Getting a boyfriend is tremendously easy. I simply do not believe any of you are actually trying to get a bf...

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Getting a boyfriend is tremendously easy. I simply do not believe any of you are actually trying to get a bf...

Getting a boyfriend is tremendously easy. I simply do not believe any of you are actually trying to get a bf, you just want one to magically appear out of the sky and be delivered directly to you.
Life does not work that way. If you want something, you have to go get it.
Now, how do you get a bf? It's a very simple process.

step 1: find a guy you like. this is where most trannies get stuck, they are either way too picky or they don't actually start looking. they just inhabit their tranny games and tranny discord servers and tranny social media because it's safer there

step 2: be nice to him

That's it. That's the entire process. Just be nice to a guy and he will fall in love with you. We have a male loneliness epidemic going on. If you cannot get a bf right now it is YOUR fault for not trying. It's piss-easy to get a guy to fall for you. Just don't be an evil, bitter piece of shit. Call him handsome. Say nice things to him. That is it.

t. cis male who has fallen in love with a tranny because she was nice to me

I fully expect this thread to die immediately because you trannies enjoy your suffering. You don't actually want a bf, you just want to complain about wanting a bf. At least there is certainty in suffering, right? Success is scary. But I can say I tried, and that's enough for me.

yes, i cant get a boyfriend because of my own "hangups" which arent actually hangups i just respect others enough to not subject them to the worthless piece of shit i am

Most guys I know are madly in love with their girlfriends and all the women did was

1. be well groomed and not obese

2. be affectionate towards the guy, shower him with compliments

3. put out

It's that easy. They are not Stacys. They are not rich. They are not supermodels. They have nothing in common with their bfs. Some of them aren't even good people. But it just works.

Okay so don't pretend that you want a relationship when you don't. Stop inventing reasons to be sad. Stop intentionally being a worthless piece of shit.
Yes. All my gf has to do is be nice to me and let me see her butt. I'm a "high-value" male too. Tall, white, employed in an actual career job and not flipping patties or on NEETbux.

Unfortunately your forgetting that even though i interact with cis men regularly who i would date most of them either already have partners or see me as a man. a cis het guy has to be really based to want to date a tranny and if they are that good they usually get taken off the market very quick. Because theyre one of the few men not fully buying into the cis het male stereotype toxicity pit.

Congratulations, you are one of the many trannies stuck on step 1 entirely of your own volition.

i do want a relationship, but its more daydreaming about a different life over wanting one in my current life
but yeah i agree, people like me need to just shut up and dont bother people with their bullshit. ive gotten better at doing so recently, i rarely ever talk to people anymore

Is this the case with bi/gay cis guys too?

Hatred of any kind clouds your judgement and spoils your ability to love and connect with others. Even hatred toward yourself will invariably end up spilling out into hatred of others. Stop being an asshole to yourself and watch how quickly your life gets to a better place. You are just inventing things in your head to get upset about because you think being miserable is better than being happy.

no. you know nothing
i dont need your help, i was just explaining why some of them might be doing it

Fuck off and decompose then. Your entire existence is a blight on those around you.
Yes. Find a (gay) man and be nice to him. Simple as.

step 3: don't be ugly

If you would please consult this image, thank you.

thats what im saying retard

Stop replying to my thread then. Rot. Become dirt. Let worms eat your eyeballs. Your corpse is the only good thing you will ever become.

you have the mental age of a child, the real world is not a storybook

Sucks to suck. My gf loves me and you're lonely because you are a bitter and spiteful person.

People can tell you're mean, so they don't want to date you

I would get assaulted expressing my attraction to 80% of cis men and the other 20% have partners already. Im a fucking clocky tranny freak im at best a fetish for cis men and at worst a guy in a dress.

I would get assaulted expressing my attraction to 80% of cis men

I would love for you to tell me how you arrived at that conclusion. I also said nothing about "expressing attraction" I just said be nice to them. You don't have to beg them for sex like I've had a tranny do to me before. Just be nice. Literally just be nice.

