshop, face filters, and gay boys wore makeup...he was natural perfection
dude that looks like a child, stop being a nonce
legit bro, that's gross
tell me again why perfection for you looks like a child anon
lol sammy was such a sweetie. I liked the last scene of him in Sammy Case Superstar.
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Unfortunately the obese boomer director comes in at the end to ruin it, god knows why he had to do it on camera.
Can't talk about rugby without the big ginger Aussie.
i'd like to po his cock
I want to bite his thighs.
dudes a bald politician now
right or left?
how do i get a 6'5" bf?
Time marches on. He still has a handsome face though.
would call daddy/10
What is it with aussies and speedos?
Not complaining but must be the only Anglos that still go for them
i think hes a left leaning independent, not entirely sure of what hes been pushing for his political life
A lot of Aussie rugby players are sponsored by a speedo brand called budgey smugglers that also raise awareness for testicular cancer.
you're both really dumb
i'd like to give him something left leaning
why did she start spamming rugby players?
NOOOO STOP SPAMMING MEN POST CHILDREN INSTEAD *mass reports*
I'm posting rugby players and my first post was actually.
i'm pretty sure most of them like women
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You can literally say this about any man.
I found a pic of him around 40 years old
still looks good for his age imo, a bit more nerdy
He looks good? He looks like a stressed out mother of 3 who’s tired of her job
good genes, still youthful but looks bit haggard, hope he settled own and had a family
is there any practical advantage of having a beard? like will it protect my face from cancer rays or something?
I have this fantasy of stalking a gaydead pornstar and having sex with him to make him feel a handsome again. Maybe my younger energy can regenerate them.
he looks younger than half the posters on here who are still in their 20's sis
it can be hot on the right lad depends on your face structure
thought about growing one but would screw up my jawline and that's one of the few positive qualities i have going on
that's about the only pro i think
He looks like a sweetie still. I wouldn't judge for his age no matter how. He put the work in, hes a veteran. I see people as they were at their peak. To me, thats who they really are. Whether they appear closer or more distant to that later is a different matter. What matters to me is who they were when they could've been their best.
delta could look like this if he just locked in
it makes you more attractive, that's about it
Yeah he looks young. But looking young doesn’t necessarily mean you look good pedo
I'm 6'4" and willing to grow, but I'm not gonna be anyone's bf.
It discourages target selection from negroes. They associate boyish looks with weakness, thus prey.
i think thats just bisexuals regardless of race, anon
but I'm not gonna be anyone's bf.
then fuck off
looking young and not fat when your 30+ means you look good in my book you hambeast
Delta LOOKS like this, but his tummy is bit softer, newfag
What do we think of the GTA 6 protag?
a bit softer
lmfao
hope i can whore him around to male hookers
i am sure lucia wouldn't mind if her man is sleeping with other men
looks like a magat
He looks like a piggy bottom who hosts.
am 6'1
expect everyone smaller than me to bottom
will bottom if the other guy is bigger
tell me why this is wrong and not as nature intended anons?
more games should model their protags after bodybuilders
what kyler moss looks like now, more masc
ugly, guys like this just look too fucking basic, like they have no personality
idk who that is, but im glad for them for not trooning out
I thought he jumped on the trans train
I can't place what it is, but Johnny Cage from Mortal Kombat always has the vibe that he'd only hook up with black guys.
I saw him fucking some fat white man once so no
he just got fatter and hairy
On the flipside if he had a septum ring, full sleeve tats and blue hair he'd have the exact same personality as everyone else who has those. Nobody are as interchangeable as 'alternative' people.
He looks really good now
would you throw away your bottom after he hits gaydeath?
that was the brunette here, cant remember his name. very sad
Gavin from D:BH has that vibe. A snowbunny cop.
I can sort of see the appeal of Heder. Jason still reads like a cuck.
Because, you know, only blacks are allowed to show unrestrained manhood or something.
where did i imply alternative cringelords have personality or that they're interesting? they're simpletons just like that guy but go to extreme measures to appear different despite the fact that no real personality exists in them
Maybe I was thinking of Kaden Moss or something.
You didn't but I thought you were just a hater and that proves it. Cheer up.
yeah he looks like he lusts over BBCs in public
my guess is roxy red
Thank you for showing one webm that encompasses the competence and intuition for writing for every gay romance and dialog ever written by gays for gays.
I have boner
hurr me too
lets sex
This is literally how gays think males work, once again proving my case that gay brain is just a sexual expression of autism. Or more accurately, something worse and more severe.
