How do I, as a straight cisgender kissless dateless virgin male, get a trans girl to go on a date with me?
How do I, as a straight cisgender kissless dateless virgin male, get a trans girl to go on a date with me?
straight
you have to be bisexual or gay to do that
1) act like you honestly believe that they are women
2) pretend that you could not tell they were trans
3) reassure them that you would normally never go for a trans girl but would make an exception for them
4) pretend that you have no interest in their dick whatsoever, in fact it's best if you act out and make a big show about not being interested in it
5) never get their pronouns wrong
this
he has to play the game and cater to their meta attraction
How do I get their attention to begin with?
All women simply see through me, they don't even acknowledge me as a potential partner.
I have gone through nearly 30 years of my life without any woman having ever expressed romantic or sexual interest in me.
transition is probably the first step
most trannies are/were shy beta failed males just like you op, so you gotta ask yourself "how would i want a girl to get MY attention?"
you seek them out
you make the first move
you shower them with attention
you be the shot caller and keep pushing them towards "let's meet up irl :)"
dont dick around and trap yourself in the friendzone, keep being assertive
just ask her, you would be surprised how many dudes will just talk and talk and really all they gotta do is ask. idgi like if shes already talking to you just fucking do it dude
Nope, I am 110% male.
I cannot make the first move. It is physically impossible for me. I would rather literally fucking die than subject myself to potential rejection from a woman. I am deadly serious about that.
No, I can't do it. I need her to make the first move.
I cannot make the first move. It is physically impossible for me. I would rather literally fucking die than subject myself to potential rejection from a woman. I am deadly serious about that.
then... you want
a tranny
a tranny who likes you
a tranny that you like back
a tranny who is willing to make the first move
that's... incredibly rare op
you need to either get extremely luck, get the fuck over it, or accept being a perma virgin
then youre ngmi, no point in a man that has none of the good qualities of a man, just the bad ones. we can already date other trannies if we want a bitch like you, at least they're cute
Ignore OP, he's been here for months keeping his schtick that he's afraid of women and trying to date a transgirl but he's just beyond salvation/larp.
then... you want
>a tranny
>a tranny who likes you
>a tranny that you like back
>a tranny who is willing to make the first move
that's... incredibly rare op
you need to either get extremely luck, get the fuck over it, or accept being a perma virgin
I mean, within reason, I would be open to dating any woman who is proactive in expressing her romantic affection towards me.
I do like trans girls, and I also feel trans women should have a deeper understanding of how I feel, because rates of autism among trans women are higher than among cis women (and I myself am autistic).
It's extremely unfair and cruel to say I should be alone for life just because I'm socially anxious. How is that fair?
I as Bi Khhv cannot tell you sadly
i'm not saying you should be, but lifes unfair like that, i really don't see your odds getting any better unless you learn to talk to people
trannies love to go on endlessly about how horrible their life is
so just let them traumadump for you
what do u have to offer her in the first place?
I can talk to people just fine.
When I was at university, I met literally hundreds of people. I went to parties pretty much weekly. I was always attending events, playing sports, participating in public debates, acting in productions, doing everything I could to put myself out there.
But absolutely none of that made women interested in me. They would just look straight through me like I was invisible. Meanwhile, I had male friends who were fat, unkempt, smelt genuinely like shit 24/7, and dressed badly, and yet they could get dates and girlfriends with ease. Whenever I asked them for advice, they would just tell me "I dunno bro. I just meet girls and things just happen." Well, nothing ever "just happened" for me.
It just seems sick and cruel. I do everything right and yet women just won't pay a single iota of attention to me. They look at me like I'm disgusting and pathetic, like I'm a literal leper.
that is gayer than sucking a tranny's dick
it sounds like this thread has become less about "how do i get a trans gf" and more about "op has crippling social anxiety and cannot cope" :
then idk why asking someone out is such a huge step from there
yeah p much
1 ask them out like a normal human being
2 love bomb her call her a cute girl over and over and overwhelm her with validation shower her in gifts BLAHAJ IS MANDATORY, tease her and be ever so slightly misogynistic to ensure she knows you truly see her as a woman , take her out to coffee, buy her scarfs and clothes thats poofy so she can feel comfortable hiding the parts of her body she's still she about in public. Text her every night and listen to all her problems and special interest
Do this for 3-6 weeks
Profit
( Professional lesbian chaser advice)
I would rather literally fucking die than subject myself to potential rejection from a woman
Why choose to be so weak?
the stinky ones ask… they don’t think about it this hard desu
professional narc abuser advice
"I am capable of sustaining a healthy social life!"
