i think most people will answer the latter so ill give an even better one
who is more of a real lesbian:
A) a lesbian whos been married to her wife for 5 years, and yet they dont fuck at all. they only have sex like once or twice every month. and when they do, she doesnt really eat pussy or scissor with her wife or whatever as she doesnt really enjoy it, they mostly just used toys(not penetrative toys though). they have a very unromantic life and to most people they literally look like friends, because they act that way. zero displays of romance even when completely alone. her wife is also the second woman she has ever dated after a failed relationship with a bpdemon. she also used to date a guy during her comphet phase when she was 19 and he was 38 and it was a pretty traumatic relationship, but she pretends it never happened and fakes being a gold star. she considers sex with trannies akin to sex with men like most people and would never in a million years fuck one
B) a lesbian who is a total party slut. she fucks multiple women multiple times a week. she has never had a comphet phase in her life, she always knew she was a lesbian. she has never dated let alone fuck a cis man. she has seen more pussy than a seasoned gynecologyst. she microdoses T to look butchier but also so she can manhandle women and fuck them harder with a strap. she loves sex with women and eating pussy. that being said however, shes also fucked trannies. she isnt a chaser in any way of course she doesnt focus on trannies when dating at all, but every 2 or 3 months she will find a cute tranny she vibes with and fuck her. she primarly straps her but has also done oral and even piv. she considers al that to be lesbian sex and still considers herself a gold star despite it all
these people are literal opposites and if they met, they would accuse eachother of being a fake lesbian so which ones realer?
[i based both lesbians on real people ive met, my aunt and an old friend]