You're tearing me apart, Lisa!
What kind of guys would Gladiolus bang? To me, he looks like a circuit party bottom.
i caught my mom looking at gay porn :/
Based fujoshi
if you want an elaborate plot go watch debt dandy or czech hunter...
built for promptos bussy
he goes for shy vanilla bottoms, preferably virgin (like me :3)
Go to any board on Anon Babble and find discussion of any topic devolve into sharing pics of women they lust after. Are you caping for straight men?
But I look like a man!
Anyone who thinks this is a bottom is fully deserving of hate-crime as Darwinian selection to rid menthol from the gene pool.
Gladiolus
A Top
(Fat Ugly Bastard Impersonation) BwahHAhaHaAa~!
you look like a fake
Why is he NOT a bottom. Explain.
No but fr tho
I have boner
do you?
lets sex
this
my current favorite porn star is Nick Floyd, wish I was that flexible
They lust for whores because they are incompetent with females and incompetent as males.
The difference is they aren't females themselves so the lack of intuition and empathy with females is explicable.
Only a brain rotted male could both be male and have no grasp of male-male encounters with a normal male.
Thats why its called 'gay'. The implication for being brain dead as a male is in the connotation for being lame, corny and retarded.
He's built for Fat Guys (Sado-Tops)
Biggest let down in the world for me was Dakota Lovell. Normal guy looking twink with a great big cock but he fucks like a wet rag and just lays there no matter his role :(((((((
you really cant take the gay porn out of being gay or else it will just be tranny talk
They lust for whores
Already wrong in the first 4 words. 90% of the posts are about chaste, soft, innocent or otherwise non-slutty women. Not worth reading the rest of that pseud nonsense.
that's who giton reminds me of in the face and mannerisms...
His style is coded to attract females. Granted, its neurotically over-elaborate, but still. Although to be fair to your point, he could be verse. Its just as neurotic. If so, he would be seeking his clone, so you have that.
love him. shrimple as
Is there something unbelievable about me?
never expected much of him, always looked like a bottom to me
Deep fried bum log
To his credit Dakota gave me a fetish for adult onsies but other than the first third of the "bro I had a bad dream" vid where's he's getting blown, none of his onsie content actually does it for me. Sent me down a xitter rabbit hole tho.
fell for the hype again
Part of your gay brain deficiency in social intuition is taking men at their word. They are describing how they want the women to validate their image, not the women they can actually score.
Which brings us back to whores.
Bottom for ronsos
Switch for Au Ras and Cor Leonis
looks like an incel who won the dick lottery. probably straight but too retarded to get women so ends up being fucked by men who are bored
do you think Leon is a top or bottom?
in 73 days of waiting you have not produced a timestamp. not shoe on head, nothing.
that's a bottom haircut
Not reading your replies because you were so wrong everything after will just be pointless.
Straight men throwing their supposed "friends" under the bus to try and impress a woman will never not be funny
But even when he bottoms he's like a limp fish. I don't need the head swinging/drooling/fake moans crap but he doesn't seem like he's enjoying himself at all. His IRL bf is some old porno director moneybags guy so I guess he's living his best life. I just wanna see cute guys enjoying themselves and their partner
Why do you want it?
*not shoe in hole
Vers on a site like Face Down Ass Up or Slamfuck.
looks like a bottom to me
Is Ryu Top or Bottom?
He is a cuck, so technically a straight but deliberately clinging to youth, which is an approval seeking behavior expressed as vanity. Common in straights, but only the mentally weak ones.
We seem to keep dancing around what dick sucking and cucking actually means. It means you are defering yourself to humiliation for another male. Its submissive behavior to corroborate a helpless self image. If you are driving in the cuck lane, gay is the next exit.
You sound like you argue about phenotypes on Anon Babble
because your hesitance to provide it is very suspect
pig bottom
Cyclops.
Admittedly jams my gaydar.
Im so tired of hyperautistic “queer” straight women coming into every single gay space and acting like they were always there and nothings wrong. I’m so fucking tired of it. Why are we just supposed to be ok with this shit?
pizza guy is weirdly nice and welcoming
ask him how old do they think i am
they say 21
mfw im 32
Just believe meee
Chappell Roan found wigless in an alleyway...