"... but I CANNOT message a girl first on an online dating app! I cannot! I refuse!"
???
go therapy or get a dog bro lmao
No rizz Mfs , just be urself and it'll come naturally if not it's not ment to be
OR
This isn't hard but honestly just stick around people long enough and if you want it's really easy to play people like a dating sim and pick the right answers to get a date or something more... But then you relationships built on a fake base so no good long term can't keep up that act forever
They would just look straight through me like I was invisible
You are invisible because you are attempting to attract females using female dating strategies (sit back and look pretty)
Whenever I asked them for advice, they would just tell me "I dunno bro. I just meet girls and things just happen."
Because they are actual men they probably didn't even realize that they made the first move but. "Things just happening" means that they told the girl they wanted to hook up and she said yes.
I do everything right and yet women just won't pay a single iota of attention to me
You haven't done a single thing correct. Not even the first step (approaching them)
We giving proven options not morally sound ones or healthy ones
"Things just happening" means that they told the girl they wanted to hook up and she said yes.
Or rather I should say that it means they made a move and she was down for it.
This is facts
First Anon Babble user that doesn't have perma-virgin-niceguy syndrome and understands human connection
It's not social anxiety. It's romantic anxiety, specifically.
then idk why asking someone out is such a huge step from there
Because that opens me up to the most crushing pain possible.
If I ever ask a woman out, and she rejects me, I will be so humiliated and defeated as a man, it will cause me pain that will last for years on end.
I have only ever asked a woman on a date once in my entire life. That was back in 2013, when I was 16 years old. The pain of that rejection still lives with me til this very day. I still feel the cringing, awful, disgusting feeling I felt back then, even now.
I didn't choose to be weak. I was made this way.
But if I ever asked a woman on a date, she would reject me instantly. Why did all those guys get approvals, when I can only ever get rejections? It just isn't fair. What do they have that I don't?
I can't. I tried Tinder several times over the years. I did get matches, and a few of them even talked to me, but I just couldn't progress things any further. They just didn't really seem interested in me, so I couldn't do anything. One girl arranged a date with me, but then cancelled it the day before because she was "busy". She offered to rearrange on another day, but I just said no and blocked her after that. Because I knew she was just playing me about and trying to humiliate me. I won't allow women to emasculate me and treat me like a piece of garbage.
I can't. I tried Tinder several times over the years. I did get matches, and a few of them even talked to me, but I just couldn't progress things any further. They just didn't really seem interested in me, so I couldn't do anything. One girl arranged a date with me, but then cancelled it the day before because she was "busy". She offered to rearrange on another day, but I just said no and blocked her after that. Because I knew she was just playing me about and trying to humiliate me. I won't allow women to emasculate me and treat me like a piece of garbage.
kek ok now this is idk some comedy
She offered to rearrange on another day, but I just said no and blocked her after that. Because I knew she was just playing me about and trying to humiliate me. I won't allow women to emasculate me and treat me like a piece of garbage.
holy mental illness lmao
I didn't choose to be weak
Yes you are actively choosing to be weak every day you wake up and call yourself weak. This is a literal choice you have complete and total control over. You can change it right now, today, this exact moment. But you choose not to because you are comfortable in your weakness, but you are here complaining about it because weakness does not create happiness or fulfillment.
I have only ever asked a woman on a date once in my entire life.
But if I ever asked a woman on a date, she would reject me instantly.
you don't know this because you've only ever asked once. you can't base this on a sample size of one
Don't just ask a girl out on a date , that's not how it works you just have to be a good friend, I don't think you should even be actively looking for a date when dating just like go out and make more friends in general and have more friends of the opposite sex if you're straight. Hang out more and more and eventually those 1 on 1 hangouts slowly become something more
Literal BPD holy shit lmfaoooo. BPDemons need to anhero
You are invisible because you are attempting to attract females using female dating strategies (sit back and look pretty)
What's wrong with female dating strategies though?