You sound unconfident. This is unattractive to men. Do you have any hobbies where you interact with men? It's up to you to put yourself out there and become the kind of person that someone would want to date!

yeah i know sorry. i shouldnt have replied at all, ill do better

how did you come to that conclusion

I understand that most cis straight men see a clocky troon and think im either a fetishist or an effeminate gay guy. Also the statistics on trannies getting raped/murdered is deeply scary

you dont have to beg for sex

By "expressing attraction" i ment saying i have feelings for them, not begging them for sex.
Idk im deeply insecure but mask it well enough i feel. I regularly just walk up to people and strike up conversations if i think theyre cool. I honestly think the main issue is im just genuinely scared of most cis men.

Thanks kitten.
I don't know how you're conflating "be nice to people" into all this talk about rape and murder, maybe that could partially explain why people find you unnerving to be around.

I can still be nice to someone while still internally having feelings of mistrust about them. I dont think my mistrust is neccessarily invalid either considering the political climate

why do you call me that?

Because you're cute.
I think if someone tells you to be nice to people and they will like you and your first thought is "yeah but rape and murder", that says more about you than it does greater society.

This IS true and how I got my BF. A lot of men have not experienced kindness or any sort of affection/ability to feel vulnerable. There's a reason most guys will always remember a compliment they've been given, if you're just like actually nice and not "dude nice" to a guy he'll at the very least be a friend(if he wants to be! Don't push it they don't wanna even interact with you!). But also if you're unattractive you will just have to try harder, sorry every ugly person has to deal with it you're not unique.
Also you can't interact with people in such a way that you want to date them as your objective! If you become friend with someone it's way easier to transition that to a (stable!)relationship.

thats not true at all
ive done nothing except act annoying and retarded

Also be realistic lol the chances of dating a nonchanner as a troon is LOW! If all your looking for is a "cis het" man do understand you're putting arbitrary who cares shit before you see them as an actual person and they are probably shallow enough to do the same on average, or just to protect their social sphere because men are sometimes emotionally fragile and don't like their security of friends/status/place in the world being interrupted because you didn't want to tell him you had a Weiner till you were going to bang(worst time to tell someone this by the way! If you're so scared it's not going to work because you tell him why the HELL would you put yourself in such a comprising and vulnerable position to expose yourself at the point it would most feel like a trick??). Dating a troon is different and hard and you should be as accommodating of that to them as you are to the dumb guy shit they do.

most trannies have absolutely delusional standards and refuse to ever settle

I literally just want someone to see me as a woman and be nice to me

ive done nothing except act annoying and retarded

Which is cute.
See: step 1

I literally just want someone to see me as a woman

You can never fully know that they do. Just believe them when they say they are attracted to you.

Which is cute.

i think youre delusional

i got a bf but it did not work out well ! im trying to date women again but thats going terribly cause im inherently insecure, so i may go back to dating men

I can't do this as a gigahon manmoder though it doesn't work if nobody will ever see me as a woman ever i hate being a giant gigahon

too picky

You are dumb and a slag. never settle for your life partner

Your ugly person thoughts are showing

Yes.
Dating men is easy. Just be nice to one.
Welcome to step 1 nona.
You are ugly.

Dating men is easy. Just be nice to one.

it is hard to be nice when he takes me and my love for granted and puts in no effort

Okay so kick that one to the curb and find another. There's billions of us.

being delusional is not a good thing

lol k

Yeah at step 1 unfortunately i do have one main standard, see me as a woman, which will never be met by others because how could i expect people ti see a gigahon like me as a woman. I don't blame them it's just unfortunate I'm going to be alone forever because of it

Oh I didn't say I was actually delusional, I was just acknowledging that you think I am. I'm aware you are too in love with your misery to ever relinquish it, at least as you are now. I still think you're cute.

You shouldn't be so concerned about the unknowable. I see this problem in trannies time and time again. You're too obsessed with the thoughts of others, you invent scenarios in which everyone else hates you.
As a cis man I can't ever be sure anyone sees me as a man. For all I know my gf sees me as an android from Mars. We can never truly know what other people are thinking because they have a skull protecting their brain from intrusion. You just have to learn to trust people.

No like i can either present as a man or as a hon who will be perceived as a man there's no doubt in my mind. It's also not that hard to tell just what they call me or whatever or like if they're straight or gay or whatever

I think you should ask yourself if the torture chamber you've created for yourself is better or worse than having a boyfriend who loves you.

I cannot have a bf who sees me as a man and i can't make anyone not see me as a man. I can't change this

even if you are genuine the effects that type of behaviour has on a person is too damaging for it to ever function well on anyone. you may find it cute in theory, but in practice it simply doesn't work