Where tf were you last night when I was talking about this shit and forced to deal with some >um that's transphobic sweaty liberal by myself. Convo has moved on. Be faster next time
Just act extra gay as in aggressively horny, it frightens them off when they realise more gays are into anonymous drug orgies and than uwu ~queer~ stuff.
Possibilities:
1. You look young
2. They like tips and know the question implies a desired answer
3. Both
4. Neither and he left his contact lenses at home
5. He saw a loaded gun by your doorway and wanted to leave alive
what happened
Bottoms for Mr. X and Jack Krauser and Martin
Tops Chris (most of the times), Carlos and HUNK
Switch for Sera and Muller
>ask him how old do they think i am
Why would you ask him that??
there is nothing stopping you from posting a pic with a key or pen by your eye. you will not. conclusion- you are fake
you've never met a bottom?
Have you?
don't know why people continue to humor these larping attention whores, if you trip and post pics of yourself for (you)s you should prove its you simple as
tons. they do dumb shit like that all the time
Uh huh...
1. im a top
2. we were talking and the topic about working andor studying came up
3. i tipped him half my pizza's value
4. they were super masc but they were 100% into me, my gaydar is perfect
5. i really want a boyfriend, i just dont know how many would date a 30yo++ that looks 18
Bottoms deserve more respect.
1. im a top
mmhmm
they were super masc
pffft
Chris Redfield - Bottom, Pig Bottom or Pillow Prince Bottom?
ai slop shit
I assume respect is very important for a relationship!
You're on a board where men poorly ape women, AI art is fine.
You're an old piggy bottom bitch oink oink and you wanted his younger BPC.
men poorly ape women
ai slop + a retard. what a combo!
I am always flattered when whores, male or female, flirt with me, but feel bad because I am just not actually into sex anymore, and they take it as personal rejection. I dont even know why. It would just feel ridiculous. Attention when you are old just feels like being fetishized and suggests a flag; the flag undermines interest, and thats the loop.
If others are interested= unstable, uncalibrated psyche= avoidance.
Or as Groucho Marx famously said, "I would never join a club that would have someone like me as a member."
There is just this constant social pressure to pretend you are younger than you are and celebrate sex at every age and it just feels unnatural. Goddammit I know I am old. I have to live with the memory too. Idw be some lemon party clown.
Leave me alone to me gold.
me gold, me gold
nobody gets me gold
Why are you in gaygen?
BPC
Big pizza cock?
for quality shitposts with my bros and sisses
no, bipolar cock
But we don't pretend Hunter Schafer doesn't look like Reviewbrah in here. You might not fit the culture.
Hunter Schafer doesn't look like Reviewbrah
omg...
I have a really good idea. I will go to my local pride event with the intention of approaching people and talking to them so maybe I'm not a lonely loser there, but I'll pussy out before and go home wanting to do nothing but cry again.
I wonder what life would be like if I wasn't born fucked in the head and diagnosed with autism, maybe I'd actually be happy and know how to do social interactions that way I don't have to wait for others to approach me, which never ever happens unless they want money or a cigarette
Local magazine ran a story about a guy who turned his first floor into a cramped book store and has been living that life for 15years as his only employment. I'm going to kill myself I want that life so fucking bad. 1st floor bookstore full of shit i bought at goodwills and a single espresso machine with no additives or mix-ins for 2.50 a pop. My only solace is he's a boomer and will hopefully kick it within the decade leaving a gap in the market
Go and talk to the volunteer staff instead. Easier since we're supposed to be there as resources anyway. Plus the only reason I volunteer is to not be a sad lonely loser but nobody engages with me anyway so it hasn't worked out yet
u volunteer to do what
Hii
Happy Sunday
what the fuck is a pig bottom?
That's actually what I'm going as this year after last year's failure. So hopefully that works out even though I genuinely don't have a clue what I'm doing there because the whole volunteer side of things seems to be a bit of a mess. Hopefully you can have some engagement, and if not maybe you could ask the coordinator if you could be reassigned to an area that would encourage that more. Best of luck this year though!
so yeah, elon musk is retarded
A very slutty guy, the type to post up in a motel room with the door unlocked and let anonymous guys take turns.
Define a problematic scenario please.
The way you describe the problem will render insight into the challenge you perceive.
This will ultimately suggest that the problem is your perception of the scenario.
You are describing initiating an encounter as a problem. Since we know this is possible, a solution can only be deduced by examining how you are viewing the scenario.
Presently, the obstacle would appear that you are emotionally avoidant, thus self sabotaging, thus fulfilling the expectation.