If I, as a man, present myself to be as attractive as possible, and place myself in situations where women could approach me, why shouldn't they approach me?
I don't understand why I should be expected to be the romantic instigator simply because I am a man.
"Things just happening" means that they told the girl they wanted to hook up and she said yes.
No, I didn't take it as that.
The way I read it, they were saying that they went to social events (parties, clubs, nights at the bar, etc), and just socialized normally, and women talked to them, and things just magically materialized into romantic encounters without them even trying.
You haven't done a single thing correct. Not even the first step (approaching them)
I did everything correct. I shouldn't need to approach women in order to simply get one single date, or one girlfriend in my entire life.
My dad is dead. But I bet if I could ask him right now, he'd tell me he didn't need to consciously "approach girls" to get a girlfriend. He had girlfriends from when he was a teenager onwards without even trying. My dad probably had like a dozen women through his life. What did he have that I don't? He was my own flesh and blood, so it's not like he had some special ability, magical genes, or some great genetic advantage that I don't.
dient answer, exactly......
that entire last paragraph
... plz dont try dating a tranner...
we are broken and mentally ill enough as it is
it would be painful for you AND for her if you ever found one that was willing to give dating you a try
you got issues anon... :(
If I, as a man, present myself to be as attractive as possible, and place myself in situations where women could approach me, why shouldn't they approach me?
nigga youve spent 30+ gd years of your life and they still havent come running to you yet tho lmao
Its always like this when he posts, the problem is 100% on him and nobody can make him see that.
iirc he also has repping feels?
I can see why you don't want to make the first approach.
For a cis woman, her biggest fear is a low-tier man showing interest in her. And if she's Karen enough, could see it as a rape attempt.
But a tranny, she's very different. So it's not that bad to ask her out. If she's a loser (a lot of them are), she'll be enthralled.
I have only ever asked a woman on a date once in my entire life. That was back in 2013
Why did all those guys get approvals, when I can only ever get rejections? It just isn't fair. What do they have that I don't?
jfc just troon out already
I don't understand why I should be expected to be the romantic instigator simply because I am a man.
have you considered transitioning into a woman then...?
you clearly arent using your dick, so its not like you have anything to lose
If you don’t learn to silence that fear of rejection you have no chance period
One girl arranged a date with me, but then cancelled it the day before because she was "busy". She offered to rearrange on another day, but I just said no and blocked her after that. Because I knew she was just playing me about and trying to humiliate me. I won't allow women to emasculate me and treat me like a piece of garbage.
Theyre laughing at you because they see themselves doing this exactly. Youre in the right and they hate it
How is it mental illness?
I would be mentally ill if I was some insane person who continued to pursue a woman who clearly wasn't interested in me and keep pestering her for dates.
But I didn't. I backed off as soon as it was clear I wasn't wanted.
I didn't choose any of this. If my life could've been different, I would've taken that opportunity in a flash.
I am an intelligent person. I know, from interactions with dozens if not hundreds of women, that not one of them would've been receptive if I made romantic advances towards them. What do you want me to do, ask out a girl who clearly thinks I'm disgusting, and risk being reported to the police for sexual harassment?
Don't just ask a girl out on a date , that's not how it works you just have to be a good friend
I made lots of female friends, not a single one of them ever showed even one sign of romantic interest in me.
How so? I don't think there'd be many problems so long as she expressed clear and obvious romantic interest in me as a person.
Don't just ask a girl out on a date , that's not how it works you just have to be a good friend
not true. You just get friendzoned that way. "oh sorry I thought this was platonic" "I never saw you that way"
How so? I don't think there'd be many problems so long as she expressed clear and obvious romantic interest in me as a person.
bcuz you sound traumatized, angsty, pessimistic, and easily offended
is not a recipe for success
What's wrong with female dating strategies though?
Nothing, if you are a female attempting to attract a male. If you are a male attempting to attract a woman of any birth sex you are completely hosed and going no where.
why shouldn't they approach me?
This is not a question of should or shouldn't. Those are meaningless words that do not impact human behavior in any meaningful way. There is only observations of what people do or don't do.
No, I didn't take it as that.
It doesn't matter how you "took it" you have a severely underdeveloped understanding of human interaction and mating rituals.
socialized normally
In this context means they made a move on the woman in a sexual and/or romantic manner. They were talking and they said something along the lines of "wanna go back to my place" and she said something along the lines of "yass queeeeeen".
I did everything correct
If you did anything correct you wouldn't be a khv, you would be knee deep in gash fighting women off with a stick. "Correct" is not determined by how you wish the world worked but instead by the outcomes your actions create.
What did he have that I don't?
He accepted that social rejection is literally the least impactful thing a woman can do to you and he approached them romantically.
complete bullshit. Dont listen to these hoes
I didn't choose any of this
Every reply has included a mountain of justifications for your failures. This is you actively choosing unhappiness. You are in control of your destiny and you choose to waste it entirely.
the problem is 100% on him and nobody can make him see that.
Nope, I didn't do anything wrong.
It isn't normal for a man to reach the age of 29 years old without even one woman having ever expressed romantic interest in me.
I am not some kind of freak. I am a normal guy. I put myself out there socially. I did everything possible. I dressed well, kept myself in shape and well-groomed. Any other man in my shoes would've had at least one or two girlfriends. I got none, I didn't even get a single date, I never even kissed. That's not normal. And it's not my fault.
You are pathetic and insane.
I'm not traumatized, I'm just bewildered that my life ever turned out like this.
"i am still struggling to come to terms with the girl who rejected me +20 years ago when i was a teenager"
"i am totally not traumatized tho fr fr"
okay nona w/e you say
Yes, it is extremely damaging to be told when you're a teenager
you are worthless, you are unattractive, you are disgusting, the thought of being in a relationship with you makes me sick, go away
How do you expect me to respond to that?
Rejection is extremely fucking brutal and I don't understand why I should be forced to bear it.
I know, from interactions with dozens if not hundreds of women, that not one of them would've been receptive if I made romantic advances towards them
you have incredible brainworms that fill your head with assumptions about women that aren't justified. if you actually found out instead of just assuming, you might find that your initial assumption was incorrect. additionally, based on your replies, i'm really getting the idea that you come off relatively hostile in real life because your misguided assumptions are seeping through. what you need to do is take a chill pill and think critically about all of this. right now, what you're basically saying is "how do i get a girl to like me? please give me an answer that doesn't require me doing anything different than what i'm doing right now." you're never going to get anywhere if this the approach you're taking. you might as well close the thread if you're not going to take any advice
And it's not my fault.
are you sure?
most people have to bear it in some way anon, im sorry but this is how it is. you just have to accept that this is one person with their own upbringing and ideals. maybe they believe in retarded bullshit secretly, why should it matter if they specifically didnt want you at the time?
that aside, as a tranny whos looking for a relationship, you dont seem like a good option because it sounds like youre only looking for us out of pure desperation because we arent cis women
you have incredible brainworms that fill your head with assumptions about women that aren't justified. if you actually found out instead of just assuming, you might find that your initial assumption was incorrect.
I don't have brainworms. I have a reality-focused view on life. I don't allow outside bullshit or dreams to distract me. I see things for how they are. When women interact with me as if I am some kind of eunuch, never flirting with me or ever acknowledging me as a potential partner, I take that at face value.
I can guarantee you with 110% certainty that no woman in my entire life has ever expressed romantic interest in me. I would bet my life on it.
Jesus fucking Christ OP you're a piece of work. You're whining about not getting what you're trying your hardest not to believe can happen, and constantly avoid. It's ridiculous. I mean, if you were aware of that contradiction it'd be more noble, but as it stands you're such a lost soul in a hell of your own making.
OMFG you're a literal babyyyyyyyyyyyy. what the fuck lmao. if that is what is keeping u awake at night 20 years later I really hope no girl ever comes near u. you are a lost cause if u dont get actual therapy.
Jesus fucking Christ OP you're a piece of work. You're whining about not getting what you're trying your hardest not to believe can happen, and constantly avoid.
When did I "avoid" anything?
Genuinely it's not because you're a man that you should approach people, not approaching and at most just dropping hints is a bad strategy for women as well. It just doesn't end up as badly because men typically aren't as inclined to refuse approaching women, even though a growing part of them refuse to. I don't really think there's anything wrong with not approaching women, but even if you were a woman I'd say you should act as if it's reasonable that the end outcome of not approaching people may be that you'll be without a significant other forever.