So the cause of the avoidance is worth knowing to solve the problem. It has to be known to decide if it is true or false, and if true, then why.
If the cause is true, that you feel emotionally overwhelmed or intimidated by interaction, then that becomes the cause to be resolved.
While it is unlikely this one exchange will produce evidence that convinces you, it may give you insight, so that you can further decide if your doubts are rationally based.
For example, if you feel embarrassed by potential, even likely rejection, you must decide which outcome is worse:
Forever avoiding embarrassment but producing no hook ups
or
Feeling embarassed as often as it takes for the feeling to become dulled, thus easy to ignore, and continue soliciting encounters until you find a success, learning from mistakes along the way.
The first option is guaranteed, because it is static, it never moves. It produces no moment of embarrassment ever, and you remain safe for eternity. Except you have no chance at a hook up.
The second produces moments of anxiety repeatedly, however they must fade from repetition, eventually fade completely, recalibrating your approach, from which you will learn and adapt, and become numb towards. This will emerge as the minimum amount of confidence needed to make numerous attempts without emotional pain or anxiety, thus producing the escalating probability to solicit a successful encounter.
This is only logic and probability. So you will have to make those decisions.
sounds like a nice guy, very generous
is he using chat gpt for posts?
obviously
Depends if I'm there for work or for the event org. If it's work I'm chilling at some table handing out rainbow colored garbage to kids. if I'm with the event org I'm walking around, picking up trash, answering questions which mostly means pointing people towards the bathrooms. Stuff like that
The quiet shifts are nice too. I get a chair under an awning when I'm working the table so I just fucking lamp and enjoy the musical performances like a private concert. Some are p good. I was next to the stage when Thelma Houston went on a few years ago. Had to travel a ways for that but my mileage gets reimbursed and I was vibing so nbd
I guess the scenario is I see people there but they're all in groups and that's intimidating so I wait until they find someone that's also alone but then can't get myself to talk to them even just to give them a genuine compliment. It's like my legs won't let me go to them probably in fear of being rejected even if that technically makes me end up in the same situation I was before I even knew they existed. Unfortunately I can't logic my way out of this due to my own social limitations.
Another problem with it is I've seen too many people online talk about how they hate people coming up and talking to them and so because of that vocal minority I feel like everyone I do that to will hate me for even dare to waste their precious time, it also doesn't help that so many people now just have headphones or earbuds in whole in public but those people clearly don't want to socialize otherwise they probably wouldn't have those
Just assume the deer you separated from the pack is like me. PLEASE come talk to me I'm so bored all the time and most of the interactions I have at these things are so superficial and shortlived. Straight up "do you come to these things often" would be enough for me to talk your ear off for hours, but I need to be activated so I'm not dumping on people. TALK TO MEEEEEEEEEE
Could be grok3 or Qwen, he's a turd worlder so Deepseek could have been used too
Wakka was hot and the Al Bhed are RATS
i'm going to seek your deep iykwim
im a top
i just assumed everyone here was a bottom nlg
That job one sounds much better than the actual picking up trash bit, but hey it's nice out today and my ghostly skin could use a bit of sun so I don't look like I just came back from the dead. And the music usually is pretty good so hopefully wherever they put me I'll be close enough to hear it and near water too because drinks there are sooo over priced.
I guess that's actually a pretty good strategy, out of the many people there it would be dumb to think I'm the only lonely or bored one so I'll have to find someone else like you or me and then try and have a conversation to activate their yapper mode
A question.
Do you anons prefer boxers or briefs on other guys?
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always boxers
loose plaid fabric boxers
Doing the trash is kinda nice cuz I'm one of the only volunteers who can actually physically do it. I worked a 5k last month and all the old ladies spent the whole time talking about how strong I was cuz I can lift the trashbags full of prime and shit out easy and carry them to the dumpster without needing a golfcart. I'm aware how pathetic that sounds but it's what I needed in the moment
Princess bottom for Tidus
Bottom for Kimahri
Pig bottom for Chappu
boxer briefs for personal use
ngl some lads look good in briefs even if not in vogue anymore
They're letting girls join the boyscouts now??? Don't like them cutting in on my victim pool.
don't they have girl scouts?
can move here when thread hits bump limit
Ikr. Literally can't have any male spaces without the gash goblins creeping in
I can't logic my way out of this
I have miscommunicated the application of logic here. The application of logic is to deduce factors for a solution, or at least higher resolution examination. I do not mean to imply there is no emotional dynamic. Ideally, rational examination allows us to discern different aspects and relationships. In this way, we can trace emotional causes, perhaps to isolate problems by definition, thus making them easier to manage, or, put another way, "chunking" the information so they are not a morass of nebulous, and therefore naturally, intimidating specters in your thoughts.