I don't really think there's anything wrong with not approaching women, but even if you were a woman I'd say you should act as if it's reasonable that the end outcome of not approaching people may be that you'll be without a significant other forever.
But if I do approach women, the likely outcome is that they'll be repulsed by me and will think I'm an insane pervert for ever thinking I was worthy of going on a date with them.
answering
How do you expect me to respond to that?
Every single human being on the face of the planet was romantically rejected as a teenager.
You are expected to respond by saying "aight fuk u bitch" then finding one that doesn't reject you.
Rejection is extremely fucking brutal and I don't understand why I should be forced to bear it.
Rejection is literally nothing. Why do you choose to place your own value in the hands of others?
I don't know. I probably don't offer anything.
But what does any guy offer a girl? What about all the guys I've known throughout the years? What did they offer? Nothing. They just existed, and got dates and girlfriends offered on a silver platter despite not doing anything. And they weren't even physically attractive.
I have a reality-focused view on life
You have the least realistic view of life I've ever seen from an incel and I've been on this website since 2007.
pathetic and insane
buddy that’s you all the way
well there you have it. relationships exist on a emotional level. your brain doesn't seem to understand that a connection between two people can go deeper than just a physical one. just go hire a prostitute atp
Sometimes I read these threads because I’m also lonely but then feel better because I’m not that pathetic
Sorry op
I'm not an incel. I don't identify as an incel. I don't hate women. I don't see incels as my kin.
As far as I'm concerned, I am the one and only man on this earth who truly can't get even a single date or even a kiss from a woman. All other men either get those things with ease, or are gay or weirdo shut-in freaks who intentionally isolate themselves from women. I count Anon Babble freaks and self-proclaimed "incels" in the later cateogry.
What did they offer?
They offered physical, romantic, and emotional connection. Or at least 2/3 depending on how long their relationships last.
anon you are genuinely kind of pathetic and i say this as a trans woman whod like to help a kind of pathetic guy who loves me. you need a fucking therapist or you will be lonely forever and probably kill yourself. trans women cannot fill this hole, and only the most desperate and vulnerable ones will even be willing to try
yeah, some women who aren't on the high end of the scale end up in this situation like op is having as well. the solution is the same for both of them in that they should take initiative.
the likely outcome is that they'll be repulsed by me
even if this was true, does that mean you should just never try? in this situation, your situation does not end up any worse by trying.
Every single human being on the face of the planet was romantically rejected as a teenager.
what's crazy to me is that op managed to get into positions with the opportunity to ask and be rejected. i never got rejected because i never put myself out there to even have the opportunity to ask (apart from being a closeted fag troon), but op seems to have had many chances to ask and not taken them because he thinks all women are conspiring against him or something
I am the one and only man on this earth who truly can't get even a single date or even a kiss from a woman
you are retarded and should get your iq checked to see if they can do anything about your inability to be genuinely introspective
They offered physical, romantic, and emotional connection.
Ok? And how exactly do I not offer that?
>I am the one and only man on this earth who truly can't get even a single date or even a kiss from a woman
you are retarded and should get your iq checked to see if they can do anything about your inability to be genuinely introspective
How? I'm right though. Name one other man on this earth who has as shit luck with women as I do.
Even fucking Chris Chan gets women and he smells like a literal corpse, is as fat as a truck, and is a literal criminal rapist who went to prison. What does someone like that have that I don't?
what's crazy to me is that op managed to get into positions with the opportunity to ask and be rejected.
What positions? Name them.
I was never, ever, not once in my life EVER in a position where I could've feasibly asked a woman on a date.
be nice to her and treat her like a girl. Thats honestly enough for 98% of us. Also being outwardly autistic and decently emotionally stable is a big turn on. At least for me as a bi tgirl
Also being outwardly autistic and decently emotionally stable is a big turn on.
Well I'm outwardly autistic and extremely emotionally unstable. What now, huh?
And how exactly do I not offer that?
You quite literally do not offer those things by refusing to make a move.
But also you already had a rare moment of lucidity :
I don't know. I probably don't offer anything.
You recognize you don't offer any kind of connection.
Is this actually true that trans women like autistic men or cope fuel?
You quite literally do not offer those things by refusing to make a move.
I do though. If a woman actually valued me as a romantic partner, and showed clear and obvious interest in me, then of course I would be affectionate towards her in every way possible.
But how do you expect me to make myself vulnerable to a woman when she could easily just shoot me down and destroy me as a person by rejecting me?
Well I (OP) am autistic and I have never, not once had a trans woman ever be romantically interested in me. So personally I think it's false.
because you sound entitled as fuck desu. if youre so desperate for this and want to try doing the barest of minimums, post your discord. theres no risk of rejection there, and at least you wont be some anon venting to basically nobody. this is not gonna solve your problems anon youre making me sad
I'm not an incel
You are quite literally the most involuntary celibate possible.
I don't hate women
Ancillary concern to the incel, more of a hobby than the core of their being. What actually defines an incel is extreme rejection sensitivity leading to NO BITCHES.
I am the one and only man on this earth who truly can't get even a single date or even a kiss from a woman
Except you could. All you have to do is ask.
I do though
No. You don't. Assuming you haven't made a move on a woman since you were 16, you haven't offered a woman of any kind of connection.
showed clear and obvious interest in me
A delusional expectation to place on a woman. They do not do this. Even if they are burning for you. They do what you do, they bottle it. They hide it. They play games, they test you, because the only time they will make the mistake of showing clear and obvious interest is once their are fully certain that you won't burn them.
This is typically the result of a complete and total lack of testosterone. Persnaps you should get that checked. At least unless you just really want to give in to the pink-pill.
No. I don’t want to dox myself, I don’t want to humiliate myself, and I don’t want girls here to destroy me as a man by rejecting me.
True, I am involuntarily celibate. I am the only man in this world who is truly involuntarily celibate. But I am not an “incel”.
And no. It isn’t as simple as asking. If I asked any woman on a date, she would complete demolish me. She would either laugh at me, or insult me, or she would pretend to be nice to me but would privately be thinking “oh my god, he’s so pathetic and disgusting, how could he ever think I’d be interested in someone as repulsive as him?” I cannot allow that shit to happen.
she would complete demolish me
Why would you let a woman do that?
She would either laugh at me, or insult me, or she would pretend to be nice to me but would privately be thinking “oh my god, he’s so pathetic and disgusting, how could he ever think I’d be interested in someone as repulsive as him?”
Why would it matter if she was doing any of that?
Do you care that every transwoman in this thread is doing that right now?
No? Going to make it?
Why does having an "identity" attached to the rejection matter?
Assuming you haven't made a move on a woman since you were 16, you haven't offered a woman of any kind of connection.
Because no woman ever gave me the chance to offer her any kind of connection.
Even if they are burning for you. They do what you do, they bottle it. They hide it. They play games, they test you, because the only time they will make the mistake of showing clear and obvious interest is once their are fully certain that you won't burn them.
But that’s me. That’s how I feel. How am I supposed to be certain that women won’t destroy and humiliate me if I express romantic interest in them?
Come on at least give me hope
How old are you?
discord is not fucking doxxing yourself jesus christ. why are you being so weird about this. you literally do not actually want to improve, otherwise you would be doing something else. you want to complain about your problems and sulk in your own misery and hope you get insanely lucky and have an autistic tranny immediately obsess over you so you dont have to deal with your genuinely childish fear of rejection.
nobody here will fix you, anon. if this is your mindset, literally nothing can
Why would you let a woman do that?
I wouldn’t. That’s why I don’t ever ask women out or ever express interest in them.
Do you care that every transwoman in this thread is doing that right now?
Yes, it makes me feel like garbage and like I’m a failure as a man.
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Just fucking try
Ask some tranny out
Stop wasting your time
Discord is doxxing myself. It would connect all my Anon Babble posts to my wider internet identity. I can’t let that happen.
Even fucking Chris Chan gets women
What does someone like that have that I don't?
confidence. chris chan has plenty of confidence in making a move, you know, the thing that everyone in this thread has been screaming at you to take to heart. chris chan has so little good going on, but is willing to talk and get rejected and try again. it's like you're somehow still missing this factor even though it's right in front of you. so what's the problem? is it the face to face aspect? the fact they might see you again somewhere else? try to deal with that for now. go talk up some people on discord or something. sure it's maybe cringe, but at least it's something. build up your confidence from there. you certainly have the capacity for it judging by how absolutely steadfast and confident you've been in your belief that you're somehow the exception. the truth is that you're not the exception. there are lots of other guys who had a similar experience to you, but many of them acknowledge that they could have done something different. here's the thing: you will never make any progress unless you do something different than what you're doing now. if your current strategy isn't working, try a different one. if that doesn't work, try something else again. there's basically nothing anybody else here can tell you, and if you keep rejecting all the advice being thrown your way, you will never change and keep going in circles forever wondering why it's not working.