That is, your emotions are valid. We seek to manage them, not negate them.
it also doesn't help that so many people now just have headphones or earbuds in whole in public
For practical initial purposes, lets discount that group as described. Its additional, presently unhelpful complexity.
Another problem with it is I've seen too many people online talk about how they hate people coming up and talking to them
This assumes they are to be taken at their word. Its also a variant of humble-bragging. It also expresses their own poor social intuition. As a thought experiment, imagine their ideal gigachad approached them in mid conversation. Immediately, we can assume they would not be so bothered.
Lets also assume a scenario they are being earnest. In which case, what does it matter? So they are bothered. We can adapt a strategy to minimize hostility. We could, for example, keep the salutation short and to the point. "You guys look great. My name is "_". I am looking to meet people. I would like to invite you to "_" and have a "_" later if anyone is interested. If not, no biggie. Have a great day."
Rejection is likely, but not certain. So your odds have already increased from zero. During the exchange, you can scan faces to see which seems the most reciprocal, and return or initiate a focused smile...
... Be ready to engage in banter; act as the person you wish to be seen as. Do not allow a scornful look to interrupt you patter; scorn is meant to do that, so you must be ready to counter it with overwhelming resolve, confidence.
even just to give them a genuine compliment.
Your intuition is showing. You already know that people like compliments. You can blow past all the above and simply deliver the compliment and leave. This gives skittish and guarded types time to digest the encounter and ponder possible outcomes or future reactions. The next time you approach, they will already know you are friendly and will have had time to craft a reaction.
Your only obstacle thus far is consideration for others feelings and reactions to the point that you have braced yourself only for negative reactions, and have concluded that their likelihood is so great that it isnt worth pushing limits. This is effective for avoiding negative reactions, but produces the certainty of failed outcomes.
This can be mitigated by simply acknowledging that it is possible, even probable, and de-prioritizing their likelihood as the primary concern. There is no other way to side-step this issue. Put simply, you have to abandon at least some of the fucks you have to give about uptight, arrogant, socially malformed people being not only likely but certain after any number of attempts from one to infinity.
Without shelving this concern, there is no possibility to advance. You have every right to feel frustrated with the equation presented because it is unreasonable to be so deferential to the peace of mind of social midwits that you are prohibited from engaging.
Perhaps this was not as helpful as I hope, but I do hope it at least gives you that higher resolution of understanding to ponder and move forward...
I wish you the best of luck but, I promise, if you make at least several attempts with this additional perspective, you may very well not get lucky, but you will absolutely have overcome some of the anxiety, and be on your way forward to getting these anxieties to fade from repetition until you are unbothered by rejection or crass personality responses.
Everyone has to start somewhere, and there are nearly infinite more strategies you can craft and reason through. It is certainly a game, and you have as much right to play it as anyone.
Its all about practice, learning and adaptation. But you absolutely do not have to be imprisoned for life by the regard for others putative peace of mind. It is irrelevant to your goal. Continuing to prioritize their "peace" over your own wishes is simply unfair, and you deserve better, and must seek to have it.
Again, good luck. Sorry so long; its my nature. Best wishes.
jeez what day isit
Catillsday
y cat ill?
came back from voting uwu
i hope you voted for the lefties
That is honestly impressive because some of those trash bags can get heavy depending on what people decide to throw out sometimes it feels like they're throwing boulders away. But missing out on driving the golf cart is a shame those look like fun at least you got some nice compliments though those are always amazing!
Thank you anon i thimk it was helpful personally, maybe not all of it but that's natural as no solution is a one size fits all type of deal. I do think working on breaking down the mental barriers I have and realizing that nothing is really lost or gained if something doesn't take off, as I'll be right back at square one again. But by sitting on my hands doing nothing besides waiting for someone to approach me I have basically a 0% chance of making connections so even if there's a 90% chance of failure that's still 10% more of a chance than my original zero. I don't think this is something I will fix today though but maybe I can work on it more I just don't really have many places to do that. Thanks again by the way!
it's important to vote for ppl who believe in human rights including gay and trans rights so that everyone can be nice to each other and be friends
Thank you
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