No, she’ll reject me and think I’m disgusting and pathetic for even imagining she could be interested in me.
I deny you are a real person
You can’t be real
I am the exception. I am the one and only man on this earth who women won’t ever consider as a romantic option.
How else do you explain the fact I have interacted with literally hundreds of women in my life and not one has ever displayed interest in me as a potential romantic partner?
But that’s me. That’s how I feel
Then you will remain in a permanent stalemate with women for the rest of your life.
Why?
Because somebody's gotta make the first move and most men do not behave the way you do. They are willing to make the first move. They win her heart (or at least her pussy) while you perpetually sit on the sidelines and watch. Even if she was the type to approach you are already too late because another man didn't sit by and wait, they saw something they wanted and they took it.
How am I supposed to be certain that women won’t destroy and humiliate me if I express romantic interest in them?
You start to care more about having your penis touched than someone saying they don't want to touch it.
How can I make the first move when 100% of women assume I’m pathetic and disgusting?
How can I make the first move when 100% of women assume I’m pathetic and disgusting?
You make the first move and get called pathetic and disgusting then you find a new girl and do it again until you learn how to stop being called pathetic and disgusting.
But that will destroy me as a person. I can’t go through with that.
make a new burner account then moron. im starting to think you literally just get off on calling yourself pathetic and gross. which, by the way, is pathetic and gross. if you actually want to change, and i mean ACTUALLY, like youre willing to TRY, the very first step is to just stop doing that. or focus on the good aspects of urself
There are no good aspects of myself. I am a terrible human being.
But that will destroy me as a person
Why do you let other people's opinions determine your internal self value?
Just stop doing that.
Rejection doesn't matter at all.
It does matter. If women hate me then I might as well just kill myself.
it's not worth interacting with you at this point. you just blatantly choose to not accept something that could change you for the better. you seem to take comfort in the misery you've set yourself to
you probably should deal with your confidence and self-loathing issues before you ask someone out. it's hard for me as well, but it's not impossible. like come on dude, you just need to break out of your cycle that's filled with your predetermined results
ok? so am i. i feel like im less than human all the time. everyone has terrible things about themselves. if you have literally nothing redeemable, find something. if you actually cared, you could turn to people you look up to, irl or online, and literally steal what makes you like them. its autistic, but it works.
It does matter
Why? Elaborate. Self reflect for even a moment.
I can’t imitate other people because I’m not even a real human being.
Every time I try to copy what other people do, it doesn’t work. I come across extremely awkward, stiff, and creepy in everything I do. There’s something seriously wrong with me. It’s not even autism, even every other autistic person doesn’t act like me, even terminally retarded low-functioning autists act more human than me.
im not a real human being either. like, what do you want me to do about it? boohoo your life fucking sucks, there a million resources online you could find to help you with it, but you dont actually care, do you?
anon, you have 2 options, the same 2 options that every human fundamentally has to choose between: try, or kill yourself.
and you really seem to hate trying
You don’t understand. I’m not normal. My life is uniquely bad. The things that have happened to me don’t happen to anybody else. I am special, in a bad way.
So this is an LLM trained on r9k posts or something? Incel-GPT?
No, I’m real, and my life is far worse than any Anon Babble poster’s is.
i think you are unironically a narcissist. like, with the personality disorder and everything. and narcissists dont even have to be bad people either, you let yourself be one. my life fucking sucks ass, if i could be transported to your body with my gender dysphoria gone id be so fucking glad.
i cant help you, this is the last message im sending in the thread. theres literally so much advice here you could actually listen to, but it sounds like you dont actually want to live your life. if thats the case, maybe you should just kill yourself. thats what id do
Id gladly live with gender dysphoria if it meant the ungodly hell inside my head and the 24/7 embarrassments would go away.
I don't know anon this seems like the exact kind of thing an LLM would say to being called an LLM.